reasons for breakup?

[chopperdudes]

it's okay if you don't feel like talking about it, don't get offended though. for those of you that had gf(s), why were the reason for breakup? sure maybe it's something simple, like you (they) like some1, or maybe it's something totally absurd, like mine, i'll share one of my experiences (happened back in april).

there's 3 ppl involved, me, my best female friend, and my gf (i'll still refer to her as my gf even before she became it just to leasen the confusion). all 3 of us are really close friends to begin with.

my gf was in my canto night class back in gr9 (where we met + knew each other + became friends), then gr10 french class. i've suspected that she likes me for a very long time (since dec last year). but my friend says no... 3 months later, my gf and i ended up talking on msn, and we're talking about who she likes... she just won't tell, this means something's up, it's got to be some1 we both know, or else it's no biggie, and my friend told me it's not me, so i kept annoying her about it... well you can probably guess... she confessed over msn. apparently my friend knew a long time ago (when i first suspected and asked her bout it, but she was keeping a secret).

i decided what the hell, got together with her, started to like her after a week or so, things were well, after a week or 2... things kinda went downhill.

her parents were totally against her having a bf, i was her first so she totally had no idea how to hide one if need be. sat with me on music night even though her parents were there (which i didn't know). basically you can tell she had no clue on what to do with a bf and parents. now to add to that, her parents totally hate me, cuz they're hardcore christians and i'm a hardcore atheist. she lied to her parents about having a bf, even though i totally know that her parents knew already, she still thinks they don't.

then she got caught talking on the phone with me while still in bed (not anything inappropriate, she's just too clean to do that lol). basically went emo for a week, then decided to breakup with me. the night before, we both knew what's gonna happen the next day, and we both knew that we both knew lol, and we basically admitted that we both still liked each other.

next day, breakup. now that's a messed up one lol. now i'm glad i'm not an emotional person, i take everything with a grain of salt, get over things fast. i was actually surprised i was pretty down for 2 days after that lol.

anyways, you don't see these breakups alot aside from on tv or from dramas lol. please share your experiences (if you're comfortable bout it) and/or comment.