ATTN: Girls of FFR (Serious topic, not horny kid topic)

Oh, that sucks. I'm sorry, man.

What are we supposed to say?

We can't judge for you...any advice we give would be too general. What could someone say that would pop an idea in your head that you didn't have before?

ok so she dumped you. I said the same thing to my girlfriend the other day when i wanted to break up. I don't know. This really sucks man.

Privateer is right, there's not really much we can say that hasn't probably popped into your head already.

My advice is to just stay friends with her and try for her again later in life, but I don't know if that helps any.

Be thankful she still wants to be friends?

If she's not ready for it yet, then all you can do is just be patient until she is. Or watch her fly off into the arms of another guy, whichever comes first.

I bet you cried you pansy.













just teasing. It is possible that you two can still be friends. Just keep your cool around her and treat her like any other friend you have. If she is serious, she won't mind, and it will be all good or whatever the hip lingo is. Though I think she is just going to expect the same treatment you gave her as significant others, in which case, you are better off not talking to her again.

If she still wants to be friends, it means she still loves you. Just be yourself around her, because girls only get freaked out when guys get all dramatic in front of them. Who knows, maybe later she will come back to you.

Well Im glad you came here for your relationship problems.. Dr. Trey is here for your needs...

Now, there are some vital points that need to be pointed out..

1) Have yall had sex?
2) Was she your first?
3) Were you her first?
4) Do you "Love" her or really like her?
5) Do you think she really "Loves" you?

Number 1 is important because it shows how close yall two really where.
Number 2 is important because it would make it strong emotional bond from you to her, and if it wasn't her first time then the act of "making love" (as many people liek to call it), might not of been such a "giving" thing to her.
Number 3 is the same as above just switch the hes with shes, and vice versa.
Number 4 is important because it will help clerify the bond between you and her, whether it's a "willing to die for" , or "naw shoot that bitch first" type scenario.
Number 5 is the same as above except from her to you..

Now the only thing I can do is give you my opinion on how I would react at the situation.

I would hang out with her on the weekend, but I wouldn't try to force anything. Make suttle contact with her, not to hint at wanting something, just more of a reacting to a situation. Become real physical, tickleing is always a good way to promote physical contact, without stressing your desire to hold her. Just hanging and makeing this the best weekend with you she has ever had is a good way to show her that staying with you will make her happy.

An alternate way is to just straight talk to her face to face in a real personal setting, like somewhere secluded, where it can just be you and her talking with no distractions.

My opinions are only my own, and if you don't like what you've read, then don't follow my guide lines for success.

Threaten to kill yourself. That always gets 'em.

Haha, no seriously, the only thing you can do now is rape her, and hope for the best.

Double lol, double joking, what I would do is just keep your cool and be the guy who she can always talk to. If you really like her, and she likes you, she'll come back.

I would strongly strongly suggest that you forget about the whole being friends thing. That will lead to nothing good for either of you. My advice would be to avoid contact with her if at all possible - doing so will allow you to recover and get back to your life at a much faster pace than otherwise.

I speak from personal experience. About a year and a half ago something similar happened to me, and my attempts to hang around her and be her friend did nothing but make her hate me and make me morbidly depressed for months.

The most important piece of advice I can give you is to go have fun. Hang out with your friends, do whatever you do to pass the time. Don't let this situation completely ruin your life. And if you do start getting depressed (and I don't mean just "I feel crummy" depression, I mean the actual condition - look up the symptoms) then I would suggest looking into antidepressants. I took an organic one for a few months, and it really really helped me.

Hahahaha

girls are such superficial whores sometimes

Here's how it goes down, and I'll be straight up with this... ditch her and take her out of your life. I'm going to tell you right now I highly doubt you're going to get a chance at her later and life and you're going to feel like shit being around her. I don't know what she's like or anything but chances are she's going to be all up on some other guy soon anyway (which will make her a hypocritical bitch "omg I'm not ready" or whatever, and "this time of her life" just partaining to the span of months), "being friends" just means she sees you as a nice guy. What you need to do is find another girl, or just wallow in your own self pity untill you get over it. Avoid her like the plague too because if you still see her it just means you'll have a harder time getting over it. If you get depressed, oh well, wallow in it. You won't stay depressed. If you're angry, take it out on something. You can say it's unhealthy all you want but it feels the best to get it out on something and works the best too. Another way to get over her is to get on the subject of her with people - then you have opportunities to bring up bad things about her and realize how much she was a sucky ass girlfriend to you, because your situation seems pretty generic. One last thing you can do is tell her off, I don't know if you're good verbally or not but if you are then go for it. One thing you need to face is that it's never going to work out period since it seems like she just wanted an excuse to get rid of you.


When I was in a similar situation I wanted to hear a lot of the things I said just now because I was thinking them in the back of my mind =\

Hah. High School relationships are so stupid. Most of the time, they don't work out or end up in divorce. Most people aren't ready for relationships in high school. I am waiting to date until after or in my later years of college.

Means he can't get a date.

To 87x:
1) no
2) She would have been if we did
3) I would have been if we did
4) Yes
5) It seemed like it...
We were friends for a long time before we started going out and it seems like she just wants it to go back the way things used to be, but I don't get how she can't be ready with all that's going on in her life, because all that is happening is that she volunteers for work, and school will start soon. She didn't seem to have a problem during last school year though, but maybe that was because it was only the last 2 months.


To Arch and kefit: I am fairly good at telling people off, but I only seem to be able to make good insults towards guys. I am not exactly "the ladies man" either, so I will have a very hard time getting another girlfriend before high school ends. My only real chances now are either getting back together with her or hoping someone that I like needs a date to senior ball.