Yeah...help

masterhickle · 02-1-2006, 06:26 PM

God knows I need this help...

A'ight, just a forewarning, this involves my g/f...
Ok...she holds high expectations for me, but none whatsoever for herself...like this one:
She's the one that wants to be able to talk about anything for any length of time (yes, we're on the quiet side)
-She's the one who will hardly say anything
-She's the one who won't say more than a sentence or two to me on AIM unless I beat her with the proverbial conversation stick...

So yeah...WTF DO I DO????

Edit: Should put this in...parents are being of no help...they're all "cold shoulder for a few days"....friend is of no help....what I've been doing already is what he's been telling me to do

**-Fallen-** · 02-1-2006, 06:34 PM

Maybe if you weren't 13 years old and of proper age to have a girlfriend you might not be asking a forum of idiots.

**FishFishRevolution** · 02-1-2006, 06:42 PM

This could be a sign that she's not ready for a relationship, or that she wants to break it off. Maybe you just shouldn't try forcing her so much, just chill out and see what she does from there.

masterhickle · 02-1-2006, 07:04 PM

1) Fallen, you can F"CK OFF, I dun care how good ya are at FFR/SM...I need some kinda views from people that I dont know; therefore get unbiased ideas/opinions...so yeah...F"CK OFF

2) To FishFishRevolution, I've tried that...but the nothing I get in response only gets me yelled at, or gets her ticked off at me....I dunno why

TheRaiRaiEatsBalloons · 02-1-2006, 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by masterhickle

only gets me yelled at, or gets her ticked off at me

In that case you're dating a shallow stupid bitch who PMSes 24/7 and you should fucking dump her.

Tonberry_Kid · 02-1-2006, 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheRaiRaiEatsBalloons

Quote:

Originally Posted by masterhickle

only gets me yelled at, or gets her ticked off at me

In that case you're dating a shallow stupid bitch who PMSes 24/7 and you should fucking dump her.

QFT...No one deserves to be treated like that.

TheRaiRaiEatsBalloons · 02-1-2006, 07:22 PM

If you're dating someone for any reason other than:

1: you genuinely enjoy their compony and love them as a companion

2: you're actually getting some

or 3: all of the above

you probably shouldn't be dating them.

Tonberry_Kid · 02-1-2006, 07:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheRaiRaiEatsBalloons

If you're dating someone for any reason other than:

1: you genuinely enjoy their company and love them as a companion

2: you're actually getting some

or 3: all of the above

you probably shouldn't be dating them.

QFT...AGAIN.

**-Fallen-** · 02-1-2006, 07:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by masterhickle

1) Fallen, you can F"CK OFF, I dun care how good ya are at FFR/SM...I need some kinda views from people that I dont know; therefore get unbiased ideas/opinions...so yeah...F"CK OFF

2) To FishFishRevolution, I've tried that...but the nothing I get in response only gets me yelled at, or gets her ticked off at me....I dunno why

Where does FFR and SM come into this thread? Moron. Go cry elsewhere.

ImEric12 · 02-1-2006, 07:52 PM

And yeah... your statement yelling at Robby only seems to prove his point more.

**FishFishRevolution** · 02-1-2006, 07:56 PM

I think you should tell her you're not enjoying the relationship because she's too quiet and you never know how she feels. If she really likes you she's respond and try to change. If she's a 13 year old bitch she'll get defensive and break up with you.

I agree with Rai, you're probably better off without her.

FoJaR · 02-1-2006, 08:06 PM

put the you-know-what in the you-know-where

**FishFishRevolution** · 02-1-2006, 08:19 PM

NaOTa4231 · 02-1-2006, 08:24 PM

From what you said it seems like you two don't have the best relationship. Depending on how serious your relationship is, try not dating for a while and see what happens.

If you are around 13 or just mainly see each other at school then I would just break up b/c it seems like it's not going to work out.

B0NK · 02-1-2006, 08:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FoJaR

put the you-know-what in the you-know-where

exactly.

gotta love BHG

masterhickle · 02-1-2006, 08:50 PM

Alright...time to clear up some things

First off...I didnt even find out about this game (and DDR, and SM for that matter) until I was 15....Im currently 17 (just recently, about a week ago)...she's 16 (end of last june)

And as for Fallen...I didnt start anything with him, I was merely seeking outside help...but what does he do? Comes in and starts on me like I'm a hated enemy...what is so wrong with seeking outside opinions?

Demon_Lord57 · 02-1-2006, 09:04 PM

how to put this...fallen if ur not gonna help go fuk urself sumwhere else unless u have sum useful help which i doubt you do...but neway ya if your haven trouble talkin to her or vies versa just try this everytime a subject is complete toss it and instantly brg up a new one and start with it and so on...

NaOTa4231 · 02-1-2006, 09:06 PM

There are plenty of girls out there. Don't worry about it too much.

dontcareaboutmyid · 02-1-2006, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Demon_Lord57

how to put this...fallen if ur not gonna help go fuk urself sumwhere else unless u have sum useful help which i doubt you do...but neway ya if your haven trouble talkin to her or vies versa just try this everytime a subject is complete toss it and instantly brg up a new one and start with it and so on...

who are you? IP check plz k thx

back on topic: No one cares about high school when they get out, trust me. You might keep the same friends, but every stupid thing you did will become funny stories of the past. Unless you plan on marrying the girl, which I don't see happening, don't worry about it. Dump here and tell her you like your right hand better, in a very sarcastic way. This should lead to her laughing and you two remaining friends, or her being very grossed out and you not having to deal with her anymore. There is a chance you will become a social reject, but its a risk i'm willing to take.

