Helping

[Charu]

Oh, this is a good topic I think.

While there's good helping and bad helping, I think the bigger picture is people's benefit.

When you help someone, there's always a benefit involved. Doesn't matter what kind of benefit, could be a mental benefit or physical benefit. This is all fine and dandy because who doesn't love benefits; the feeling of accomplishment when you help someone, the happiness you feel when you finally understand something because someone nudged you the right way, the joy of getting something for little work when you know it takes hard work.

The evil part comes in when people love those benefits but show no compassion for the helper or to understand how they were just helped. It's these people that usually are greedy with anything they can get their hands on. In such, they have no remorse or pity for anyone but themselves.

I think once you see someone express themselves in this way, that's when you should cut ties immediately. It's just too bad that those people will go the lengths to try to get benefits from you that I believe some will go as far as threaten and harass you to give them the benefit.

...People are interesting...