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  • moches
    FFR Player
    • Aug 2005
    • 3996

    #1

    i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.



    okay, maybe not, but this made me stop and think for a while.

    it seems like more and more, technology is becoming a crutch for people. it becomes a convenient way to escape face-to-face interaction - the difficulty of talking to somebody, of listening, of taking in what they have to say as a person and not as little bites of info.

    not to get all high-and-mighty here, but i think i'm going to take a week sometime this month and just NOT take my phone to school. just to see what happens. anybody want to join me?
  • Arkuski
    FFR Veteran
    • Jul 2006
    • 1118

    #2
    Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

    If I didn't have my phone I wouldn't be able to talk to my girlfriend and she'd be pretty upset. I would be too.

    Originally posted by Wayward Vagabond
    i can appreciate a good looking woman when i see one and this one just happened to be my mom

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    • Xiz
      TWG Chaos
      FFR Simfile Author
      • Feb 2012
      • 3399

      #3
      Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

      I do this often. But usually when I do I leave my phone at home accidentally.


      But really though, instead of being socially awkward and just get distracted in my phone I use it to my advantage. I tell someone some story I heard, or a crazy fact and then I show them on my phone and we work on it from there.

      There are tons of negative traits one can earn from using their phone all the time, but there are a few good ones.

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      • Ksl33zy24
        The New York Yankees
        • Dec 2009
        • 1047

        #4
        Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

        i ditched my cell phone last year, been phone free for almost a year now.
        it was urgent because i wanted it fixed fast.

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        • bmah
          shots FIRED
          Profile Moderator
          FFR Simfile Author
          Global Moderator
          • Oct 2003
          • 8448

          #5
          Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

          I wouldn't recommend leaving your phone out just to make a social statement. Whenever I go out, I bring my cell in case of an emergency, not simply as a social device.

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          • Guest15937
            One-handed elite
            • May 2008
            • 1464

            #6
            Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

            I don't even own a cell phone.
            The renegade has betrayed me.

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            • moches
              FFR Player
              • Aug 2005
              • 3996

              #7
              Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

              Originally posted by Arkuski
              If I didn't have my phone I wouldn't be able to talk to my girlfriend and she'd be pretty upset. I would be too.
              not saying that all phone use is bad, definitely. I was really putting myself out here and seeing if anybody could relate. but it's nice that you and your girlfriend use it to stay in touch!

              Originally posted by Xiz
              I do this often. But usually when I do I leave my phone at home accidentally.


              But really though, instead of being socially awkward and just get distracted in my phone I use it to my advantage. I tell someone some story I heard, or a crazy fact and then I show them on my phone and we work on it from there.

              There are tons of negative traits one can earn from using their phone all the time, but there are a few good ones.
              that seems to work for me too. the downside is when it spirals into a series of videos and songs and other things and you never end up actually talking. it's a social skill, probably.

              Originally posted by Ksl33zy24
              i ditched my cell phone last year, been phone free for almost a year now.
              wow! that's commitment! are there any challenges to staying phone free? how about the benefits?

              Originally posted by bmah
              I wouldn't recommend leaving your phone out just to make a social statement. Whenever I go out, I bring my cell in case of an emergency, not simply as a social device.
              a thought i have had every time i've thought of leaving my phone home (and ultimately why i rarely if ever do it).

              maybe downgrading phones would be a more feasible long-term option, but as long as my parents are in charge of our family phone plan that's not happening.

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              • Hakulyte
                the Haku
                • Jul 2005
                • 4578

                #8
                Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                No cell phone, no Facebook, no beer, no drug, no smoking, no life. /massive amount of free time woohoo~

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                • Ksl33zy24
                  The New York Yankees
                  • Dec 2009
                  • 1047

                  #9
                  Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                  gooooo hak!

                  As for benefits; NO BILLS and basically, not being bothered when im out and about (or at home) and that's how i like it. i'm pretty anti doing things with other people anyways. this way i'm not harrassed about meeting someone somewhere or having to leave places when i don't want to. negatives are only if i'm going on long trips. then i take my mom's cell phone just in case. edit: maybe if i had a signifacant other i would consider getting one again, but even then, i have an ipod touch if i really need to text them.
                  it was urgent because i wanted it fixed fast.

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                  • Phynx
                    I'm Forever
                    • Mar 2007
                    • 3003

                    #10
                    Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                    I love the idea of leaving my cell at home for a week. Sadly it's in the realm of impossibility for me. I use my phone daily for business matters, and that matters. I really want to participate...
                    Guardin' of the Scared Shrine

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                    • Charu
                      Snivy! Dohoho!
                      FFR Simfile Author
                      • Mar 2006
                      • 6161

                      #11
                      Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                      I use phones strictly for a business/family matters and nothing else. I think it also helps that I've been literally using the same phone for the past 7-8 years.

                      It's a flip phone.


                      Originally posted by JohnRedWolf87
                      Charu the red-nosed Snivy
                      Had a very shiny nose
                      And if you ever saw it
                      You could even say it glows

                      All of the other Snivies
                      Used to laugh and call him names
                      They never let poor Charu
                      Join in any Snivy games

                      (Click the arrow to see the rest)


                      Originally posted by Vendetta21
                      All in all I would say that Charu not only won this game, his play made me reconsider how I play it.

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                      • Spenner
                        Forum User
                        • Nov 2006
                        • 2403

                        #12
                        Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                        I've been out of the country for 2 whole months this summer and I hadn't had my phone on the entire time, feels nice, although I don't use it very much to begin with. Nonetheless the focus on other things becomes much more connecting when you don't have something to absorb you right in your pocket.

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                        • top
                          Banned
                          • Apr 2012
                          • 1907

                          #13
                          Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                          if you feel you are having problems with your technology owning YOU, maybe try to have more discipline. you don't have to be all extreme and leave it at home, just stop looking at it every 5 seconds.

                          practice

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                          • A2P
                            FFR Veteran
                            • Apr 2009
                            • 3127

                            #14
                            Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                            Originally posted by top
                            if you feel you are having problems with your technology owning YOU, maybe try to have more discipline. you don't have to be all extreme and leave it at home, just stop looking at it every 5 seconds.

                            practice
                            as much as i dont like your baiting tone for this, i have to agree. I'm not glued on it constantly when I'm outside, and sometimes I only have it for a watch. plus I can respond to texts more clearly when I'm not playing some stupid game i have on there.

                            dont get me wrong, I have stupid game apps on my phone, but i dont play them in public that much

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                            • PaperclipGames
                              Mrow~
                              • May 2008
                              • 648

                              #15
                              Re: i'm leaving my phone at home tomorrow.

                              I almost always carry my phone in case of an emergency or if something's up somewhere. I like to be able to be reached, and more importantly, to be able to reach, if something's up.

                              Using it while you're with other people, that's where it goes wrong. It's fine to bring your phone, but don't isolate yourself and stare at that screen when other people are around.
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