What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. - Page 3

THOR-AXE · 09-19-2007, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ~kitty~

you seriously need to stfu, even if he wants the attention, it's better for him to get it, it's his life

he's already b& for TROLLING theres no point in saying that now

by the way its better for him to get it? why would you want to fuel a childish desire. not saying he does want attention.

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Originally Posted by ~kitty~

You are definately viewing your life much worse than it really is. It isn't that abusive of your mom. My mom has hit me, but it is for reasons to make us behave, and in your moms point of view, she probably only wants the best out of you, and she doesn't see it, and she overreacts. You are not living that bad of a life since you 1) Have a computer to use 2) Still alive and healthy 3) Have had someone to share your feelings with.

Those 3 are really good to have, and you seriously need to put consideration how lucky you are compared to millions of homeless, mentally ill, physically abused, and "used" children out there.

I am not of any of these, my life is worse than yours btw.

Btw, I double posted to quote another person, and I do not know how to double quote people, so don't accuse me of not using the -EDIT- button

quote them in a new message but don't post then copy the quote and paste it into an edit

rade0110 · 09-19-2007, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by ~kitty~

You are not living that bad of a life since you 1) Have a computer to use 2) Still alive and healthy 3) Have had someone to share your feelings with.

Good thing all those rich kids are never abused.

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Originally Posted by ~kitty~

It isn't that abusive of your mom.

Good thing he specified what he meant by "abuse" for you to claim that.

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Originally Posted by ~kitty~

my life is worse than yours btw.

Good thing you can tell that over the internet, or that this is about you.

On a more thread based response:

http://teenhelp.org/

Maybe try there for a more supportive/understanding answer to your problem. Also, if your parents go to jail, I highly doubt the government is gonna just come in and take the house they own. And I don't really see how you'll lose your girlfriend over this.

tloz998 · 09-19-2007, 08:49 PM

its interesting seeing the variety of responces to this...i should bring this thread to my psychology class tomorrow...btw its really difficult to say someone else's life is better than someone else's on account of oppinion and how that person got to where they are now and even depending on the mental stability/state that the person is in

perkeyone · 09-19-2007, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ~kitty~

You are definately viewing your life much worse than it really is. It isn't that abusive of your mom. My mom has hit me, but it is for reasons to make us behave, and in your moms point of view, she probably only wants the best out of you, and she doesn't see it, and she overreacts. You are not living that bad of a life since you 1) Have a computer to use 2) Still alive and healthy 3) Have had someone to share your feelings with.

Those 3 are really good to have, and you seriously need to put consideration how lucky you are compared to millions of homeless, mentally ill, physically abused, and "used" children out there.

I am not of any of these, my life is worse than yours btw.

Btw, I double posted to quote another person, and I do not know how to double quote people, so don't accuse me of not using the -EDIT- button

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Lightknight924 · 09-19-2007, 09:09 PM

Live for the good things, strive to escape the bad.

FatalRay · 09-19-2007, 09:18 PM

K sorry I haven't responded in awhile I went driving with my aunt to escape the hell. Anyways, to answer some of these questions/statements. I am not looking for attention, I know this does/can very well look like it, but In this case since it's this specific kind of matter I am not.

Now I can specify more "abuse" and you can tell me if thats standard punishment, I'm not just talking about belts here and there and taking away privileges. I am talking about stuff like being thrown into walls, being thrown through my window *I'm on ground floor*, being strangled, and punched in the face.

As for living, yes I am obviously, healthy...probaly not, I pretty much live off of noodles and pepsi. As for my computer, I bought it. Now I'm not one of the whiny kinda people that always whine because they can't get this piercing or dye their hair... i can't, i hate it, but it's not hte big deal, however these kind of situations are.

Dimitri13 · 09-19-2007, 10:09 PM

1. Kill yourself as stated before.
2. Stop being a pussy and fight back.
3. Call the cops.

nanci302 · 09-19-2007, 10:22 PM

alright here is my opinion.. i think you just need to stick it out untill you graduate.. i know you can do it.. but if it was me i think i would try and talk to her about it.. and if she halls off and hits you try and leave and then go to the cops or call them from your house, just for the face that you need to protect yourself.. i hate to see someone go through this and have to deal with it. .it isnt fair and sooner or later she could end up hurting you severely and i am sure no one wants that.. is there anyone else you can go live with..dont listen to all the BULL all these people say to you.. just keep your head up and your hopes high...

