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Old 01-22-2008, 05:05 PM   #81
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Gay men.
All of my gay friends (I can think of 4) are just as bad as my straight friends. Within .1 seconds of seeing a guy they have already evaluated their sexual attractiveness and made some comment about it. A guy getting to know somebody really isn't going to change their level of sexual attraction to that person. If a girl is reasonably attractive then a guy would have no problem having sex with her almost regardless of her personality (although he may not want a relationship with her).

Women seem to approach things like this in a more reasonable fashion but I don't think guys are capable of it.
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:35 PM   #82
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All of my gay friends (I can think of 4) are just as bad as my straight friends. Within .1 seconds of seeing a guy they have already evaluated their sexual attractiveness and made some comment about it. A guy getting to know somebody really isn't going to change their level of sexual attraction to that person. If a girl is reasonably attractive then a guy would have no problem having sex with her almost regardless of her personality (although he may not want a relationship with her).

Women seem to approach things like this in a more reasonable fashion but I don't think guys are capable of it.
That is one of the most sexist hasty generalizations I have -ever- read.

Do you honestly think that a guy would say, "Hey, she looks alright, I'll have sex with her!"? A portion of guys may think that about highly attractive women, but to assume that all men do that for women who are only somewhat attractive? Just off the bat, from looks only? Do you really think men are incapable of thinking through something like this?
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:36 PM   #83
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The face, then the breasts/cleavage. And if she's walking by, the ass afterwards.
The legs, from front view.
And if she's fit.
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:51 PM   #84
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The face, then the breasts/cleavage. And if she's walking by, the ass afterwards.
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Old 01-22-2008, 05:53 PM   #85
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How tall he is, then hair/face.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:09 PM   #86
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That is one of the most sexist hasty generalizations I have -ever- read.

Do you honestly think that a guy would say, "Hey, she looks alright, I'll have sex with her!"? A portion of guys may think that about highly attractive women, but to assume that all men do that for women who are only somewhat attractive? Just off the bat, from looks only? Do you really think men are incapable of thinking through something like this?
I hate to say it but most guys that are "getting any" are like that. You strike me as the "nice guy" that doesn't even talk to girls but would eat their **** if they asked you to.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:17 PM   #87
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I hate to say it but most guys that are "getting any" are like that.
Married men say hi.
You're also forgetting that most seniors (in fact, probably men 50+) aren't really interested in checking out women either. So regardless of whether or not they're sexually active, the claim that all men instantly scan a woman for sexual aptitude upon sight falls flat on its face.

I will grant that most teenage males fit that description, and probably up to mid-20s as well. But males in general, no.

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You strike me as the "nice guy" that doesn't even talk to girls but would eat their **** if they asked you to.
Incorrect. I have several female friends, though admittedly not as many as I have male friends, by a long shot. And I'm not completely servile to anyone; I am a friendly person, or I try to be, but I generally won't do something for others if it will hurt me. But if a friend of mine asks me for a favor, I'll do it.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:48 PM   #88
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If I see a woman from far, I first notice the overall shape. Fit is good, but not necessary. A close 2nd is the style of dress (as in clothing, not a dress dress).

If she is in close range, then I usually notice the eyes first. I believe (sounds sappy but whatever) that the eyes are the windows to the soul. You can usually get a good enough feel for their personality from just the eyes. After that, it's the smile and then face overall.
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Old 01-22-2008, 06:52 PM   #90
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Old 01-22-2008, 07:01 PM   #91
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Married men say hi.
You're also forgetting that most seniors (in fact, probably men 50+) aren't really interested in checking out women either. So regardless of whether or not they're sexually active, the claim that all men instantly scan a woman for sexual aptitude upon sight falls flat on its face.

I will grant that most teenage males fit that description, and probably up to mid-20s as well. But males in general, no.
I'm not saying that married men would cheat or that men with girlfriends would necessarily cheat either, I'm saying that a man will size up a woman almost instantly and his level of sexual attraction to her is unlikely to change much. If you treat a -woman- poorly, however, she will probably like you less AND be less sexually attracted to you.

Obviously if a man is really really old or has something wrong with his biology he might just be very uninterested in sex and this whole discussion won't apply, but from my experience, even men in their 30's, 40's, and 50's are like this. A single (healthy) man in his 50's is likely to have sex with a receptive person that is reasonably attractive.

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