06-26-2018, 06:54 PM | #81 | |
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06-26-2018, 07:40 PM | #82 | |
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[probably dont waste your time reading this, thank] i feel like if someones in the process of transitioning they're kinda in a grey area until they find themselves satisfactory. reshaping isnt yet complete. would be rude to address the idea unless they address it first; asking someone or anyone who wasnt happy enough with their given sex that they were determined enough to seek change what they would prefer to identify as while they've still yet to achieve that preference is just kinda stupid really. given some self-consciousness and a little introspection on transitioning parties behalf and that question of their present being could easily seed anxious conflicts on who and what they are, are not, were, will become, feel they truly are, know they observably are and everything inbetween. asking for a perspective on the destination from someone whose still undertaking the journey. potentials for discomfort are too damn high. actually same.. too damn high.. then again i don't think.. and in that scenario: people probably wouldn't have the time to think much either. more likely reflexively respond with their ideal without much self-awareness. so you've just wasted time reading another one of my homemade tangential hypothetical reflections. blindly brought to you by someone who doesn't have any experience on the subject and just wanted to take a moment to leisurely shitpost. :^) sorry for spamming your ama driz; my bad~ also extra sorry if i managed to fuck with anyones head there. the intention wasn't to harm, don't worry a little existentialism is good for you Last edited by Moria; 06-26-2018 at 07:53 PM.. |
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06-26-2018, 08:08 PM | #83 | |
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06-26-2018, 10:41 PM | #84 |
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Re: Transgender AMA
How do you feel when people misgender you? I slip up occasionally when talking to a trans person who doesn't pass as their gender. It's an accident but eheheh
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06-27-2018, 02:54 AM | #85 | |
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i used to be really anxious when that happened but i don't have to question myself anymore
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06-27-2018, 03:19 AM | #86 |
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Re: Transgender AMA
how often are you misgendered?
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06-27-2018, 07:46 AM | #87 |
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Back when I had long hair I would often be mistaken as female and it really got to me, and that was even without gender identity taking into play; I imagine it's much more aggravating and upsetting for you too, sorry that you have to deal with it
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06-27-2018, 08:21 AM | #88 |
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Re: Transgender AMA
legitimate question: what do you want to do when people make "did u just assume my gender?" jokes?
I'm cis, never seen a trans person say that sentence, and any time I hear it I want to beat the living shit out of whoever made the joke not bc bigotry but bc STOP SAYING THE SAME JOKE OVER AND OVER GODDAMNIT
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06-27-2018, 10:36 AM | #89 | |
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06-27-2018, 10:37 AM | #90 | |
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i'm never mis-gendered anymore
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i also love when people make fun of how many genders there are now lol even though i respect all genders
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06-27-2018, 10:45 AM | #91 |
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Re: Transgender AMA
What is your opinion on gender neutral bathrooms? What would be the most comfortable solution for public bathrooms for transpeople in your opinion?
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06-27-2018, 10:56 AM | #92 | |
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actually even though i'm never mis-gendered anymore some of my old files still have my old name like the voting place so i get really defensive when they still have the old name i used to use
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i think every single place with a restroom should have a gender neutral bathroom in addition to the women's and men's bathroom yeah it feels like my entire existence is being attacked
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06-27-2018, 03:45 PM | #93 |
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How long did it take you after HRT to start passing?
How old were you when you started? Did you ever have those awkward moments when you met an old friend after you've transitioned? Did your current group of friends take it well when you broke the news? |
06-27-2018, 08:08 PM | #94 |
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Are there any specific laws or regulations regarding transgender individuals that you would like to see changed/added/removed?
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06-27-2018, 08:14 PM | #95 | ||
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yeah, i had seen a friend at the grocery store i used to spend time with all the time, and he worked there as a stock person i think, and i wasn't sure if he was the person i knew at first because he looked a lot older than the last time i saw him, so i was trying to find out whether he was my old friend or not, and he didn't know i was transgender and he recognized me, so he called me by the name i used to use so i told him assertively my name is Rebecca and before i could say hi he said something like "oh, nevermind; i have the wrong person" and walked away, and i never got a chance to talk with him again yeah, my best friend supported me completely as soon as i told him in 12th grade and he didn't mind at all; however we went to different colleges so we haven't talked that much in about six years; the only friends i spend time with right now are all online and they all know i'm transgender Quote:
i really like the law President Obama passed that allows transgender individuals (and everyone else) to use any bathroom they want i really detest that all people in the United States who were physically born male even if they're transgender and have their legal gender and name changed have to sign something when you're 18/an adult that forces you to enlist for the military if there's a military draft until you're 26, and if you don't sign it you have to pay a $500,000 fine and/or go to jail i wouldn't mind if people who were physically born female were also forced to enlist, but only people who were physically born male are forced to enlist which is extremely inconsiderate i want the law to be changed so that everyone who's 18 and over has to sign unless they don't agree with serving in the military or have some other special circumstance why they can't or don't want to serve in the military also if someone who's transgender goes to jail they should be able to choose whether to stay with females, males, or in a separate cell IMO
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06-27-2018, 09:14 PM | #96 | |
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06-27-2018, 10:04 PM | #97 | ||
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06-28-2018, 08:57 AM | #98 | |
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What type of bathing suit do you currently use?
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06-28-2018, 09:17 AM | #99 |
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Re: Transgender AMA
Do you actually agree with the draft or do you just think everyone should be forced to sign up for equality sake? Would you ever consider serving in the military voluntarily? Would you feel that it would be safe for you to be around military type people in that setting?
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06-28-2018, 09:48 AM | #100 |
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Re: Transgender AMA
Once you start the transition from male to female you don't want to just look like a girl, but to also be 100% or close to a girl as possible i assume. This not only includes passing for others but passing for yourself, being happy with the end result.
My questions are about any physical insecurities you may or may not have with either current or during transitional periods leading to being a female. Being born male and transitioning to female will definitely present these hurdles. I'm coming late to the discussion, feel copy paste any answers you may have answered, since this might be kind of a lot. Sorry in advance for repeated questions! How do you feel trying to change your pitch to sound more female? Is it possible to have a natural flowing female voice? The male shape is more squareish, and female more curvy naturally; do you find yourself to have either more of a male or female shape now, did it take surgeries, and does it take convincing yourself that you look the way you want now, or are working towards the desired frame? (this also includes facial features, like a strong jaw bone, or browlines etc.) Even with gender reassignment surgery, do you fear that your genitals may not look cosmetically pleasing, extended also to boobs? Related to orgasms, I assume females have more nerves, or can experience more orgasms than men, is this the case for you? Has the transition heigtened, lowered, or remained the same to your susceptibility in this regard? The decision to have gender reassignment done is probably tough even if you are positive you want to transition, have you decided to go through with it? If not, is it important to eventually have it done? Has your ability to reproduce also transitioned to that of a female? If not does that bother you personally? If so, or if you know someone who is bothered that they can't, what are some opinions there? Do you have periods? Do you fear that after sinking in lots of time and effort, changing social status, changing your body, changing your mind, and changing your internal hormones among probably other things, that you might change your mind at some point, and want back what you had before? Are there any other personal physical hurdles I haven't addressed that you can or would like to share? Do you pass as female for yourself? Others is cool, but this is important. And finally, are you happy?
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