I'm gonna get so much grief for writing this.....

[sk8r_daniel]

I didn't read all the topics, but leets face it....human's are too complex to be monogamous. The only reason we think we are is because society tells us to be..and society is created by a collective of thoughts....some more influental than others. The best way to go about it is not to play blame games and be compassionate and respect your partner's feelings and vice versa. At the same time you have to evaluate your own feelings and if they are valid. Remember you are not always right... (sorry this was a very broad statement, but i seriously think it would solve alot of problems if everyone followed it.) We always get the select idiots who purposefully hurt other people or hurt other peole without even knowing it because they don't take the time to think about what they are doing.