What do girls want in a guy?
Posted on: July 13, 2009, at 10:38:35pm

Throughout the past couple of years (mostly high school), I've learned that it's pretty confusing knowing what kind of a guy a girl is looking for. And I'm not saying I was ever desperately looking for a girlfriend, cause I'm better than that, but when I did like that "special girl" or whatever, most of the time they'd hit me with the, "I only see you as a good friend," or, "I only see you as a brother," both not bad, but not what I really wanted. And the only reason they probably thought that is because I would be there for them, help them with problems, pretty much anything like that. And I guess that's probably why they ended up feeling that way about me, which sucks most of the time! lol.

So, it also seems like roughly 75 ot 80% of girls mostly like a guy becuase of his looks. Yeah I hear all the time that personality is always best, and I go by that. But think about that first impression. I mean most guys know they may have a chance with that girl they want if the first impression goes great, but sometimes, the girl won't even be interested in talking to you unless you're hot. And most of the time, the "hot" guy is an ass, and the guy that may not be as attractive could be the nicest person ever, but doesn't get to show it because the girl isn't interested in him simply because of his looks...


Now I'm not saying every girl is like this, but it's just how I feel most of the time, considering most of the time I'm that "not so attractive guy" with the great personality that doesn't get a chance to be shown. And it seems kinda hypocritical to me because I used to talk to girls mostly cause of how they look, but now I'd rather them be a good person on the inside. I mean my girlfriend now is amazing, and her being hot is pretty much icing on the cake lol.
But if you have any opinions feel free to share:)

1. 1: SiLvEr_WoLf11
   Posted at 7:41am on July 15th, 2009

   I think you've hit the spot =] Society is f*cked up as it is, not mention the fact that media seems to sway our idea of "perfect" and "happiness". We just gotta break those chains
2. 2: ddrfreakdeejay
   Posted at 9:31am on July 15th, 2009

   Exactly! I mean all the other girls out there that only look for those "good looking guys" don't give those other guy a chance and I actually do think the media kinda feeds off that wrong idea of that dream guy or whatever you girls look for lol
3. 3: Inphinitee
   Posted at 2:57am on September 13th, 2009

   So so true.. -_-