What do you find most attractive in a female? - Page 7

Litodude · 10-25-2010, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Izzy

Doesn't that seem kind of shallow?

Are you still that immature to believe finding a compatible mate requires no physical attraction whatsoever

Litodude · 10-25-2010, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by i love you

Definition of Troll: Someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into a desired emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.

Topic of thread: What do you find most attractive in a female?

You: http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...2&postcount=71
http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...5&postcount=72
http://www.flashflashrevolution.com/...5&postcount=74

That proves that you are a troll.

Because of the fact that you used something against me that happened in 2007? Yeah, I'm done wasting my time with a troll who thinks that this forum is an ODI forum.

how long did it take u to type that holy **** can u admit u are gay already and bow down

**DossarLX ODI** · 10-25-2010, 08:04 PM

In other words: Any post that has a couple paragraphs and isn't in CT is automatically considered a tl;dr dumb post.

Also if you're not going to even listen to why he did it in the first place, then he has no reason to be offended by you lol. You're just going to keep saying "hyuk hyuk you're a loser".

Oh and I bet you're also going to reply to this saying something similar. Maybe even trying to find archives about me too! xd

Wineandbread · 10-25-2010, 08:05 PM

Sup guys I hear there's drama

Wineandbread · 10-25-2010, 08:05 PM

I felt like throwing a double post in here cause I'm cool like that okay bye

**DossarLX ODI** · 10-25-2010, 08:05 PM

Dramamanias

SUBJECTIVEMANIAS

MrRubix · 10-25-2010, 08:06 PM

I see nothing wrong with being shallow.

If someone likes people primarily for their physical looks/money, what's the issue? It's only a problem if the person with looks/money wants to be valued for more than that.

But more generally, for me, someone could be really smart and nice, but it just isn't going to work if there's no physical/sexual chemistry.

I've been with smart girls that were cute, smart girls that were unattractive, unintelligent girls that were hot, and unintelligent girls that were unattractive (but were nice people). I've met girls online, and I've met girls in person. I've been with serious types and the immature types.

I've always gotten along better with smarter girls with a physical cuteness and sexual wild side -- with the ability to be either really serious or really funloving. Dumb girls eventually infuriate me and make me embarrassed to be around them. Unattractive girls make it hard for me to look forward to any sort of physical activity because it's simply not as exciting. Girls that are too serious bore me after a while, and girls who don't know *how* to be serious make communication difficult (and it usually makes me call their maturity into question). When there's a rift in communication, the girl and I usually wind up hating each other.

Luckily, my current girlfriend fits almost every one of my nitpicky metrics, and vice-versa.

It pays not to settle. But it also pays to be realistic.

**Emo_Saur_** · 10-25-2010, 08:08 PM

We're all trolls.

Litodude · 10-25-2010, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DossarLX ODI

In other words: Any post that has a couple paragraphs and isn't in CT is automatically considered a tl;dr dumb post.

Also if you're not going to even listen to why he did it in the first place, then he has no reason to be offended by you lol. You're just going to keep saying "hyuk hyuk you're a loser".

Oh and I bet you're also going to reply to this saying something similar. Maybe even trying to find archives about me too! xd

I don't have anything against you, so no. It's the fact that it's been literally an hour since he's was the topic of discussion, I successfully put this thread back on track, and he doesn't want to back down after just light trolling. I've read his post (no I didn't lol) and that initiated this relapse.

FictionJunction · 10-25-2010, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DossarLX ODI

Also if you're not going to even listen to why he did it in the first place

excuse me? is there a good reason to spend your time creating a female internet persona and upkeep its reputation?

**phe0nixblade** · 10-25-2010, 08:16 PM

i like the multitude of colors in the users viewing this thread, bet red is gonna lock it though

**DossarLX ODI** · 10-25-2010, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by FictionJunction

excuse me? is there a good reason to spend your time creating a female internet persona and upkeep its reputation?

Something like this would be better to talk over AIM, private message, etc. rather than on this forum. He gave me a concise summary of what happened and it's understandable.

Going back to Rubix:

Some people get lured in by money, like you mentioned - this may be a problem because it's not actual love, it's just trying to get to that person so you can live a wealthy lifestyle. The most important thing is definitely to be realistic though. The first thing you need to understand is that you may find a female that fits most of your expectations, but still isn't quite perfect. You should stick with someone you really do care about, even if they may not be the most attractive, etc.

