Dad's girlfriend.

Wize2B · 10-23-2011, 02:19 AM

Has anyone not liked your Dad’s girlfriend and if so, what did you do?

**psychoangel691** · 10-23-2011, 02:31 AM

Yep, my dad's now married to her. I wont get into my story so much but it's a hard situation. Especially if you used to be close with your dad and now it feels like she's kinda in the way. You can try talking about it with him and explain what's bugging you. Try to reach some kind of compromise. Or end up like me where I never even hear from my dad. He doesn't even bother to see how his granddaughter is :/

**rushyrulz** · 10-23-2011, 02:31 AM

I stormed out of the house when she was talking shit about me behind my back, which resulted in my not going back to my dad's house for weeks until he finally broke up with her because he realized that she was a total bitch, just like I realized the day I met her.

**TC_Halogen** · 10-23-2011, 02:34 AM

Somewhat similar situation, but different outcome: my parents were together for almost 20 years before breaking apart -- my mom has a resentment towards my father's new girlfriend, and she also expects me to carry that resentment over because she gave birth to me. It's incredibly unfair for her to expect me to carry that kind of attitude, because she's essentially trying to dictate my morals from 700 miles away.

My father's new girlfriend doesn't start drama at all, and actually, she seems quite nice and well-mannered.

**Emo_Saur_** · 10-23-2011, 02:35 AM

Yeah, it sucks dude. I've told my dad countless time about how much I can't stand her he just doesn't care. Best of luck though, I can't really help with this since I'm in the same exact situation as you are.

**rushyrulz** · 10-23-2011, 02:47 AM

Then he tried to tell me she had some thyroid disease that made her a bitch..

Ok, I'm also guessing she had OCD, bi-polar disorder, and ****ed-up syndrome because she carries a giant bottle of sanitizer everywhere she goes, totally loses her temper over the most minor of things and is fine 3 minutes later, and she wants to go down to the river to see the flood damage and houses underwater. What a ****ed up bitch.

**Emo_Saur_** · 10-23-2011, 02:51 AM

Rushy gettin' all heated. Dude, it'll be all good, move the **** out.

**Coolboyrulez0** · 10-23-2011, 03:22 AM

Nope, glad to not have problems like these. Mom & Dad still together after 20+ years, grandparents over 50 years now :')

**rushyrulz** · 10-23-2011, 03:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Emo_Saur_

Rushy gettin' all heated. Dude, it'll be all good, move the **** out.

She's gone now so I ain't moving nowhere :P

**ichliebekase** · 10-23-2011, 09:44 AM

Similar situation but it's my grandfather's girlfriend (now wife) that I didn't/don't like. She came around shortly after my brother was born and she's just a stuck-up, snotty goody-two-shoes. I was a trouble-maker and liked to run around and play like a normal kid, but around her, I had to be a "proper little lady". She turned my grandpop into a COMPLETE asshole and now I refuse to speak to either of them, especially since Jaselynn was born. His ex-wife (my grandmom) is amazing though and she met a guy before I was born and he's the best. Even my mom says that he's a better father than her own father was.

justin_ator · 10-23-2011, 09:57 AM

Problems with my step-dad rather than step-mom, and yet to be resolved.

Which is really interesting since it was my step-mom who caused the divorce between my parents by cheating with my dad. I have less of a problem with her than I do with my step-dad.

**BethanyBangs** · 10-23-2011, 09:58 AM

Dad's girlfriend is the lady that my dad cheated on my mom with and made them divorce when I was 11. I hated her for years and years, I just recently got over it and realized I'm happy with my life I guess, having a stepmom and a stepdad, a dad and a mom in two separate homes. Dad's married to her now, and in our culture I HAVE to call her mom or else it's disrespecting her. They also have a baby, my only brother that's a year old. Can't really do anything if your dad is in love with her~

**rushyrulz** · 10-23-2011, 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by BethanyBangs

in our culture I HAVE to call her mom or else it's disrespecting her.

I would find this extremely difficult if not impossible to do :F.

**BethanyBangs** · 10-23-2011, 11:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rushyrulz

I would find this extremely difficult if not impossible to do :F.

