please...

Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare · 05-21-2007, 10:02 PM

i just really need some advice right now. my girlfriend and i are having some problems...she did something (not cheating or anything like that) but i don't know if i can forgive her. i love her so much and i planned on spending the rest of my life with her but i think it's all just too much. please i don't want any bull**** comments. i just need your help

GuidoHunter · 05-21-2007, 10:06 PM

In all seriousness, make sure you read this first.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare · 05-21-2007, 10:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GuidoHunter

In all seriousness, make sure you read this first.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

see this is what i hate. i have a serious fuking propblem so i ask for help, and what do i get? a fuking link talking about boobs. thanks for the help jackass

mfelten86 · 05-21-2007, 10:22 PM

Well maybe be a little bit more specific. (not trying to be a jerk)..just might be able to help you more. also...try posting this in the critical thinking thread because you might get more serious responses.

**stretchypanda** · 05-21-2007, 10:25 PM

So, you post an entirely nonspecific thread asking for specific advice.

A mod comes along and directs you to a thread that, while on the outside is laced with cynicism, is actually quite useful, and you call him a jackass.

k.

YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL · 05-21-2007, 10:40 PM

Well... although I agree with everyone that asking for relationships on an internet forum isnt the best place, I'll try be mature and helpful about it.

If what she did really got under your skin and made you question her character, then you really need to consider what kind of future you really have with her. I mean if you thought you knew her so much that you were going to marry her and then she comes out of nowhere with a questionable act, then you really have to think about what your future with her will really yield.

Just talk to her about it, maybe you two can get everything out in the open so there arent any personality traits that one of you is hiding that would possibly ruin the relationship further down the road

Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare · 05-21-2007, 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL

Well... although I agree with everyone that asking for relationships on an internet forum isnt the best place, I'll try be mature and helpful about it.

If what she did really got under your skin and made you question her character, then you really need to consider what kind of future you really have with her. I mean if you thought you knew her so much that you were going to marry her and then she comes out of nowhere with a questionable act, then you really have to think about what your future with her will really yield.

Just talk to her about it, maybe you two can get everything out in the open so there arent any personality traits that one of you is hiding that would possibly ruin the relationship further down the road

thank you. you have really helped alot.

g4z33b0 · 05-21-2007, 11:29 PM

Psh stick it in her butt and pee obviously.

YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL · 05-21-2007, 11:29 PM

Didnt you steal that from someone?

redwrist · 05-21-2007, 11:32 PM

Well I would need to know a few things b4 I can play Doctor Phil

1. How old are yall. <And yes that makes a huge diff>
2.What did she do?
3.Have you ever done ANYTHING wrong in the relationship?

g4z33b0 · 05-21-2007, 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL

Didnt you steal that from someone?

From the thread he refuses to take advice from.

GuidoHunter · 05-22-2007, 12:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare

see this is what i hate. i have a serious fuking propblem so i ask for help, and what do i get? a fuking link talking about boobs. thanks for the help jackass

You know what I was trying to do? Spare you the bull**** comments about telling you to read the stickies and echoing exactly what was said in the thread, considering it would be the advice of most of the users, here.

Allow me to quote effectively the question you have, already answered in a sticky that you are expected to read:

Quote:

Q. "My boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on me, but is begging I take them back."
A. "You'd have to be pretty stupid to do it."

Not only did you disregard this, but you gave us nothing to work with, as stretchy said. What did you expect?

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL · 05-22-2007, 12:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare

thank you. you have really helped alot.

Ah hem, problem solved?

edubardus · 05-22-2007, 12:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL

Ah hem, problem solved?

I think it's so kawaii how fondly you think of your 'good deed.'

YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL · 05-22-2007, 12:23 AM

Good deeds!!!

All i did was respond the way he wanted

**-Fallen-** · 05-22-2007, 12:24 AM

Should be locked. If you planned on being with your girlfriend for the rest of your life you wouldn't be running to the internet to fix it. I can already tell this is not going to be your last girlfriend, if you catch my drift.

Danceman231 · 05-22-2007, 12:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by edubardus

I think it's so kawaii how fondly you think of your 'good deed.'

does kawaii mean cool? O.o"

YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL · 05-22-2007, 12:51 AM

Kawaii means cute!

Danceman231 · 05-22-2007, 01:07 AM

ah, ok, thanks

GuidoHunter · 05-22-2007, 01:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Danceman231

does kawaii mean cool? O.o"

I think you're thinking of "kakui" (or something to that extent; I'm pretty sure that's how one would spell what I hear in my head, but I don't know much about Japanese).

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

05-21-2007, 10:02 PM	#1
Dreamt_in_a_Nightmare FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 67	please... i just really need some advice right now. my girlfriend and i are having some problems...she did something (not cheating or anything like that) but i don't know if i can forgive her. i love her so much and i planned on spending the rest of my life with her but i think it's all just too much. please i don't want any bull**** comments. i just need your help

05-21-2007, 10:22 PM	#4
mfelten86 FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: colorado Age: 32 Posts: 93	Re: please... Well maybe be a little bit more specific. (not trying to be a jerk)..just might be able to help you more. also...try posting this in the critical thinking thread because you might get more serious responses.

05-21-2007, 10:25 PM	#5
stretchypanda shock me shock me Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Texas Age: 39 Posts: 4,123	Re: please... So, you post an entirely nonspecific thread asking for specific advice. A mod comes along and directs you to a thread that, while on the outside is laced with cynicism, is actually quite useful, and you call him a jackass. k.

05-21-2007, 10:40 PM	#6
YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL FFR Player Join Date: May 2007 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Age: 36 Posts: 56	Re: please... Well... although I agree with everyone that asking for relationships on an internet forum isnt the best place, I'll try be mature and helpful about it. If what she did really got under your skin and made you question her character, then you really need to consider what kind of future you really have with her. I mean if you thought you knew her so much that you were going to marry her and then she comes out of nowhere with a questionable act, then you really have to think about what your future with her will really yield. Just talk to her about it, maybe you two can get everything out in the open so there arent any personality traits that one of you is hiding that would possibly ruin the relationship further down the road __________________ Better known as TempesT

05-21-2007, 11:29 PM	#8
g4z33b0 Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Apex, NC Age: 33 Posts: 2,618	Re: please... Psh stick it in her butt and pee obviously.

05-21-2007, 11:29 PM	#9
YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL FFR Player Join Date: May 2007 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Age: 36 Posts: 56	Re: please... Didnt you steal that from someone? __________________ Better known as TempesT

05-22-2007, 12:23 AM	#15
YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL FFR Player Join Date: May 2007 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Age: 36 Posts: 56	Re: please... Good deeds!!! All i did was respond the way he wanted __________________ Better known as TempesT

05-22-2007, 12:24 AM	#16
-Fallen- xqsite OG Join Date: May 2005 Location: Canada Age: 36 Posts: 2,836	Re: please... Should be locked. If you planned on being with your girlfriend for the rest of your life you wouldn't be running to the internet to fix it. I can already tell this is not going to be your last girlfriend, if you catch my drift. __________________ One of the original members of the xqsite + FFR community. BlankZero - 15 year vet + RobbyZero - 15 year vet

05-22-2007, 12:51 AM	#18
YoUgOtBeAtByAgUrL FFR Player Join Date: May 2007 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Age: 36 Posts: 56	Re: please... Kawaii means cute! __________________ Better known as TempesT

05-22-2007, 01:07 AM	#19
Danceman231 FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Earth. Posts: 235	Re: please... ah, ok, thanks

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