I Need Help All You Girls Or Guys Im Tryin 2 Get A Girlfriend!!

[angel-d]

If you are already good friends then i'd suggest leaving things how they are right now.

Look at it this way, if you ask her out now, she could either say yes and you would have exactly the same relationship but with hand holding and kissing, or she could say no and things could be wierd between you.

Many of the best relationships start off as just friends and slowely progress to something more naturally. Also if she is having a tough time right now, the thing she needs most is a friend who is there to listen when she needs it.

[Ghost375]

Yeah i guess it would work that way but its not that i need 2 "grow some" like one of u guys said i just am afraid of hurting her really badly.... o and 2 all of u people who find grammar problems on the internet i will take time to fix that process..... hopefully wrting comments on the internet to other people and not teachers would've made a difference but i guess not...

[Chrissi]

Originally Posted by Ghost375

Yeah i guess it would work that way but its not that i need 2 "grow some" like one of u guys said i just am afraid of hurting her really badly.... o and 2 all of u people who find grammar problems on the internet i will take time to fix that process..... hopefully wrting comments on the internet to other people and not teachers would've made a difference but i guess not...

No, we like proper grammar so we can understand you.

It's not just for teachers. It's actually useful.

[ubercreep361]

i had that, dont tell her, i liked this girl and wen she found out...well lets just say we're mortal enemies now...

[STARLov314]

I can't really say that I can help because I'm only 14. But think about how much you like her. Not just her looks. Tell her how u feel.

[T3hDDRKid]

I personally wouldn't date somebody who isn't a virgin. In my opinion, somebody like that wouldn't be worth the time. I'm fifteen now, and am staying a virgin until marriage. Period.

[Chrissi]

Originally Posted by T3hDDRKid

I personally wouldn't date somebody who isn't a virgin. In my opinion, somebody like that wouldn't be worth the time. I'm fifteen now, and am staying a virgin until marriage. Period.

It's highly likely you'll change your opinion when you get older.

And what's wrong with not-a-virgin people? As long as they were smart about it, why should you judge them based on their actions in the past? It didn't involve you, and they weren't really taking risks. Of course, there are always small risks, but that's what makes life worth it. Every time you get in a car you're taking a risk. That doesn't stop anyone. Wearing a condom results in a low enough risk that it isn't a big deal.

[Izlude77714]

I found a new sig

[lord_carbo]

Originally Posted by Ghost375

Alright heres how it is I like this chick at school.... she has no idea i like her.... sometimes we joke around u kno run into eachother in the halls etc. but the worst part is that she had a miscarrige a while bak and im afraid if i ask her out ill lose her 4ever.... can any of u guys or gals help?

And you want to get with her?

Just settle for "good acquaintance," maybe "decent friend." Rofl she's a whore. Naw, just kidding.

Seriously, I really have no other choice than to settle for "good acquaintance." I'm bad with women, so I need to treat them less like women and more like normal people to get to known them. B'sides, I don't work well with girls I have a crush on, so I try to crush the crush and just get to be friends, and it's worked for one girl so far. So from personal experience I'd say that that's for the better if you don't want to **** up any chance to get to know her ever. Intimate relationships don't always last. Friendships usually do.

[purebloodtexan]

Originally Posted by STARLov314

I can't really say that I can help because I'm only 14. But think about how much you like her. Not just her looks. Tell her how u feel.

I just turned 15 a few months ago; you can be any sensible age and know the way of the sexes.

[Ghost375]

Yeah but im already saying that i want to get with her I mean she isnt just another chick shes this...amazing....incredible.....beautiful women and i just dont think shed appreciate going 2 fast if u kno wat im sayin

[FANTAS!E]

'Fraid I can't help you there.


I've never tried to get a girl to like me. x]

[lord_carbo]

Originally Posted by Ghost375

Yeah but im already saying that i want to get with her I mean she isnt just another chick shes this...amazing....incredible.....beautiful women and i just dont think shed appreciate going 2 fast if u kno wat im sayin

Yeah, uhh, I think I know what you're saying. You're going through typical hormone induced lust. Nearly everyone goes through it.

Just go with what I said.

[fuzzy~moose]

Originally Posted by x6tence

Dude teen sex is NOT COOL (and painful)
-but I just heard that on Opra...

HAHAHA.

[Demon_Of_The_Comet]

Originally Posted by Ghost375

Yeah but im already saying that i want to get with her I mean she isnt just another chick shes this...amazing....incredible.....beautiful women and i just dont think shed appreciate going 2 fast if u kno wat im sayin

Woman rofl

[Rubin0]

There is such a double standard between guys and girls having sex...it's ridiculous.

[nforcer06164]

Originally Posted by Chrissi

And what's wrong with not-a-virgin people? As long as they were smart about it, why should you judge them based on their actions in the past? It didn't involve you, and they weren't really taking risks. Of course, there are always small risks, but that's what makes life worth it. Every time you get in a car you're taking a risk. That doesn't stop anyone. Wearing a condom results in a low enough risk that it isn't a big deal.

You're being defensive about it because you're one of those people.

Honestly, I'm the same way when it comes to the virgin/not-a-virgin thing. I don't see those that are quick to lose their virginity just because everybody else is doing it (your little note about the average age being 15-16 make it apparent; almost nobody understands love at that age) doesn't make for the most stable person in a relationship, only because I would question exactly why they'd do it in the first place. I've turned down a girl or two when I found this out. And, it actually was a good decision; they weren't exactly the best of characters in retrospect. It's a sign of weak will, at least from my point of view. And, if you don't have respect for the person you may spend the rest of your life with, much less yourself... who wants someone like that?

Not trying to offend you, Chrissi. That's just how I see things.

[FluorescentArmy]

She's 15 and she had a miscarriage? What the f*ck. I smell whore.

[idontcarewhatyouthink]

Originally Posted by FluorescentArmy

She's 15 and she had a miscarriage? What the f*ck. I smell whore.

i thought it was bitch? *sniff sniff* nope, definitly vintage whore.

but seriously, read this, it has all the answers you'll ever need.

HOW TO GET AND BANG A GIRLFRIEND:
1. Hit her when shes off guard(enough to make her lose her memory)
2. when she wakes up(may be up to 6 hours), tell her you are her boyfriend
3. BANG HER.

[hyprskillz]

Originally Posted by nforcer06164

Honestly, I'm the same way when it comes to the virgin/not-a-virgin thing. I don't see those that are quick to lose their virginity just because everybody else is doing it (your little note about the average age being 15-16 make it apparent; almost nobody understands love at that age) doesn't make for the most stable person in a relationship, only because I would question exactly why they'd do it in the first place. I've turned down a girl or two when I found this out. And, it actually was a good decision; they weren't exactly the best of characters in retrospect. It's a sign of weak will, at least from my point of view. And, if you don't have respect for the person you may spend the rest of your life with, much less yourself... who wants someone like that?

Not trying to offend you, Chrissi. That's just how I see things.

I completely agree with you Nforcer. People who lose virginity at young age do so for such stupid reasons, and what is very common regarding those people is that they seek very shallow relationships.

Ghost375, I totally understand how you are feeling since we have all had our moments of meeting this "incredible girl" and such but since she had a miscarriage, I would advise you to be extra careful. Don't rush to get with her; instead talk to her casually and find out what kind of person she is. Look out for "red flags" or "warning signs" she might say during your conversation (such as 'I've hung out with 10 different guys' or any remark that would indicate to you that she is definately not the type of woman you want to be with.)