I have issues

AmandaBear88 · 04-12-2004, 10:50 PM

lol im not a no0b but I have a problem not ddr or ffr related, my boyfriend cheated on me, and came to me and told me about it, I like him very much and we get along great... but then theres my insecurities and the will he do it again? then i hang at the mall and there's this guy matt, who is older than me, but not by too much, he has a job and I like him... what do I do?

ananana · 04-12-2004, 10:52 PM

1-800-TEENHOTLINE.

VxDx · 04-12-2004, 10:52 PM

kill yourself

Kefit · 04-12-2004, 10:54 PM

Break up with the guy you are with and don't date anyone for a whlie.

Trust me, it will work out better for everyone involved in the long run.

jewpinthethird · 04-12-2004, 10:57 PM

Write your feelings and experiences down in a journal, then, when the conflict is over, sell the journal to a movie producer...and then you will have your very own straight to video movie.

How old are you, might is ask?

VxDx · 04-12-2004, 10:58 PM

write angsty poetry and then pine over dead leaves and cry.

**Moogy** · 04-13-2004, 02:12 PM

Do exactly what VxDx said. He's an expert in these sorts of manners.

hydrojakep · 04-13-2004, 02:17 PM

you have issues, i have two shoes.

_Blaze · 04-13-2004, 02:25 PM

The ideal situation would be to start going out with the guy from the mall and keep your old boyfriend as a friend, but...LOL, yeah right. That's a perfect world.

Actually, it really all depends on which feelings are stronger: your insecurity over his cheating or how much fun you have together. Most of the time people cheat because they feel they're not getting something from the relationship...but if you can get him to talk about his feelings more, then he won't be so closed off and he'll be a lot less likely to do it again. Also, make the first move once in a while, because sometimes guys can be shy to the point where they abandon someone they like to go off with someone they know they can "get some" from. Weird, but it happens.

**alainbryden** · 04-13-2004, 02:41 PM

cheat on him and take videos and you can enjoy them together

...then send them to me

chillywilly · 04-13-2004, 03:22 PM

Alain, why would you want those videos? Shes not a horse....

Arch0wl · 04-13-2004, 03:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AmandaBear88

and there's this guy matt, who is older than me, but not by too much

Signs point to at least 2 years.

tnyhwk900 · 04-13-2004, 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arch0wl

Quote:

Originally Posted by AmandaBear88

and there's this guy matt, who is older than me, but not by too much

Signs point to at least 2 years.

Beat me to it :P

COBOL · 04-13-2004, 04:58 PM

yea Amanda just get over it and don't complain. (geez moody women)

dontcareaboutmyid · 04-13-2004, 05:18 PM

Dear, you're asking this in a forum where pretty much either no one has dated, has dated once and is accually still with the person, are married, or are gay/lesbian

majority are freaking 10 year olds that smuggle themselves off as teens, but we the old people are not fooled

by old I mean legit ages

Granted i have little experience, because I've still have the same girlfriend, but I'd say give him one more chance. He came directly out with him cheating on you.

Now if he does it again, take a boot to his crotch a few times then go McNasty with mall guy

Jursey · 04-13-2004, 05:45 PM

What are you talking about? I've had boyfriends. Amanda...if the guy cheated on you...you dump him. Guys aren't trustworthy...its plain and simple. If you like this other guy, and he treats you well...you're probably going to have it a lot easier with someone you'll be happy with, with this guy. Why make it hard on yourself and try to live with someone who has done something behind your back? Before you start dating this other dude...let some time between the relationships...just incase you need some 'healing' time. Don't waste your time on the cheater, history will repeat itself.

qualy · 04-13-2004, 05:45 PM

I say give him a second chance, just because of the fact that he was honest about it. You can't survive in a relationship without honesty, imho.

edit: or rather... the relationship can't survive w/o it. 0_o

monkeycheese · 04-13-2004, 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jewpinthethird

Write your feelings and experiences down in a journal, then, when the conflict is over, sell the journal to a movie producer...and then you will have your very own straight to video movie.

LOL! I should have thought of that! Man you're a genuis!!

dontcareaboutmyid · 04-13-2004, 06:56 PM

Jursey, look at your post count, you arn't a regular forum poster.

And the 'history will repeat itself' comment, thats why I said take a boot to his crotch and McNasty mall guy

scorpio1690 · 04-13-2004, 07:29 PM

Dude, if he can get away with it once he'd get away with it alot more, this honesty trips bullshit, I sure as hell know I'd do it again. Sotomize him with a baseball bat wrapped in barbed wire, that should fix him.

