Help me out- boyfriend's b-day

[trillobyite]

This is starting to heat up, how is it that almost all the latest topics have been turning into fights?

[QreepyBORIS]

You know....because you all are old and Jaded.


(Of course, not to say I dont agree with you all...)

[Laharl]

alright.. well.. laharl.. i read some of the stuff you posted (couldnt really finish it because i was mad at you) but you have no right as to say what you said..
a breif quote would be
"if you respect yourself you wont have sex"
thats the dumbest thing i have ever heard.. you say sex shouldnt just be thrown around, but you have no say in what others do.. giving your opinion is one thing but telling them that if they do something they dont respect themselves is completely different... we dont give you (#$% for wanting to wait to have sex.. dont give us (#$% for wanting to have sex for plessure and fun...

So I'm right in my assumption that everything I said went right over the heads of the majority of people here.

you remind me of those vegan assholes who bitch at everyone else for eating meat but then when someone says something to you about it you get mad for them trying to intrude on your way of life... ( im not saying you got mad for us intruding on you way of life, i was just using them as an example)...

respond to me.

Tell me what I do in my life that is wrong and needs to be changed, and I'll listen.

No, go right ahead. I want to you to.

I like it when people intrude into my life. It helps me feel human, because then at least I know someone notices my existence.

Thank you, 87x. I didn't see his reply until like two minutes ago, but you beat me to it. Go read his 'maturity' thread for more stupid, idiotic theories he came up with.

Seriously, is it too much to ask that you not act like a complete asshat 24/7? I remember you mentioning something about a 'lack of compassion' in the forums. I have yet to see a post by you that could be considered anything around compassionate, or even one that wouldn't piss someone off.

Wait a second. So all the times I've came into a thread where people have posted something about a very serious personal problem, and I've offered to help, that meant nothing? You don't see a lot of what I do. I've been sending PMs and e-mails back and forth with Bitta for a little while now trying to help her fight through the depression she's in. But that apparently doesn't matter! Nope, not one bit.

What I mean by compassion is more.. selflessness, I guess. Kind of hard to explain all the connotations I have attatched to the word "compassion". What I meant was more or less that there isn't a person on here that honestly cares what the others are doing, and if their lives suck. Everytime I see a thread where someone mentions they are contemplating suicide, I see 3 pages fill up extremely rapidly with replies, "Please, go do us the favor."

Go hang yourself.

Thought about it a large number of times, and if there was anywhere in the house where I'd be able to rig a rope and not be able to touch the ground being as tall as I am, I'd likely have done it by now.

If I really did go hang myself, how would that feel on your conscience? I bet you wouldn't even care. You'd probably be thinking, "Ah, good riddance." As much as I dislike the large majority of the population of the world, I don't wish anyone death. Maybe a sock to the face or a busted knee cap, sure, but death? No. I just want people to get it throuigh their extremely thick heads there is more to life than they believe there to be, in the hopes that they could become a decent and admirable human being.

[Moogy]

What the hell is wrong with you, people? Laharl tries to bring a bit of maturity and intelligence to this thread, and you attack him, for no real reason. Laharl is the most intelligent and compassionate person I've seen on these boards, yet you people treat him like a flamer or troll...

I could say more, but I won't, right now...

[teh-blinky]

What the hell is wrong with you, people? Laharl tries to bring a bit of maturity and intelligence to this thread, and you attack him, for no real reason. Laharl is the most intelligent and compassionate person I've seen on these boards, yet you people treat him like a flamer or troll...

I could say more, but I won't, right now...

Agreed.

[Anticrombie0909]

So I'm right in my assumption that everything I said went right over the heads of the majority of people here.

See Laharl, you might have a point if you didn't act so godammed annoying and condecending about it. Acting like you're better than everyone else is not the best way to express a point. I get your point, sure, and maybe I even agree with it. But acting like a jackass is not the way to get it across. People don't like to be told that they are wrong, or what they're doing is bad. You of all people should realize this. If you wanted to make a point, you should have done so by asking for agreement on the topic, not implying that the people you're telling it to are the ones who are immature and stupid.

Speaking of things going over your head...

Go Hang yourself

Thought about it a large number of times, and if there was anywhere in the house where I'd be able to rig a rope and not be able to touch the ground being as tall as I am, I'd likely have done it by now.

Have you ever heard of figurative speech? Jesus Christ Laharl, you claim to be smart then you pull a stunt like that. Well let me tell you, I'm not a complete retard either. You posted that purely to pull sympathy out of people so they'd go "poor depressed guy, that other guy is an ass". Not gonna work. Sorry. And then you had to drag it on, going

I don't wish anyone death. Maybe a sock to the face or a busted knee cap, sure, but death? No.

Henceforth, Laharl shall be known as 'Mr. Noble' for showing his nobility when put up against peer pressure by a total asshole who actually does wish people death. Shocking, is it not?

Gimme a break.

[Cenright]

Your guys shouldn't be putting figurative speech in a serious conversation. People are in a serious mode and so don't see the figurative speech.



I agree with Laharl on this one guys. (Although it is kind of hard to take you very seriously with your avatar, sorry).

