Help me out- boyfriend's b-day

[Laharl]

So how old are you Mr. Maturity.

Only 18, but it's times like these I feel old and withered.

See, here's what I love. How amazingly hypocritical certain people are being. Arch, sorry to put it bluntly, but nobody finds true love in high school. It doesn't happen. I doubt anybody on these forums downward from Synth has ever experienced real love (and that includes me).

Then Larahl gets up there and talks about sex being the devil...I take it somebody's anti-choice. Beyond that, why would we regret it? Or more specifically, why would it 'ruin our lives' as you put it? Nothing bad can come of any activites that don't give you a chance to get her pregnant. The worst that can happen is you'll get in trouble or something. And then of course, he comes in and starts talking about moral decay (wtf?) and relating pleasure to sin, or whatever...I'm sick of it. The hypocrism is astounding, and radiating from the very people who accuse others of it.

I'm not saying I'm above all this...everything that's bad about guys that has been said probably applies to me as much as everyone else. I enjoy bj's as much as the next guy. The reason it bugs me is how high and mighty everyone else tries to seem, when in reality we're all thinking the same thing anyway, I'm the only one who actaully comes out with the guts to say it.

AHAHAHAHAHA.

Let me put it this way: Everyone I've ever known that has commited suicide fell under one of two catagories. They were either completely and totally friendless, and desperately wanted to feel loved in the physical sense, or were someone that had slept with at least one person that had turned on them.

Everyone I know that is majorly depressed throws around sex like it's the only thing in life that can bring joy, which I'm telling you, it isn't.

Before you claim I'm a hypocrite, point out the hypocrisies in my statements. I'm waiting, because I'd sure as hell like to see them. You claim that I'm "just like everyone else", only wanting sex and the like but taking the high and holy road because I can't get any, correct? THat's what I got out of your statement. Well, I'm telling you right now, that is bullshit. Don't you DARE make claims about my character. I am extremely face value. What you see, hear, and read, is what you get, damnit.

Sex is not the devil, idiot. There is a time and place, and high school isn't it. In the bonds of marriage is all I can think of, where it won't completely backfire and ruin someone's lives.

[Arch0wl]

Marriage is a little much, depending on the religion and the couple. I personally think a couple should have sex when they're sure they're ready to do it.

[IAMTHEEVILBEAN]

Yeah....

Ive known some people who "go out"
Have some type of sex

and then want nothing to do with eachother....
How retarted can you get..

[Master_of_PARANOiA]

Yeah....

Ive known some people who "go out"
Have some type of sex

and then want nothing to do with eachother....
How retarted can you get..

very

[Brainmaster07]

The typical highschool 'love', then it's not love at all, it's just sexual tension. If your attracted to someone their looks alone, and think you're in love, get a life, that's pathetic. True love should not have anything to do with sexual activities for years.

[jewpinthethird]

Personally, I have given up on High School girls. I've posted my reasons why many times on these boards. But really, I dont care anymore. I'm fine without a girlfriend as is. As long as I have video games, internet porn, food, and lotion, I'll be fine until college.

[DaynieBurger]

=If you honestly love the guy, and honestly want to be respected yourself, DO NOT DO ANYTHING SEXUAL.

Amen =)

what is he like an elephant

And give him head

its safe, fun, and effective

Obviously you didn't ever pay attention in health class.
Giving blow jobs isn't neccisarly safe just because it's oral, you can just as easily get a STD.

[Feuergeist]

See, here's what I love. How amazingly hypocritical certain people are being. Arch, sorry to put it bluntly, but nobody finds true love in high school. It doesn't happen. I doubt anybody on these forums downward from Synth has ever experienced real love (and that includes me).

Then Larahl gets up there and talks about sex being the devil...I take it somebody's anti-choice. Beyond that, why would we regret it? Or more specifically, why would it 'ruin our lives' as you put it? Nothing bad can come of any activites that don't give you a chance to get her pregnant. The worst that can happen is you'll get in trouble or something. And then of course, he comes in and starts talking about moral decay (wtf?) and relating pleasure to sin, or whatever...I'm sick of it. The hypocrism is astounding, and radiating from the very people who accuse others of it.

I'm not saying I'm above all this...everything that's bad about guys that has been said probably applies to me as much as everyone else. I enjoy bj's as much as the next guy. The reason it bugs me is how high and mighty everyone else tries to seem, when in reality we're all thinking the same thing anyway, I'm the only one who actaully comes out with the guts to say it.

You are an ignorant bastard. You have no right to tell anybody they haven't found true love. You have no juristiction, nor knowledge of everybodys lives, therefor you should stuff your words up your asshole. Who the fuck are you to even say nobody finds true love in highschool? Are you the all mighty knowing god? I think not. Love is obviously something you can't comprehend well enough, since you think you can dictate when and where it happens.

[QreepyBORIS]

Re: Help me out- boyfriend's b-day

I've run out of optios, can anyone tell me what guys like for their birthday? My boyfriend says he doesn't want anything, but i still wanna gat him something. Help me out here...

Birth control devices aplenty?

[Arch0wl]

If your boyfriend doesn't want anything.. then don't give him anything. Just spend time with him on his birthday. Trust me, if he's a good enough guy to not want anything, then he'll like that.

[Privateer]

Wow, the first page or so was cool then it was all like...not.

Take him out somewhere if he doesn't want anything. If he clearly told you he doesn't, then you shouldn't unless it doesn't involve money. Take him to a restaurant, or something. I don't know if you want to resort to sexual favors, though. I mean, hell, I don't think he would care (or most anybody on these forums, or life), but unless your relationship already has a nice supply of whatever activity, go with my previous thoughts.

[87x]

nobody finds true love in high school

OMFG.. i thought i was the only one who thought that.. all these little kids running saying there in love.. then 2 weeks later ther boinkin there ex's best friend.. its crazy stuff..

[Master_of_PARANOiA]

nobody finds true love in high school

rarely people find 'true love', high school or otherwise... my parents have had others (my moms been remarried 3 times, my dad 2. before i was born) and now they still dont really 'get along'.

'love' is hard to find, 'true' love is nearly impossible. usually when someone has a bf/gf they dont experience 'love', they experience great 'like'

well theres my 2 hundred twenty-two cents (thats $2.22)

[87x]

alright.. well.. laharl.. i read some of the stuff you posted (couldnt really finish it because i was mad at you) but you have no right as to say what you said..
a breif quote would be
"if you respect yourself you wont have sex"
thats the dumbest thing i have ever heard.. you say sex shouldnt just be thrown around, but you have no say in what others do.. giving your opinion is one thing but telling them that if they do something they dont respect themselves is completely different... we dont give you shit for wanting to wait to have sex.. dont give us shit for wanting to have sex for plessure and fun...
you remind me of those vegan assholes who bitch at everyone else for eating meat but then when someone says something to you about it you get mad for them trying to intrude on your way of life... ( im not saying you got mad for us intruding on you way of life, i was just using them as an example)...

respond to me.

[Anticrombie0909]

Thank you, 87x. I didn't see his reply until like two minutes ago, but you beat me to it. Go read his 'maturity' thread for more stupid, idiotic theories he came up with.

Seriously, is it too much to ask that you not act like a complete asshat 24/7? I remember you mentioning something about a 'lack of compassion' in the forums. I have yet to see a post by you that could be considered anything around compassionate, or even one that wouldn't piss someone off.

Go hang yourself.