**FishFishRevolution** · 02-2-2006, 08:30 AM

ip check: he's his own man.

If you're only in a relationship to have a companion, this isn't what you want.

PS don't do what dontcareaboutmyid said.

02-1-2006, 06:26 PM	#1
masterhickle FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you Age: 37 Posts: 557	Yeah...help God knows I need this help... A'ight, just a forewarning, this involves my g/f... Ok...she holds high expectations for me, but none whatsoever for herself...like this one: She's the one that wants to be able to talk about anything for any length of time (yes, we're on the quiet side) -She's the one who will hardly say anything -She's the one who won't say more than a sentence or two to me on AIM unless I beat her with the proverbial conversation stick... So yeah...WTF DO I DO???? Edit: Should put this in...parents are being of no help...they're all "cold shoulder for a few days"....friend is of no help....what I've been doing already is what he's been telling me to do

02-1-2006, 06:34 PM	#2
-Fallen- xqsite OG Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Age: 38 Posts: 2,836	RE: Yeah...help Maybe if you weren't 13 years old and of proper age to have a girlfriend you might not be asking a forum of idiots. __________________ One of the original members of the xqsite + FFR community. BlankZero - 15 year vet + RobbyZero - 15 year vet

02-1-2006, 06:42 PM	#3
FishFishRevolution GotR Creator Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Vi sitter här i venten Current Band: The National Age: 38 Posts: 7,251	RE: Yeah...help This could be a sign that she's not ready for a relationship, or that she wants to break it off. Maybe you just shouldn't try forcing her so much, just chill out and see what she does from there. __________________

02-1-2006, 07:52 PM	#10
ImEric12 FFR Player Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Next to Hooker Land. :o Posts: 1,952	And yeah... your statement yelling at Robby only seems to prove his point more. __________________

02-1-2006, 07:56 PM	#11
FishFishRevolution GotR Creator Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Vi sitter här i venten Current Band: The National Age: 38 Posts: 7,251	I think you should tell her you're not enjoying the relationship because she's too quiet and you never know how she feels. If she really likes you she's respond and try to change. If she's a 13 year old bitch she'll get defensive and break up with you. I agree with Rai, you're probably better off without her. __________________

02-1-2006, 07:04 PM	#4
masterhickle FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you Age: 37 Posts: 557	1) Fallen, you can F"CK OFF, I dun care how good ya are at FFR/SM...I need some kinda views from people that I dont know; therefore get unbiased ideas/opinions...so yeah...F"CK OFF 2) To FishFishRevolution, I've tried that...but the nothing I get in response only gets me yelled at, or gets her ticked off at me....I dunno why

02-1-2006, 07:22 PM	#7
TheRaiRaiEatsBalloons Banned Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: oh silly! Posts: 1,048	If you're dating someone for any reason other than: 1: you genuinely enjoy their compony and love them as a companion 2: you're actually getting some or 3: all of the above you probably shouldn't be dating them.

02-1-2006, 08:06 PM	#12
FoJaR The Worst Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: space ghost is dead to me Posts: 2,816	put the you-know-what in the you-know-where __________________

02-1-2006, 08:19 PM	#13
FishFishRevolution GotR Creator Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Vi sitter här i venten Current Band: The National Age: 38 Posts: 7,251	__________________

02-1-2006, 08:24 PM	#14
NaOTa4231 FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: In a Galaxy far far away....... Posts: 743	From what you said it seems like you two don't have the best relationship. Depending on how serious your relationship is, try not dating for a while and see what happens. If you are around 13 or just mainly see each other at school then I would just break up b/c it seems like it's not going to work out. __________________ http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...ad.php?t=40490 1 Million Posts ^^^^^^^^^^ 8 )

02-1-2006, 08:50 PM	#16
masterhickle FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you Age: 37 Posts: 557	Alright...time to clear up some things First off...I didnt even find out about this game (and DDR, and SM for that matter) until I was 15....Im currently 17 (just recently, about a week ago)...she's 16 (end of last june) And as for Fallen...I didnt start anything with him, I was merely seeking outside help...but what does he do? Comes in and starts on me like I'm a hated enemy...what is so wrong with seeking outside opinions?

02-1-2006, 09:04 PM	#17
Demon_Lord57 FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2005 Age: 36 Posts: 16	how to put this...fallen if ur not gonna help go fuk urself sumwhere else unless u have sum useful help which i doubt you do...but neway ya if your haven trouble talkin to her or vies versa just try this everytime a subject is complete toss it and instantly brg up a new one and start with it and so on...

02-1-2006, 09:06 PM	#18
NaOTa4231 FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: In a Galaxy far far away....... Posts: 743	There are plenty of girls out there. Don't worry about it too much. __________________ http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...ad.php?t=40490 1 Million Posts ^^^^^^^^^^ 8 )

02-2-2006, 08:30 AM	#20
FishFishRevolution GotR Creator Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Vi sitter här i venten Current Band: The National Age: 38 Posts: 7,251	ip check: he's his own man. If you're only in a relationship to have a companion, this isn't what you want. PS don't do what dontcareaboutmyid said. __________________

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