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Old 07-8-2004, 09:09 PM   #1
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Hi everyone, I'll just get down to the point here. Ok I have a g/f and she has trust issues i guess with guys and weve been together for about 3 weeks. And she got so stressed over me trying to trust me she cut her wrist. But she said not to kill her self just focus all her pain on what was on her mind, to make it go away. She sent this to me in a e-mail before she left on vacation and i honestly dont know what to do about it or even how to react. My question is Why do people cut their wrists to try and make the pain go away? I mean why hurt yourself physically when your already mad mentally? I just don't understand..
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Old 07-8-2004, 09:23 PM   #2
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Ummm..well...I can answer this (sadly) It does take your mind off the pain you're feeling from something emotional. Looking back on it, I feel really really stupid. It is stupid, but at the time, y'know...oh well.
Well, to answer your question, it sort of takes your mind off the emotional pain (btw, I never slit my wrist, but, well...I have scars on my arms)


I hope no one I know personally reads this...
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Old 07-8-2004, 10:37 PM   #3
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Old 07-8-2004, 10:42 PM   #4
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i heard they do it caus the pain of the you slicing your wrist takes your mind of your other pains in lifem basically wat cypher said
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Old 07-8-2004, 10:54 PM   #5
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I've gone out with a cutter... and they've explained it to me..
They do it because the pain in the mind is so much worse than physical pain that they cut themselves and focus on that pain.. supposedly making the mental pain go away..

Its not really something stupid- Have you tried it?.. have you ever felt that bad? its a serious issue.

I mean- in the end.. different people have different ways of dealing with their pain.. I always just push it down, which i know is just as bad as cutting.

But your g/f, she seems like shes one of those people who cut just to get attention. 'real' cutters do not cut and go ' hey... guess what i did last night? '
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Kill her.
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Old 07-8-2004, 11:05 PM   #7
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Old 07-8-2004, 11:24 PM   #8
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Satellited!

But seriously, people need to find some healthier outlets for this pain.
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Yeah.

Try hanging yourself instead.
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usually it is for attention, and also as an outlet for mental issues...i went out with a girl who broke a window and carved my name into her arm, and who also cut her vagina...whenever i asked her why, she would say she liked pain...one of the reasons was because she was struggling with anorexia and belemia...and it was also for attention...to be honest, none of these reasons i've mentioned really do the reasons justice, and it's just hard to explain something so complex...your girlfriend should definitely go to therapy, perhaps even to the hospital...this seemed to help the girl i went out with....why she would choose to cut her vagina is still a mystery to me though
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You beat me to it Moogy :):9)(;
Vagina slittage turns me on.
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Old 07-8-2004, 11:53 PM   #13
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Moogy I was in a good mood and that just wrecked it. I hope your happy(that was sarcasm dont pull those evil 2 words on me).
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Old 07-9-2004, 07:38 AM   #14
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Omg, people who cut themselves are messed up, and need help, there's NO good reason for it, and if you try to reason with cutters, you're just as messed up as them. *sigh* God some things piss me off...
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yes, let's get angry at emotionally and mentally disturbed people...that'll do a hell of a lotta good...try falling in love with someone, then learning that they cut themselves, and still say that.......dumbass
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I'd have to agree with ya there, Muskrat- Sorry Dan.
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You guys are sometimes dumb.
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