What's a poor guy to do?

[Cavernio]

hehe, nice avatar emphasis laharl. Also, I agree with pretty much what's already been said. Suck it up. The best solution is to not let it bother you. Don't take things so seriously. I'm sure that's not what you want to hear though. If you want to stay, the best thing to do is ignore the past and ignore people/posts that piss you off. Arguing and bashing have 2 sides. If you ignore it, people will eventually stop.

kilga: One voice is never completely powerless, and if the impression the internet's given is that it makes everyone's voice powerless (do they magically have more power offline? Where there's less people to hear them?) then that's your own, tragic loss. Also, its sad that you think people do things only because they have legal or moral obligations to. Actually, I think listening to people IS a moral obligation you should have. And why do you ever say ANYTHING, from jokes to sports to work, if you don't want to get a point across?


ckj846: Wow, geez...I...don't even know where to begin with your post. Firstly, I disagree 100% that it isn't up to society to try and fix these problems. It's one of these things that society should/has forever been trying to improve. Your blanket statement means things like we shouldn't try and stop racism because 'that's life'. Yeah, that is life. Doesn't mean it can't be made better. Secondly, your next point, about going to see a psychologist about issues is contradictory to your first statement. Society has made the position of psychologist EXACTLY to deal with situations to make people happy. Whether you do it, or someone else does it, they're both part of society. Also, going to see a psychologist when you know exactly what the problem is and that if only something beyond your control were to stop, I don't think is adequate to see a psychologist over. Wow, Laharl is exhibiting signs that he wants attention. Damn right he wants attention. Wouldn't you want attention to the fact that people have treated you like ****? What on earth is so abnormal and problematic about that, that someone should go see a psychologist? You're also ignoring that this post was intended for a way to find a solution. Yeah, you're right, the only people qualified to give solutions to problems are psychologists. Gotta have that PhD to understand a person.
You say you're not bitching to us about your problems and that's a good thing. Are you saying you WANT to talk about them? I'm really not sure why not talking about your issues with someone is supposed to be beneficial. Oh that's right. You don't think that anyone else should have to listen to your problems. Well, if you don't want to be social, that's your own loss. And if you expect others to treat you the same, then you deserve the loneliness and the wall of pretenses you've probably put up. Plus, (huge thing here), I don't think your issues aren't stemming from your regular discourse on this site; Laharl's are. Your advice is that Laharl should go see a psychologist instead of confronting the people/forum that're causing the issue. That's some of the worst advice I've ever heard.