AS FOR EVERYONE ELSE ON THIS GAME THAT HAS BEEN RUDE TO HIM .. I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF YOU TREATING EVERYONE LIKE CRAP. I HAVE BEEN ON HERE FOR 3 OR 4 DAYS NOW AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A WEBSITE TO WHERE I HAVE WANTED TO KICK THE CRAP OUT OF SOME OF YOU.. YOUR THE MOST DISRESPECTFUL GROUP OF PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET AND FOR YOU TO FLAME EVERYONE WHO DOESNT POST IN THE RIGHT SECTION, OR SOMETHING THAT MEANS NOTHING TO YOU IS BULL.. I CANT EVEN BELIVE SOME OF YOU WOULD COME ON HERE AND TELL THIS KID TO KILL HIMSELF.. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE IN HIS SHOES? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF HE DID DO IT AND YOU FOUND OUT ABOUT IT AND IT WAS SOMEWHAT YOUR FAULT B/C EVERYONE WAS TELLING HIM TO DO IT...YOU WOULD NEVER LIVE THAT DOWN AND I KNOW YOU WOULDNT.. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE HIM AND PEOPLE WERE TELLING YOU TO KILL YOURSELF.. HE IS GOING THROUGH ENOUGH RIGHT NOW AND DOESNT NEED ANYONE SAYING NEGATIVE STUFF TO HIM. WHAT HE NEEDS IS SOME PEOPLE TO BE NICE AND SAY THINGS THAT MAKES HIM FEEL NEEDED.. I JUST CANT BELIEVE YOU PEOPLE.. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A GAME AND BEEN SO DISRESPECTED IN SUCH A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME.. I WOULD TELL ALL YOU "YOUNG, PERVERTED, RUDE PEOPLE WHERE TO GO, BUT ID RATHER NOT, JUST B/C I AM BETTER THAT AND I AM BETTER THEN YOU..

Dimitri13 · 09-19-2007, 10:36 PM

tl;dr.

p.s. shut up nanci. FFR isn't a teen helpline.

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K, now I read it. Nanci, if I were in his shoes, I would've called the cops a long time ago. People should have more common sense than to let themselves get the **** kicked out of them every day for 14 years. And if you don't like the way we act, you can leave

~HentaiXXX~ · 09-19-2007, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by nanci302

AS FOR EVERYONE ELSE ON THIS GAME THAT HAS BEEN RUDE TO HIM .. I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF YOU TREATING EVERYONE LIKE CRAP. I HAVE BEEN ON HERE FOR 3 OR 4 DAYS NOW AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A WEBSITE TO WHERE I HAVE WANTED TO KICK THE CRAP OUT OF SOME OF YOU.. YOUR THE MOST DISRESPECTFUL GROUP OF PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET AND FOR YOU TO FLAME EVERYONE WHO DOESNT POST IN THE RIGHT SECTION, OR SOMETHING THAT MEANS NOTHING TO YOU IS BULL.. I CANT EVEN BELIVE SOME OF YOU WOULD COME ON HERE AND TELL THIS KID TO KILL HIMSELF.. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE IN HIS SHOES? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF HE DID DO IT AND YOU FOUND OUT ABOUT IT AND IT WAS SOMEWHAT YOUR FAULT B/C EVERYONE WAS TELLING HIM TO DO IT...YOU WOULD NEVER LIVE THAT DOWN AND I KNOW YOU WOULDNT.. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE HIM AND PEOPLE WERE TELLING YOU TO KILL YOURSELF.. HE IS GOING THROUGH ENOUGH RIGHT NOW AND DOESNT NEED ANYONE SAYING NEGATIVE STUFF TO HIM. WHAT HE NEEDS IS SOME PEOPLE TO BE NICE AND SAY THINGS THAT MAKES HIM FEEL NEEDED.. I JUST CANT BELIEVE YOU PEOPLE.. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A GAME AND BEEN SO DISRESPECTED IN SUCH A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME.. I WOULD TELL ALL YOU "YOUNG, PERVERTED, RUDE PEOPLE WHERE TO GO, BUT ID RATHER NOT, JUST B/C I AM BETTER THAT AND I AM BETTER THEN YOU..

Oh wow, I actually read that whole piece of crap. Well, how about you stfu, because nothing will change, and your complaining IN ALL F*CKING CAPS won't help anything, so unless you want banned, I suggest you stop and deal with it.

Chrissi · 09-20-2007, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by FatalRay

I know it isn't a race, I just couldn't exactly think of what it would be, would prejudice be it?

Couldn't be homophobia or heterosexism, now could it.

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Originally Posted by nanci302

rant

lol. I also find the way Snowcrafta treated this guy kind of shocking, considering this is in Chitchat and deals with abusive family relationships with minors, which is actually serious business. At the same time, I also support the idea that everything in life, even the most shocking and terrible, should be made light of and turned into humour.

But Snowc was just offensive. That wasn't funny at all.

