wanna give me some guy advice?

[onfir4now]

Ok so a couple months ago my good friend that i have had a crush on for almost a whole year asked me out. and i surprised everyone by saying no because i wasn't ready for a relashonship yet. and now he is one of my best friends and i like him alot but the problem is that mt other friend just so happend to be the object of his affections, not me, i know this because they both told me that she liked him and another guy and she decided to go out with the other guy like a sampling service and then he dumped her and the very same night she IMed me telling me that she was going to ask todd out and i called todd and told her all of the mean stuff she did and i said "so are you gunna go out with her" and he said "yeah she's hot and she likes me so whats the problem?" and i told him that if she was willing to hurt him once she'd be willing to do it again but he didn't belive meand now their going out and its going great but where does that leave me? and on top of that their both coming to my birthday party tommarow night and i think they might come together and that'll be really weird!!! what should i do

[Tokzic]

we really need a "whine about your relationship problems" forum

[Angel Shiyue]

Originally Posted by Tokzic

we really need a "whine about your relationship problems" forum

Agree.

[skishmonkey72]

Knowing where one sentence stops and where another begins would help me to understand a whole lot better, and maybe even help you. Please use punctuation at the ends of your sentences, please.

[unkdavar]

I got lost somewhere in the middle.

[Grandiagod]

Wall of text protects against any attempt to read.

[_ReVeNGe_]

Holy **** run-on.

[Tibs]

Lead him to believe you are willing to have sex with him.

[jewpinthethird]

Sounds like you missed the boat, sister.

The ship has set sail without you.

All you can do is stand on the shore a hope that the ship sinks.

[Windscarredfaith]

Here's what you need to learn how to do:

Move on.

[jewpinthethird]

I can't vouch for all males, but I don't take to kindly to being denied.

And "I'm not ready for a relationship" is a bullsh*t excuse if I've ever heard one...even if it is true, it's still a bullsh*t excuse.

[Billydude]

I say your friend and the girl are just retards. jklol

[PMS Beast]

Don't do a guy if you are a guy.

[acknerr]

I have to level with you, I started getting really confused about half way through. Anyway can you simplify that with a few words?

[Grandiagod]

After carefully not reading your post I will give you the most important piece of advice about men you will ever receive.

Do something with his penis that causes him pleasure. He will like this, and in turn, like you.

[this_n00b_rocks]

I believe what she's trying to say is...

Originally Posted by onfir4now

Ok. So a couple months ago, my good friend(whom I've had a crush on for almost a whole year) asked me out. I surprised everyone by saying no because I wasn't ready for a relationship yet. Now he is one of my best friends. I like him a lot, but the problem is that my other friend happened to be the object of his affections, not me. I know this because they both told me that my other friend liked him and another guy.[b She[/b] decided to go out with the other guy like a sampling service and then he dumped her;[b] the very same night she IMed me, telling me that she was going to ask Todd out. I called Todd and told her all of the mean stuff she did. I asked, "So, are you gonna go out with her?" He said, "Yeah. She's hot and she likes me, so what's the problem?". I told him that if she was willing to hurt him once, she'd be willing to do it again, but he didn't believe me. Now they're going out and it's going great, but where does that leave me? And on top of that, they're both coming to my birthday party tomorrow night. I think they might come together, and that'll be really weird! What should I do?

[super kid]

Originally Posted by Windscarredfaith

Here's what you need to learn how to do:

Move on.

This is right. Maybe he isnt right for you.

[acknerr]

I'm not sure why, but I suddenly understand it now (weird). Just don't let it be awkward and act cool. Be their friend and don't get too involved in their affairs. If you weren't ready for a relationship yet, that's cool, but I still don't see why you turned him down if you really like(d) him. Should have just let it run it's course and see what happened. If they break up and you still want to see him, just go out with him sometime as a way too chear him up and don't let it seem like a date at first, then slowly ease into things. If you two are great friends as it is, going out with him wouldn't change too much. Just play it smoothly and things will happen as they were meant to.

[RevenG-]

Blow him... :dodgy: :dodgy: :dodgy:

Originally Posted by Tokzic

we really need a "whine about your relationship problems" forum

OMG! HAHAHA!!! QFTW

[acknerr]

Originally Posted by RevenG-

Blow him... :dodgy: :dodgy: :dodgy:

OMG! HAHAHA!!! QFTW

Well, not the greatest advice I've ever heard, but hey, whatever works.