My Love - Page 2

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 03:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Babyvpr

Oh jesus christ, yes it does >_>
Listen to this man, he is wise.

I'm guessing you both had some experience huh?

**Babyvpr** · 06-21-2008, 03:11 AM

My boyfriend is sorta living with me at the moment, well not really, but he stays over here a lot. It gets kinda...UGH. I do enjoy having him here since I didn't see him for almost 3 months, but living with your boy/girlfriend really changes things.

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 03:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Babyvpr

My boyfriend is sorta living with me at the moment, well not really, but he stays over here a lot. It gets kinda...UGH. I do enjoy having him here since I didn't see him for almost 3 months, but living with your boy/girlfriend really changes things.

Fill me in on the stuff that he does to make you "UGH"

**Megmo** · 06-21-2008, 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Babyvpr

Oh jesus christ, yes it does >_>
Listen to this man, he is wise.

She. And not to mention you haven't even been changed by college yet! It is possible, though. My cousin is still happily married to her high school sweetheart and they have two daughters...but even then they waited for several years.

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Megmo

She. And not to mention you haven't even been changed by college yet! It is possible, though. My cousin is still happily married to her high school sweetheart and they have two daughters...but even then they waited for several years.

We're gonna wait til a couple of years to be married trust me.

**TheRapingDragon** · 06-21-2008, 03:48 AM

Living with someone does change things but I still feel that it does help a relationship progress even further.

I loved living with my partner, can't wait to do it again.

At least you're being smart enough to wait a few years until you get married. Good idea.

Anyway, no matter what I say, I still wish you the best of luck.

**travman301** · 06-21-2008, 05:08 AM

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Originally Posted by TheRapingDragon

Why is that? How many times should a person fall in love before they should get married, 5 times, perhaps 6?

I mean I'm still with the first person I ever went out with, fell in love with, etc. and we plan on getting married and there are no problems.

What you have is rare, and congrats on achieving that. I hope it works out.

I was simply responding to the tone in the OP about impending marriage, and how you should probably wait it out when you fall in "love" when you are 14 years old.

I have some friends who fell in love at 15, got married at 18, and divorced by 20.

It left both of them very upset and in debt. I wouldn't want another person going down that path.

**TheRapingDragon** · 06-21-2008, 05:27 AM

Ah, I completely understand where you're coming from. I tend to just call "love" at 14 "infatuation". I know it isn't always the case but 9 times out of 10 it turns out that they weren't in love, and it's not until they actually fall in love that they understand what they had before was different.

I agree with your point so far as "take it easy". Marriage shouldn't really be on the mind of a 14 year old. The biggest problem is the fact that you're still going through puberty and you'll find that your hormones go crazy for a few years. What you may think of as love could actually just be your hormones.

I guess what I have is different yeah.

**Babyvpr** · 06-21-2008, 05:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Megmo

She. And not to mention you haven't even been changed by college yet! It is possible, though. My cousin is still happily married to her high school sweetheart and they have two daughters...but even then they waited for several years.

Sorry :3

Also, all the stuff that makes me go "UGH" is just personal

but I learn to deal with it. Just don't rush things, take it slow.

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by TheRapingDragon

Living with someone does change things but I still feel that it does help a relationship progress even further.

I loved living with my partner, can't wait to do it again.

At least you're being smart enough to wait a few years until you get married. Good idea.

Anyway, no matter what I say, I still wish you the best of luck.

Thanks dude I really appriciate it

and I hope everything goes well for you also!!

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by travman301

What you have is rare, and congrats on achieving that. I hope it works out.

I was simply responding to the tone in the OP about impending marriage, and how you should probably wait it out when you fall in "love" when you are 14 years old.

I have some friends who fell in love at 15, got married at 18, and divorced by 20.

It left both of them very upset and in debt. I wouldn't want another person going down that path.

I totally understand that and that's why we're gonna have our careers going and if everything's going well then we'll decide to get married or until I pop the question.

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by TheRapingDragon

Ah, I completely understand where you're coming from. I tend to just call "love" at 14 "infatuation". I know it isn't always the case but 9 times out of 10 it turns out that they weren't in love, and it's not until they actually fall in love that they understand what they had before was different.

I agree with your point so far as "take it easy". Marriage shouldn't really be on the mind of a 14 year old. The biggest problem is the fact that you're still going through puberty and you'll find that your hormones go crazy for a few years. What you may think of as love could actually just be your hormones.

I guess what I have is different yeah.

Well I'm not the one to argue with statistics but, Ima try to be optimistic here and hpoe for the best as that's all I can do.

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Babyvpr

Sorry :3

Also, all the stuff that makes me go "UGH" is just personal

but I learn to deal with it. Just don't rush things, take it slow.

Okay I'll try thanks for the advice.

**StepmaniaGod6969** · 06-21-2008, 12:31 PM

damn quadruple post, you'll get banned for that thats why theres an edit button

CartoonHero94 · 06-21-2008, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by StepmaniaGod6969

damn quadruple post, you'll get banned for that thats why theres an edit button

I'm already banned from the chatroom.

**Babyvpr** · 06-21-2008, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by CartoonHero94

I'm already banned from the chatroom.

He's talking about forum banned. Don't double, triple, quad post. It's annoying and agaisn't the rules.

**sarahxjane** · 06-21-2008, 01:32 PM

The odds are that you will not last long.
You are far too young to know or understand love.
I will be surprised if you guys even make it a year.
Too many kids ( yes kids ) are getting married just because.
It's ridiculus how all of these kids think they are in love and then a couple months down the road they are with someone else.
Of course, they are 'in love' with that person too.

The point of all this is, don't do anything stupid.

Tokzic · 06-21-2008, 03:53 PM

why would you make a topic about how much you love some chick

i don't think anyone besides you and the chick care

azntony8030 · 06-23-2008, 05:44 PM

That good that your thinking of the future instead of letting your emotion run you. love takes time.

06-21-2008, 03:11 AM	#22
Babyvpr ლ(ಠ益ಠ)ლ Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ventura, California Posts: 512	Re: My Love My boyfriend is sorta living with me at the moment, well not really, but he stays over here a lot. It gets kinda...UGH. I do enjoy having him here since I didn't see him for almost 3 months, but living with your boy/girlfriend really changes things.

06-21-2008, 03:48 AM	#26
TheRapingDragon A car crash mind Join Date: Aug 2005 Age: 36 Posts: 9,788	Re: My Love Living with someone does change things but I still feel that it does help a relationship progress even further. I loved living with my partner, can't wait to do it again. At least you're being smart enough to wait a few years until you get married. Good idea. Anyway, no matter what I say, I still wish you the best of luck.

06-21-2008, 05:27 AM	#28
TheRapingDragon A car crash mind Join Date: Aug 2005 Age: 36 Posts: 9,788	Re: My Love Ah, I completely understand where you're coming from. I tend to just call "love" at 14 "infatuation". I know it isn't always the case but 9 times out of 10 it turns out that they weren't in love, and it's not until they actually fall in love that they understand what they had before was different. I agree with your point so far as "take it easy". Marriage shouldn't really be on the mind of a 14 year old. The biggest problem is the fact that you're still going through puberty and you'll find that your hormones go crazy for a few years. What you may think of as love could actually just be your hormones. I guess what I have is different yeah.

06-21-2008, 03:53 PM	#38
Tokzic FFR Player Join Date: May 2005 Location: TGB Age: 34 Posts: 6,878	Re: My Love why would you make a topic about how much you love some chick i don't think anyone besides you and the chick care __________________ ~very popular guitar streamer~ Last edited by Tokzic: Today at 11:59 PM. Reason: wait what

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