Wouldn't do anything for dontcareaboutmyid though, he'd get turned on.

04-12-2004, 10:50 PM	#1
AmandaBear88 FFR Player Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 6	I have issues lol im not a no0b but I have a problem not ddr or ffr related, my boyfriend cheated on me, and came to me and told me about it, I like him very much and we get along great... but then theres my insecurities and the will he do it again? then i hang at the mall and there's this guy matt, who is older than me, but not by too much, he has a job and I like him... what do I do?

04-13-2004, 02:12 PM	#7
Moogy 嗚呼 Join Date: Aug 2003 Age: 34 Posts: 10,303	Do exactly what VxDx said. He's an expert in these sorts of manners. __________________ Plz visit my blog ^^^ vintage signature from like 2006 preserved

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hydrojakep FFR Player Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Earth. Age: 32 Posts: 2,293	you have issues, i have two shoes. __________________

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alainbryden Seen your member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: noitacoL Posts: 2,873	cheat on him and take videos and you can enjoy them together ...then send them to me __________________ ~NEIGH

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COBOL FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: In a YAM Posts: 232	yea Amanda just get over it and don't complain. (geez moody women) __________________ Cornstalk Remanants

04-12-2004, 10:52 PM	#2
ananana FFR Player Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Atlanta Age: 36 Posts: 632	1-800-TEENHOTLINE.

04-12-2004, 10:52 PM	#3
VxDx FFR Player Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,871	kill yourself

04-12-2004, 10:54 PM	#4
Kefit FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 1,517	Break up with the guy you are with and don't date anyone for a whlie. Trust me, it will work out better for everyone involved in the long run.

04-12-2004, 10:57 PM	#5
jewpinthethird (The Fat's Sabobah) Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Palm Springs, California Posts: 11,711	Write your feelings and experiences down in a journal, then, when the conflict is over, sell the journal to a movie producer...and then you will have your very own straight to video movie. How old are you, might is ask?

04-12-2004, 10:58 PM	#6
VxDx FFR Player Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,871	write angsty poetry and then pine over dead leaves and cry.

04-13-2004, 03:22 PM	#11
chillywilly FFR Player Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Brick, NJ Posts: 640	Alain, why would you want those videos? Shes not a horse....

04-13-2004, 05:18 PM	#15
dontcareaboutmyid FFR Player Join Date: May 2003 Location: Wisconsin, Close to Canada Age: 37 Posts: 2,103	Dear, you're asking this in a forum where pretty much either no one has dated, has dated once and is accually still with the person, are married, or are gay/lesbian majority are freaking 10 year olds that smuggle themselves off as teens, but we the old people are not fooled by old I mean legit ages Granted i have little experience, because I've still have the same girlfriend, but I'd say give him one more chance. He came directly out with him cheating on you. Now if he does it again, take a boot to his crotch a few times then go McNasty with mall guy __________________ Theory of Quantum Fetish Mechanics

04-13-2004, 05:45 PM	#16
Jursey FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 1	What are you talking about? I've had boyfriends. Amanda...if the guy cheated on you...you dump him. Guys aren't trustworthy...its plain and simple. If you like this other guy, and he treats you well...you're probably going to have it a lot easier with someone you'll be happy with, with this guy. Why make it hard on yourself and try to live with someone who has done something behind your back? Before you start dating this other dude...let some time between the relationships...just incase you need some 'healing' time. Don't waste your time on the cheater, history will repeat itself.

04-13-2004, 05:45 PM	#17
qualy FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Sierra Vista, Arizona Age: 34 Posts: 864	I say give him a second chance, just because of the fact that he was honest about it. You can't survive in a relationship without honesty, imho. edit: or rather... the relationship can't survive w/o it. 0_o

04-13-2004, 06:56 PM	#19
dontcareaboutmyid FFR Player Join Date: May 2003 Location: Wisconsin, Close to Canada Age: 37 Posts: 2,103	Jursey, look at your post count, you arn't a regular forum poster. And the 'history will repeat itself' comment, thats why I said take a boot to his crotch and McNasty mall guy __________________ Theory of Quantum Fetish Mechanics

04-13-2004, 07:29 PM	#20
scorpio1690 FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: canada eh? Age: 33 Posts: 4,817	Dude, if he can get away with it once he'd get away with it alot more, this honesty trips bullshit, I sure as hell know I'd do it again. Sotomize him with a baseball bat wrapped in barbed wire, that should fix him. Wouldn't do anything for dontcareaboutmyid though, he'd get turned on.

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