Anyway, I don't know why I'm posting here. Pretty much everyone except Tokzic in this thread has just posted inane crap.

GuidoHunter · 09-20-2007, 01:26 AM

Nancy: welcome to FFR. Read the rules and stickies and do try to stick around and figure out how this place operates before yelling until you're blue in the face.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

g4z33b0 · 09-20-2007, 06:57 AM

what are you talking about? all snowc's posts were hilarious.

rel89 · 09-20-2007, 07:12 AM

Wilkin.

nanci302 · 09-20-2007, 10:08 AM

well i know this isnt a teen helpline, but it is the simple fact that no one is welcoming to anyone.. and alot of you say "welcome to ffr" then you flame the people right from the start.. oh well he has heard what i have to say about the whole situation and for those on here that have giving him so good advice.. thanks but to the rest.. go f*ck yourselves

masterhickle · 09-20-2007, 10:32 AM

We're welcoming to those that don't seem to be demanding of attention. While some of us may be flaming, most of us are being realistic.

OP : Call the cops, join a support group. If you don't report any of that crap you've been getting, then it's your fault that you've gone through this as long as you have. I could see you putting up with it if something like that has happened once in a blue moon because you screwed up, but daily for 14 years?

Dimitri13 · 09-20-2007, 11:05 AM

nanci, stop trying to act like an oldfag, you're still a newfag and will always be a newfag because of the way you talk to the oldfags. I mean come on, telling us to go **** ourselves is just plain rude.

[Edit]

Lots of people are nicely welcome to ffr. Hell, when I joined, I made a little topic in the newbie forum, and was greeted with friendly welcomes and tips on ffr. I didn't make a rude "what are you getting me thread," or a "hi, should I go kill myself now," thread. Be humble and respectful, and you'll get that back.

nanci302 · 09-20-2007, 01:19 PM

well if you didnt notice i dont know anyone on here and it was not like i was expecting anything from any of you guys in the first place it was not a serious thread it was just a joke.. and you should have known that just by the fact that dont know any of you... so next time take a chance to get to know someone b4 your start flamming people.. it was a joke and NO ONE on here can take one.. i used to be able to take jokes untill i try and people flame you for it

OrganisM · 09-20-2007, 01:24 PM

Don't come here and act like you own the place and can dictate the rules.

This is a ridiculous place to ask these kinds of questions, because none of us are experts in the matter and I personally don't know the topic poster at all. Perhaps if he were a regular poster and interacted with the community, I'd know him better and be able to give him advice based on his past experiences.

Stop whining and flaming people. Nobody likes it when you turn it into a huge drama-fest.

~kitty~ · 09-20-2007, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by perkeyone

33% incoherent
33% ignorant
33% poop
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You don't know what you're talking about.

You are most likely the ignorant. My life has been bad for many reasons, but I bet most ppl would just make fun of me for it, which makes it all worse for me. Seriously, you need to get all of your facts straight, and to the maker of this thread, killing yourself gets you nowhere in life, it only makes a life wasted. You know what else? Your mom probably cares a hell lot more about you than you think, if you killed yourself, she would probably feel bad. She is just overreactant, she has too much temper, your mom probably just needs rehab or something. But really, it isn't that bad of a life, I'd rather have that than my life has been up to now.

09-19-2007, 09:09 PM	#45
Lightknight924 FFR Player Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: New York Age: 31 Posts: 1,164	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. Live for the good things, strive to escape the bad.

09-19-2007, 09:18 PM	#46
FatalRay FFR Player Join Date: May 2006 Location: Wpg, MB, Canada Age: 33 Posts: 130	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. K sorry I haven't responded in awhile I went driving with my aunt to escape the hell. Anyways, to answer some of these questions/statements. I am not looking for attention, I know this does/can very well look like it, but In this case since it's this specific kind of matter I am not. Now I can specify more "abuse" and you can tell me if thats standard punishment, I'm not just talking about belts here and there and taking away privileges. I am talking about stuff like being thrown into walls, being thrown through my window I'm on ground floor, being strangled, and punched in the face. As for living, yes I am obviously, healthy...probaly not, I pretty much live off of noodles and pepsi. As for my computer, I bought it. Now I'm not one of the whiny kinda people that always whine because they can't get this piercing or dye their hair... i can't, i hate it, but it's not hte big deal, however these kind of situations are.