Ohoho it was hard. Very hard. Whenever I slipped up and caller her by her first name I was like fuc! But now it's a regular thang. I still find it odd when I leave to come back here to Mom's and she's like "Bye I love you!" I just say it back.. LOL

LJRoX · 10-23-2011, 11:16 AM

Bethany that's why azn culture sucks

I hate my culture too much where I say I straight up to both of my parents: I hate filipinos

**iironiic** · 10-23-2011, 11:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LJRoX

Bethany that's why azn culture sucks

I can easily vouch for this. I still love my parents though haha.

**BethanyBangs** · 10-23-2011, 11:27 AM

otays lj and rilson that's why we no marry azns!!!!!!!11

**Cold Kitten** · 10-23-2011, 02:39 PM

Problem with my mom's boyfriend. Then again, I'm not particularly fond of my mother to begin with... (long story). But yeah. I don't like either of them, and around my mom he pretends to like me, but as soon as we're not around her, it's a completely different story and whatnot. Not a whole lot I can do about it though. x.x;

Wize2B · 10-23-2011, 04:51 PM

Psychangel691
That is too bad, he does not know what he is missing, he will regret it someday!

Rushyrulz
Wow, she must have been bad, how did you know the first time you met her that you did not like her?

She must have said something pretty bad about you if you stormed out of the house.

I wish I could figure out a way to make her leave, but here is my problem. She is nice and not a b**** like your dad’s girlfriend was. The three of us do things together and she is nice to me. She tries to include me. She buys me and my dad things on holidays to show that she wants to be my friend. Her and I have even done things together. I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I just do not like anyone around except my dad and I. I am sure that sounds weird and selfish to most of you. I know I should want my dad to find someone and be happy since he and my mom divorced. I just don’t know what to do.

TCHalogen
That is too bad. I have that same thing too. My Mom says bad things about my Dad’s girlfriend and my Dad. I just don’t say much when she does.

Emo_Saur
Yeah dude, it does suck.

Subin
Hopefully she will realize that it is natural for kids to want to be with the parent/person that was there for them during their childhood years, especially if they were good to you.

Coolboyrulez0
You are so fortunate.

Icliebekase, justin_ator, BethanyBangs and Cold Kitten
I know it is hard.

**benguino** · 10-23-2011, 05:51 PM

I lived with my mom for most of my life. Let's just say it's a long story with a lot of people I have to deal with (mom, dad, mom's current boyfriend, mom's ex-boyfriend, mom's ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriends, mom's current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, dad's wife, dad's ex-girlfriend, and the families of all those people I listed). It gets complicated really fast. I love both of my parents though. Although I wasn't too fond of my mom's boyfriend, I'm an adult now and he respects that so we are on equal terms with each other now (although I still don't like hanging out with him)

10-23-2011, 02:19 AM	#1
Wize2B FFR Player Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 11	Dad's girlfriend. Has anyone not liked your Dad’s girlfriend and if so, what did you do?

10-23-2011, 02:31 AM	#3
rushyrulz Digital Dancing! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 80 billion club, NE Age: 33 Posts: 12,985	Re: Dad's girlfriend. I stormed out of the house when she was talking shit about me behind my back, which resulted in my not going back to my dad's house for weeks until he finally broke up with her because he realized that she was a total bitch, just like I realized the day I met her. __________________

10-23-2011, 02:34 AM	#4
TC_Halogen Rhythm game specialist. Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Bel Air, Maryland Age: 34 Posts: 19,376	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Somewhat similar situation, but different outcome: my parents were together for almost 20 years before breaking apart -- my mom has a resentment towards my father's new girlfriend, and she also expects me to carry that resentment over because she gave birth to me. It's incredibly unfair for her to expect me to carry that kind of attitude, because she's essentially trying to dictate my morals from 700 miles away. My father's new girlfriend doesn't start drama at all, and actually, she seems quite nice and well-mannered.

10-23-2011, 02:35 AM	#5
Emo_Saur_ FFR Veteran Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Kansas City, Missouri. Age: 33 Posts: 2,952	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Yeah, it sucks dude. I've told my dad countless time about how much I can't stand her he just doesn't care. Best of luck though, I can't really help with this since I'm in the same exact situation as you are. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

10-23-2011, 02:47 AM	#6
rushyrulz Digital Dancing! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 80 billion club, NE Age: 33 Posts: 12,985	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Then he tried to tell me she had some thyroid disease that made her a bitch.. Ok, I'm also guessing she had OCD, bi-polar disorder, and **ed-up syndrome because she carries a giant bottle of sanitizer everywhere she goes, totally loses her temper over the most minor of things and is fine 3 minutes later, and she wants to go down to the river to see the flood damage and houses underwater. What a *ed up bitch. __________________ Last edited by rushyrulz; 10-23-2011 at 02:50 AM..*