Izzy · 10-25-2010, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by darkshark

Be honest with yourself. There HAS to be a level of attraction between the two people or it just isn't going to work.

I never said there didn't, but that doesn't mean I base my relationships on physical appearances.

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Originally Posted by Litodude

Are you still that immature to believe finding a compatible mate requires no physical attraction whatsoever

I can't see what you are questioning how mature or not I am. If anything it is being naive.

NFD · 10-25-2010, 08:24 PM

Man you're dumb Dossar.

**Emo_Saur_** · 10-25-2010, 08:25 PM

thread isn't closed, but the trolls are banned at this point in time.

Back on topic, I forgot to add that I can't do with a female who has had sex with more than 5 men.

**devonin** · 10-25-2010, 08:27 PM

Is that number going to increase as you get older? Or is 5 partners ever in their whole life just somehow magically too many for you to cope with forever?

Izzy · 10-25-2010, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by devonin

Is that number going to increase as you get older? Or is 5 partners ever in their whole life just somehow magically too many for you to cope with forever?

Are you implying that the age of his partners is also increasing?

**Emo_Saur_** · 10-25-2010, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by devonin

Is that number going to increase as you get older? Or is 5 partners ever in their whole life just somehow magically too many for you to cope with forever?

Eh, since I believe in saving yourself for love (not marriage) no it wont. It's just not my thing. It's not a double standard for me either, if a guy brags about how many people he has screwed I'd just be like, "cool."

MrGiggles · 10-25-2010, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by MrRubix

I see nothing wrong with being shallow.

If someone likes people primarily for their physical looks/money, what's the issue? It's only a problem if the person with looks/money wants to be valued for more than that.

There's that perspective I've been looking for.

MrRubix · 10-25-2010, 08:53 PM

In one of my finance classes, we briefly, for fun, applied a probability model to relationship standards for the hell of it.

If we had the opportunity to roll multiple dice in a row (with the ability to stop any time), where our payout equaled what we rolled, we'd obviously keep rolling until we hit a 6. We wouldn't roll once and stick with a 2. We have the luxury of re-rolling if our number of trials is sufficiently high.

But how do we know when to stop rolling? When it comes to this dice game, the math is easy. For one die, we stop if we beat 3.5 (i.e. roll a 4, 5, or 6). For two dice, we stop if we beat 4.25 (i.e. roll a 5 or 6) on the first roll, or if we choose to keep going, we expect a 3.5 if we roll again. Once we hit the sweet spot of 5 dice do we aim for the max. We stop on the first roll if we beat 5.13 or so (only achievable by rolling a 6). Any additional dice we get beyond that mark essentially gains us free shots at aiming for 6.

In other words, if we take this logic to relationships -- the reason we don't want to settle is obviously because our standards are higher when we're young. We have more time ahead of us and we can continually go on dates to our heart's content, rejecting whatever doesn't surpass our U(x) thresholds.

The problem, of course, is that women aren't dice. We don't immediately know all the values up front, nor do we know the probability distributions like we do with a die. It's also much harder to roll again. Furthermore, dating is two-sided. We may find someone that is good enough for us, but are we good enough for them?

It can start to look pretty bleak when you factor all this crap in. It all points to a bit of a numbers game. If you have high standards, date frequently and often -- and be willing to accept brutal rejections in high dosages. If you have lower standards, you obviously don't need to do this as much.

Just a fun way to model the situation. XD

10-25-2010, 08:04 PM	#123
DossarLX ODI Batch Manager Game Manager, Song Release Coordinator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: USA Age: 29 Posts: 14,871	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? In other words: Any post that has a couple paragraphs and isn't in CT is automatically considered a tl;dr dumb post. Also if you're not going to even listen to why he did it in the first place, then he has no reason to be offended by you lol. You're just going to keep saying "hyuk hyuk you're a loser". Oh and I bet you're also going to reply to this saying something similar. Maybe even trying to find archives about me too! xd

10-25-2010, 08:05 PM	#126
DossarLX ODI Batch Manager Game Manager, Song Release Coordinator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: USA Age: 29 Posts: 14,871	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? Dramamanias SUBJECTIVEMANIAS