09-19-2007, 10:22 PM	#48
nanci302 FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 37 Posts: 32	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. alright here is my opinion.. i think you just need to stick it out untill you graduate.. i know you can do it.. but if it was me i think i would try and talk to her about it.. and if she halls off and hits you try and leave and then go to the cops or call them from your house, just for the face that you need to protect yourself.. i hate to see someone go through this and have to deal with it. .it isnt fair and sooner or later she could end up hurting you severely and i am sure no one wants that.. is there anyone else you can go live with..dont listen to all the BULL all these people say to you.. just keep your head up and your hopes high... AS FOR EVERYONE ELSE ON THIS GAME THAT HAS BEEN RUDE TO HIM .. I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF YOU TREATING EVERYONE LIKE CRAP. I HAVE BEEN ON HERE FOR 3 OR 4 DAYS NOW AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A WEBSITE TO WHERE I HAVE WANTED TO KICK THE CRAP OUT OF SOME OF YOU.. YOUR THE MOST DISRESPECTFUL GROUP OF PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET AND FOR YOU TO FLAME EVERYONE WHO DOESNT POST IN THE RIGHT SECTION, OR SOMETHING THAT MEANS NOTHING TO YOU IS BULL.. I CANT EVEN BELIVE SOME OF YOU WOULD COME ON HERE AND TELL THIS KID TO KILL HIMSELF.. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE IN HIS SHOES? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF HE DID DO IT AND YOU FOUND OUT ABOUT IT AND IT WAS SOMEWHAT YOUR FAULT B/C EVERYONE WAS TELLING HIM TO DO IT...YOU WOULD NEVER LIVE THAT DOWN AND I KNOW YOU WOULDNT.. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE HIM AND PEOPLE WERE TELLING YOU TO KILL YOURSELF.. HE IS GOING THROUGH ENOUGH RIGHT NOW AND DOESNT NEED ANYONE SAYING NEGATIVE STUFF TO HIM. WHAT HE NEEDS IS SOME PEOPLE TO BE NICE AND SAY THINGS THAT MAKES HIM FEEL NEEDED.. I JUST CANT BELIEVE YOU PEOPLE.. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON A GAME AND BEEN SO DISRESPECTED IN SUCH A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME.. I WOULD TELL ALL YOU "YOUNG, PERVERTED, RUDE PEOPLE WHERE TO GO, BUT ID RATHER NOT, JUST B/C I AM BETTER THAT AND I AM BETTER THEN YOU..

09-20-2007, 06:57 AM	#53
g4z33b0 Banned Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Apex, NC Age: 33 Posts: 2,618	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. what are you talking about? all snowc's posts were hilarious.

09-20-2007, 07:12 AM	#54
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09-20-2007, 10:08 AM	#55
nanci302 FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 37 Posts: 32	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. well i know this isnt a teen helpline, but it is the simple fact that no one is welcoming to anyone.. and alot of you say "welcome to ffr" then you flame the people right from the start.. oh well he has heard what i have to say about the whole situation and for those on here that have giving him so good advice.. thanks but to the rest.. go f*ck yourselves

09-20-2007, 10:32 AM	#56
masterhickle FFR Player Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Right behind you Age: 35 Posts: 557	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. We're welcoming to those that don't seem to be demanding of attention. While some of us may be flaming, most of us are being realistic. OP : Call the cops, join a support group. If you don't report any of that crap you've been getting, then it's your fault that you've gone through this as long as you have. I could see you putting up with it if something like that has happened once in a blue moon because you screwed up, but daily for 14 years? __________________ Last edited by masterhickle; 09-20-2007 at 10:49 AM..

09-20-2007, 01:19 PM	#58
nanci302 FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 37 Posts: 32	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. well if you didnt notice i dont know anyone on here and it was not like i was expecting anything from any of you guys in the first place it was not a serious thread it was just a joke.. and you should have known that just by the fact that dont know any of you... so next time take a chance to get to know someone b4 your start flamming people.. it was a joke and NO ONE on here can take one.. i used to be able to take jokes untill i try and people flame you for it

09-20-2007, 01:24 PM	#59
OrganisM FFR Player Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Nesoi, Olympus System Posts: 2,644	Re: What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive. Don't come here and act like you own the place and can dictate the rules. This is a ridiculous place to ask these kinds of questions, because none of us are experts in the matter and I personally don't know the topic poster at all. Perhaps if he were a regular poster and interacted with the community, I'd know him better and be able to give him advice based on his past experiences. Stop whining and flaming people. Nobody likes it when you turn it into a huge drama-fest. __________________ . Originally Posted by jewpinthethird[link]: "If you get stung by enough bees you turn into a bee, because the venom gets into the blood stream which spreads bee DNA throughout your entire body... changing your genetic structure into a bee's. Every year roughly 125 people in America are turned into bees this way." Originally Posted by MrRubix[link]: "Do you basically bukkake-paint your walls every time you jack it?" Originally Posted by All_That_Chaz[link]: "My pity-sex depreciates at a rate of 5% annually."

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