10-23-2011, 02:51 AM	#7
Emo_Saur_ FFR Veteran Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Kansas City, Missouri. Age: 33 Posts: 2,952	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Rushy gettin' all heated. Dude, it'll be all good, move the **** out. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

10-23-2011, 03:22 AM	#8
Coolboyrulez0 VICES Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Germany Age: 32 Posts: 10,042	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Nope, glad to not have problems like these. Mom & Dad still together after 20+ years, grandparents over 50 years now :') __________________ https://soundcloud.com/cbrbreakcore https://cbrrecords.bandcamp.com/

10-23-2011, 09:44 AM	#10
ichliebekase FFR Simfile Author Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 3,213	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Similar situation but it's my grandfather's girlfriend (now wife) that I didn't/don't like. She came around shortly after my brother was born and she's just a stuck-up, snotty goody-two-shoes. I was a trouble-maker and liked to run around and play like a normal kid, but around her, I had to be a "proper little lady". She turned my grandpop into a COMPLETE asshole and now I refuse to speak to either of them, especially since Jaselynn was born. His ex-wife (my grandmom) is amazing though and she met a guy before I was born and he's the best. Even my mom says that he's a better father than her own father was. __________________ Glorious Morning - Misc, level 48 We Will Fly - Dance 2, level 53 =.The Ocean.= - Dance 2, level 56, collab with krunkykai22 Garden Party - Dance, level 38

10-23-2011, 09:57 AM	#11
justin_ator 🥓<strong><span style="col Resident Overseer Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kingsport, TN Posts: 7,648	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Problems with my step-dad rather than step-mom, and yet to be resolved. Which is really interesting since it was my step-mom who caused the divorce between my parents by cheating with my dad. I have less of a problem with her than I do with my step-dad. __________________ Last edited by justin_ator; 10-23-2011 at 10:13 AM..

10-23-2011, 09:58 AM	#12
BethanyBangs ~ Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Sacramento Age: 31 Posts: 730	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Dad's girlfriend is the lady that my dad cheated on my mom with and made them divorce when I was 11. I hated her for years and years, I just recently got over it and realized I'm happy with my life I guess, having a stepmom and a stepdad, a dad and a mom in two separate homes. Dad's married to her now, and in our culture I HAVE to call her mom or else it's disrespecting her. They also have a baby, my only brother that's a year old. Can't really do anything if your dad is in love with her~ __________________ ~

10-23-2011, 11:16 AM	#15
LJRoX Banned Join Date: Mar 2005 Age: 33 Posts: 2,762	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Bethany that's why azn culture sucks I hate my culture too much where I say I straight up to both of my parents: I hate filipinos

10-23-2011, 11:27 AM	#17
BethanyBangs ~ Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Sacramento Age: 31 Posts: 730	Re: Dad's girlfriend. otays lj and rilson that's why we no marry azns!!!!!!!11 __________________ ~

10-23-2011, 04:51 PM	#19
Wize2B FFR Player Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 11	Re: Dad's girlfriend. Psychangel691 That is too bad, he does not know what he is missing, he will regret it someday! Rushyrulz Wow, she must have been bad, how did you know the first time you met her that you did not like her? She must have said something pretty bad about you if you stormed out of the house. I wish I could figure out a way to make her leave, but here is my problem. She is nice and not a b**** like your dad’s girlfriend was. The three of us do things together and she is nice to me. She tries to include me. She buys me and my dad things on holidays to show that she wants to be my friend. Her and I have even done things together. I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I just do not like anyone around except my dad and I. I am sure that sounds weird and selfish to most of you. I know I should want my dad to find someone and be happy since he and my mom divorced. I just don’t know what to do. TCHalogen That is too bad. I have that same thing too. My Mom says bad things about my Dad’s girlfriend and my Dad. I just don’t say much when she does. Emo_Saur Yeah dude, it does suck. Subin Hopefully she will realize that it is natural for kids to want to be with the parent/person that was there for them during their childhood years, especially if they were good to you. Coolboyrulez0 You are so fortunate. Icliebekase, justin_ator, BethanyBangs and Cold Kitten I know it is hard. Last edited by Wize2B; 10-23-2011 at 04:55 PM.. Reason: Easier to read.

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