10-25-2010, 08:06 PM	#127
MrRubix FFR Player Join Date: Dec 1969 Location: New York City, New York Posts: 8,340	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? I see nothing wrong with being shallow. If someone likes people primarily for their physical looks/money, what's the issue? It's only a problem if the person with looks/money wants to be valued for more than that. But more generally, for me, someone could be really smart and nice, but it just isn't going to work if there's no physical/sexual chemistry. I've been with smart girls that were cute, smart girls that were unattractive, unintelligent girls that were hot, and unintelligent girls that were unattractive (but were nice people). I've met girls online, and I've met girls in person. I've been with serious types and the immature types. I've always gotten along better with smarter girls with a physical cuteness and sexual wild side -- with the ability to be either really serious or really funloving. Dumb girls eventually infuriate me and make me embarrassed to be around them. Unattractive girls make it hard for me to look forward to any sort of physical activity because it's simply not as exciting. Girls that are too serious bore me after a while, and girls who don't know how to be serious make communication difficult (and it usually makes me call their maturity into question). When there's a rift in communication, the girl and I usually wind up hating each other. Luckily, my current girlfriend fits almost every one of my nitpicky metrics, and vice-versa. It pays not to settle. But it also pays to be realistic. __________________ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0es0Mip1jWY

10-25-2010, 08:08 PM	#128
Emo_Saur_ FFR Veteran Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Kansas City, Missouri. Age: 31 Posts: 2,952	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? We're all trolls. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

10-25-2010, 08:16 PM	#131
phe0nixblade Praise the sun mofo Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Lordran Age: 32 Posts: 4,281	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? i like the multitude of colors in the users viewing this thread, bet red is gonna lock it though __________________

10-25-2010, 08:24 PM	#134
NFD FFR Player Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: I see us on a beach down in, Mexico Age: 31 Posts: 4,715	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? Man you're dumb Dossar. __________________

10-25-2010, 08:25 PM	#135
Emo_Saur_ FFR Veteran Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Kansas City, Missouri. Age: 31 Posts: 2,952	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? thread isn't closed, but the trolls are banned at this point in time. Back on topic, I forgot to add that I can't do with a female who has had sex with more than 5 men. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

10-25-2010, 08:27 PM	#136
devonin Very Grave Indeed Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Age: 40 Posts: 10,098	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? Is that number going to increase as you get older? Or is 5 partners ever in their whole life just somehow magically too many for you to cope with forever?

10-25-2010, 08:53 PM	#140
MrRubix FFR Player Join Date: Dec 1969 Location: New York City, New York Posts: 8,340	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? In one of my finance classes, we briefly, for fun, applied a probability model to relationship standards for the hell of it. If we had the opportunity to roll multiple dice in a row (with the ability to stop any time), where our payout equaled what we rolled, we'd obviously keep rolling until we hit a 6. We wouldn't roll once and stick with a 2. We have the luxury of re-rolling if our number of trials is sufficiently high. But how do we know when to stop rolling? When it comes to this dice game, the math is easy. For one die, we stop if we beat 3.5 (i.e. roll a 4, 5, or 6). For two dice, we stop if we beat 4.25 (i.e. roll a 5 or 6) on the first roll, or if we choose to keep going, we expect a 3.5 if we roll again. Once we hit the sweet spot of 5 dice do we aim for the max. We stop on the first roll if we beat 5.13 or so (only achievable by rolling a 6). Any additional dice we get beyond that mark essentially gains us free shots at aiming for 6. In other words, if we take this logic to relationships -- the reason we don't want to settle is obviously because our standards are higher when we're young. We have more time ahead of us and we can continually go on dates to our heart's content, rejecting whatever doesn't surpass our U(x) thresholds. The problem, of course, is that women aren't dice. We don't immediately know all the values up front, nor do we know the probability distributions like we do with a die. It's also much harder to roll again. Furthermore, dating is two-sided. We may find someone that is good enough for us, but are we good enough for them? It can start to look pretty bleak when you factor all this crap in. It all points to a bit of a numbers game. If you have high standards, date frequently and often -- and be willing to accept brutal rejections in high dosages. If you have lower standards, you obviously don't need to do this as much. Just a fun way to model the situation. XD __________________ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0es0Mip1jWY

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