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Ok, keep us informed. If he stays book what is your back up location?



Not even Rapta validates those thoughts, hence why he is asking for advice.

It's ok to acknowledge it happens and that you are not necessary a broken mess f you have them, because that's probably true.


I believe when he find the right course he'll have more then enough willpower to see it through.

I've seen it happen many times

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I'm so sorry it got to this point, Rapta... If there was any genuine way to physically and mentally help you, i would guarantee the vast majority, if not; all of us would try to help you in any way or form. Please don't do anything you would regret, you are needed.

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From this post, it seems like you're simply just telling Rapta not to feel singled out - which is great, but that's all I got out of this post.

There's a lot of misunderstandings about clinical depression, often difficult to describe unless one actually experiences them, but I think most people here have seen enough related threads to realize that it's not as simple as convincing oneself to "stop feeling depressed." Much of the misunderstandings seem to come from people thinking that it's all a matter of changing your mindset and decision-making, when really much of it is biologically controlled from chemical imbalances in the brain.

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Everyone handles depression differently it seems, and it especially varies depending on the severity and symptoms said person has. From one person I talked to, it was described to me as a constantly changing flux of highs and lows: one day, he might feel incredibly motivated, while other days (the majority), he physically has so little energy to accomplish anything throughout the day. Which goes to show how physically involved depression can be, not just mentally. Overall, due to the complexities of depression, I still really recommend seeing a good therapist, and it sounds like Rapta hasn't found a competent one yet. All I have heard so far is ignorance or mistreatment from both his parents and past therapist(s)/hotline help:

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Is it possible these thoughts you have are because you have a heavy dislike towards what environment you're living/ or the family/people around you? or is it because some have a dislike towards you that you feel very badly of?

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You've already convinced yourself that your own life doesn't matter so extend that thought to other people's lives, what makes them more special than you? Some people are good at making it seem like they're important but really we're all struggling to find purpose (even fuccen monks have no idea what their purpose is and they spend their entire lives grasping at spiritual bs).

The world is a joke just take what you can from it, everyone here will be reduced to dead internet profiles and digital replicas in 100 years. Ending it prematurely is just a waste of lulz! Totally your choice though, best of luck

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He stayed booked and there is no backup location. I have to wait until next week and not sure what ill do.

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I am trouble with schoolwork lately. A LOT of trouble understanding the text in front of my face on the computers when doing work. This is not like me. Usually I easily understand every subject (except math) and complete my lessons in exceptional time. Lately (it's not the class difficulty, it's similar stuff to what I've learned before) I get stuck in my work unable to progress which leads me to ruminating thoughts about my life. Basically I can play chess and distract myself but when I try to distract myself with school work I don't understand a thing. I think I might have Monophobia along with my social anxiety. Feeling alone while stuck on this work that I should know how to figure out, even when a teacher explains something to me it just doesn't register I'min brain anymore! I'm stuck sitting in class contemplating about why I'm depressed with bad pain in my heart. My parents told me not to go talk to the counselors because I need to focus on my schoolwork, and even when i was doing it I'm secret, when I was honest to them, they tried to get me to go to the DR that night but we ended up not going because my parents didn't want to deal with it AND now that I'm 18 I would be out in the adult ward of where they sent me last time and that scared me, still does.

And that's just when I'm at school.
Gonna go now because im texting outside and it's cold af and I'm waiting for my dad to come get me because I couldn't take the pain of being in class again.

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You're going to have to just stop listening to your parents on this, bro.

If you need to take some time away from school then so be it. You're health is better then your grades

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Don't accept your parents' words and rules as truths, they're just ordinary people.

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Call your therapist, tell him your situation in regards to your parents. Do this as soon as you are able to. If it was your therapist that recommended going to the adult ward and you feel like it was ineffective/detrimental to your health, you may need to find a new therapist that is more suited for you.

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This.

Also Rapta if you ever need to talk to someone or just vent my skype is TrixiePuffs.

I've been in your shoes for the most part with parents not wanting to "deal" with how you feel and threatening you when you want to seek help. So perhaps I'd be some sort of help in that aspect.