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what r u supposed to do when ur biological parents always fight, and ur mom is cheatin on ur step dad w. this asshole?! i need some advice...
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ouch. That is hard. I'm sorry. Do you get along with your parents?
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get parents for dummies or something
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Join Date: Aug 2003
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i see that you smoke weed thats one way to go
another way is to talk it out with your parents tell them that you dont like them fighting but try to avoid the whole cheating on your dad thing that might get your mom killed Also how old are you? If you can kick the shit outta this asshole cheating with your mom do it now. He is just causing trouble for your family. If you cant kick the shit outta him get him arrested. Or lie to your mom about him. I am not the best at giving advice and my advice probably sux but hey theres my 2 cents sry for you
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If you do get along with your parents, you might have to actually sit down with them (usually one at a time), and spell out what you know about what they are doing.
Sometimes, your dissaproval of them hurts more than you think. I don't mean telling them "You are the worst parents ever!" but instead, you have to talk to them as an adult, as a person who speaks rationally. If you mother doesn't care about your opinion, what could she care about. She gave you life and she still wouldn't care about you? I don't think so. Not getting angry while talking to them about it is one of the hardest things. You might not be able to have them reconciliate, but you can at least have them stop fighting, even if it is only because of their love for you. Both of them gave you life. You might be the only thing that the still have in common. They might need to understand that. |
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Join Date: Jun 2003
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how old are u? smoke weed till ur 17, then move out.
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weed=problems
licorice=good |
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Well who do you hate more? Your mom, or the guy she's cheating with? If you hate your mom for cheating, just tell your stepdad. If you hate the dude she's cheating with, tell her you know she's cheating and you're gonna tell your stepdad.
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Call sam
he can get you up to 1 million dollars |
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Well your stepdad is gonna be a lot madder if he finds out when they're making out at a movie or something, then if you tell him.
Here's an idea. Stick em on Jerry Springer, let em fight it out over national television. That always seems to do the trick. |
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Here's an idea. Stick em on Jerry Springer, let em fight it out over national television. That always seems to do the trick.[/quote]
thanks for the advice on that 1, but shit they would kill me b4 they stopped fighting... |
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I was kidding, you realize.
Although I still think it'd be funny. XD |
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yea but still it was the thought that counted. i would really like to do it tho. see how they all like that, mayb things would be solved!? no 1 knos... every day, i look at her logs to see whats in store for the nex day when im at school... doesnt really help me w. ne thing, jus makes me more pissed off at my mom n that asshole.
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Anyways, Beat the crap outta the guy your mom is cheating with, and if thats not possible, call the cops on him and your mom, even if your mom gets arrested, it's her fault anyway.
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If you care about your mother, you might want to just tell her you know.
I'm looking at all the posts, I think mine is like the only nice way. You need to aim for peace before you aim for war, if you get what I mean. |
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i really dont care bout my mom. shes nothin but a bitch. the only ones i care bout is my step dad n somewhat my dad even tho i dont get to see him much. i mean its bull shit that she wont let me over there, even tho he is 1 town away, i mean wtf. =/. my mom kinda knows that i kno, but she fully isnt sure. she has an idea.... but i jus dont kno how to confront her, n the best time... i mean dinner time isnt good, i kno that!
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Well, talking and expressing your feelings is usually the way to go...but some people need to be roughed up before they listen.
If they fight like children, treat them like children. Give them a mental "spanking". If they fight like civilized adults, treat them like civilized adults. |
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If you feel that your step-father needs to know, you might have to go to him first. It does seem like tattling, but doing nothing is sometime the worst thing to do.
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