Raven, I wanted to start with apologizing for the stupidity of some of the members here. Because this community is about helping each other, but they are the kind of tards that could never understand it.
Now to help: I agree with what mackmcd said in the first reply, that you should tell her. There is only one thing that I would change, and that is that if you get yelled at, and such, it is only her venting that you got there when she didn't. You didn't take him to spite, her, and you didn't even know about the crush at the time, and that needs to be made clear to her. If she still yells, she will just need some time to calm down, but yes, it will be better if you tell her.
If she seems mad, you might also want to tell her that you were angry about her "I bet your girfriend is a jerk" comment, but that you understand that she didnt mean it to be against her. That will make her feel that you were nicer to her than she knew, and put you on more even terms. I hope it works out.
(Oh and sorry, but I am locking this, because it became an idiot's flame fest. It has nothing to do with you though raven.)
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