Sex before marriage is wrong, but nowhere will you find that in man's law. That is biblical law. So if you are Jewish, Christian, or even Islamic, you will believe the same thing I do on this aspect. Spending time with your boyfriend/girlfriend is a great way to show affection, but not sex. Sex is for that person you have dedicated yourself to in matrimony.

[aleco]

WAY TO GO CEN!
I whole-heartedly agree.

[87x]

Alright first off.. you can have your own beliefs and i dont care.. live your life the way you want to, its your life, but some people can't leave it as simple as this.. people think that there way of life is better than others.. they use logic to conclude what they do, and some just do things because its spontaneous and dont really care what happens... theis makes for conflict... the logical thinker trys to tell the spontaneous guy/girl that they're way is better.. guy disagrees... now you have an arguement...
this is what happened in this thread.. laharal (and followers) can take the role of the logical thinker, myself (and followers) can take the role of the spontaneous guy (although our thoughts aren't spontaneous, we will just take this role for the time being)...

I've run out of optios, can anyone tell me what guys like for their birthday? My boyfriend says he doesn't want anything, but i still wanna gat him something. Help me out here...

this is called a question..

cant go wrong with a dvd or music...or you could strip for him
let him put it in your butt.
For girls you need something thoughtful and meaningful, for guys, just give him a bunch of stuff. Only you really know what he likes, maybe a computer game or a dvd...
Two words...Oral Sex. I am being honest

These are different answers for the question.. basically whats going on here is that bitta-bee (sp?) asked a questions to the forum members.. we gave our own opinions on what we thought would be the best answer (agreed that some answers were retarted).. you (laharl) come in with your ...

If you want to ruin your life, by all means, go ahead and do sexual favors. You'll regret it sooner of later.

If you honestly love the guy, and honestly want to be respected yourself, DO NOT DO ANYTHING SEXUAL.

these statements are basically saying.. " if you do this, your a peice of shit "... you are inflicting your way of life on others... So in regards to this

So I'm right in my assumption that everything I said went right over the heads of the majority of people here.

you were wrong my friend..

As easily as you told us that casual sex is bad, I can tell you its good... So whats wrong with your life??.. you dont have casual sex.. simply put.. go have sex with a girl you've know for a week or two, that you don't have ultra strong feelings for..

The only point was i trying to make is that you shouldn't force your own beliefs on people..

Hopefully everyone understood this..

[Laharl]

See Laharl, you might have a point if you didn't act so godammed annoying and condecending about it. Acting like you're better than everyone else is not the best way to express a point. I get your point, sure, and maybe I even agree with it. But acting like a jackass is not the way to get it across. People don't like to be told that they are wrong, or what they're doing is bad. You of all people should realize this. If you wanted to make a point, you should have done so by asking for agreement on the topic, not implying that the people you're telling it to are the ones who are immature and stupid.

Good point.

Speaking of things going over your head...

Go Hang yourself

Thought about it a large number of times, and if there was anywhere in the house where I'd be able to rig a rope and not be able to touch the ground being as tall as I am, I'd likely have done it by now.

Have you ever heard of figurative speech? Jesus Christ Laharl, you claim to be smart then you pull a stunt like that. Well let me tell you, I'm not a complete retard either. You posted that purely to pull sympathy out of people so they'd go "poor depressed guy, that other guy is an ass". Not gonna work. Sorry.

I was pointing out that you need to realize what you're saying. Don't go making comments like, "Go hang yourself" as a figure of speech because there is also meaning behind that to many people.

And then you had to drag it on, going

I don't wish anyone death. Maybe a sock to the face or a busted knee cap, sure, but death? No.

Henceforth, Laharl shall be known as 'Mr. Noble' for showing his nobility when put up against peer pressure by a total asshole who actually does wish people death. Shocking, is it not?

Gimme a break.

"Peer pressure."

Right.

I think it was you that were telling me I'm the elitest here, correct? That I don't consider the other people here peers?

I really don't know what "peer pressure" is all about. I've ever been the loner, and probably because when I mean to make a statement, I don't back down and am rather an ass about it. Almost all of my opinions I hold are held by a minority of people. My religious beliefs. My taste in video games. My taste in music. What I'm getting at is that I couldn't care less about what people think of me. It's awesome when people like me, to be sure, but if people disagree, oh well. No sweat off my back.

(Although it is kind of hard to take you very seriously with your avatar, sorry)

Hahaha, sorry. ^_^; I ought to change it now anyway. It's old.

[Lupin_the_3rd]

i don't understand why either of you bother to argue...just let people believe what they want to believe and say what they want to say. By retaliating, you are just going to get a retaliation until this soon to be 12 page flaming thread gets locked

[Cenright]

Yes 87x, the I wasn't on the origional topic. The topic had taken a turn, and I was trying to bring an end to that sub-topic. You and laharl aren't going to compromise, and neither of you respects the other very much from what I see. How about a search for a common ground because without it, it isn't going to go anywhere.

I think we all need to take a breath and start over.

[87x]

whatever... agreed...
Im sorry to everyone, lately i have been more agressive towards members of this forum that don't see things eye to eye with me... and i am sorry to the people i argued with.. and sorry to the people who had to put up with it... as an admin im failing to do my job and not setting a good example for new members of this site.. As a forum member I'm turning into an asshole... i ask for forgiveness from everyone, and im going to try and stop with what im doing and go back to the old me... sorry again.. peace out.