I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

[white_boy]

show her your ffr speedy fingers, girls tend to like that.

seriously though...just really, take some time for a minute...I want you to do the following:

-pretend you are someone else
-read that story until you can see how retarded this girl is for asking someone to wait for 4 fcking YEARS!!!
-realize how retarded the guy is for actually posting on ffr to see if you should maybe consider the wait
-realize that if she "LOVES"(am i the only 1 that is getting sick of the misuse of this word?)this man, she wouldnt care about being with any other man.
-realize if she spends her time talking to the other man then the 1 she "loves" then she obviously doesnt have too much interest.

Please....just REALIZE!

take it from me fool, the longer you wait this out, the more it will hurt you.

[Skull_Dragon]

If she loved u then she already be with u and the other guy would be in the past. If u wait for 4 years for someone u don't think will want to be with u then then u will just as confused as u r now. good luck with ur choice.

[vashthestampede0987]

Skull I hope you realize you're about 5 days late, and that Synth had the best answer. XD

[-Skooter-]

You wasted 45 seconds of your life making this post...and I'm now wasting 30 seconds of my life to reply, so I might as well make it worth while:

Drop that b!tch...what the hell were you thinking hanging on this long? 4 Years? HA! ...I say leave her ass with that guy and watch her squirm. She sure didn't mind shitting on you... Besides, love isn't patient, so make her ass feel bad while you have the chance.

A tad cruel, but well worth it in the end. You're already screwed, might as well go balls to the wall.

[Sera13]

honostly im a girl, and ive been the the postion she is in, she thinks she loves you and him yada yada she cant deicded, things are easy for her right now becuase she can have both of you, but the only way to truely see if shes worth it all, is to tell her you dont need her anymore, if she leaves the other guy for you, then she is yours, FOR THE TIME BEING, but never expect somthing anywhere close to perminant from such a thing. sorry man.

[birtybirty27]

wat crap is that 4 years! but anyways... if u realy love her u could just lay off her pik up sum chiks and 4 years lata if u cant find her **** it. shes got u whiped

[heyyou444]

Re: I need Serious help... I dont know what to do anymore...

There is this girl that i love... but she has a boy friend. The thing is she loves me back...and me and her been like this for 4 months now, and i cant take it anymore. I have to be with her. The thing is she doesnt want to leave him, but she doesnt want me to leave her....i told her she had to pick and she wants me to wait four years for her to make a choice between us.

I dont know if I should wait though....

Not only that, there are things thats kinda just tell me that she'd pick him if i wait... like talk to him on the phone every night...and always talk about him...like it isnt gonna piss me off. Then she always stop talkin to me on the phone to talk to him. Then if i try to leave her, she'll beg for my not to leave, cryin and all. i really dont know what i should do...not to mention thats it turns out that the her boy friend is one of my friends from alone time i go...She said to me "If you EVER tell him that im doin this, me and you will never be together!" and im think to my self, she'd pick him anyway, so is there any reason not to tell him...

Geez... I really and confused about all this..and is it even possible to love two guys at the same time!? Cause i figure, if you love 2 ppl at the same time, then you shouldnt love either...but i guess thats just me... i dunno...

any advise on what to do? i need it...

wat you shoud do is wayt and acte nice to her

[stlunatic0124]

ok here is the ultimate advice. no girl is worth obsessing over unless you're AT LEAST a junior in college. my guess is you're still in high school, so forget about her. you'll be over her and thinking about another girl in a week, so just let her go. don't put up with bullshit from girls because it's just not worth it...no girl is worth it.