What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive.

[irishknight]

Originally Posted by Dimitri13

nanci, stop trying to act like an oldfag, you're still a newfag and will always be a newfag because of the way you talk to the oldfags. I mean come on, telling us to go **** ourselves is just plain rude.

[Edit]

Lots of people are nicely welcome to ffr. Hell, when I joined, I made a little topic in the newbie forum, and was greeted with friendly welcomes and tips on ffr. I didn't make a rude "what are you getting me thread," or a "hi, should I go kill myself now," thread. Be humble and respectful, and you'll get that back.

Originally Posted by nanci302

well if you didnt notice i dont know anyone on here and it was not like i was expecting anything from any of you guys in the first place it was not a serious thread it was just a joke.. and you should have known that just by the fact that dont know any of you... so next time take a chance to get to know someone b4 your start flamming people.. it was a joke and NO ONE on here can take one.. i used to be able to take jokes untill i try and people flame you for it

How can any person determine internet sarcasm?
We can't tell if there's sarcasm just by reading that. Or at least I can't.


It's not like you literally typed out, "Hey guys what are you getting me? [/joke]"

[masterhickle]

killing yourself gets you nowhere in life, it only makes a life wasted.

Or, as I remember hearing before : Suicide - a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

[GuidoHunter]

Originally Posted by nanci302

flamming people

They go 20 feet.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

[tloz998]

Originally Posted by ~kitty~

You don't know what you're talking about.

You are most likely the ignorant. My life has been bad for many reasons, but I bet most ppl would just make fun of me for it, which makes it all worse for me. Seriously, you need to get all of your facts straight, and to the maker of this thread, killing yourself gets you nowhere in life, it only makes a life wasted. You know what else? Your mom probably cares a hell lot more about you than you think, if you killed yourself, she would probably feel bad. She is just overreactant, she has too much temper, your mom probably just needs rehab or something. But really, it isn't that bad of a life, I'd rather have that than my life has been up to now.

you've gotten me curious...how bad is your life? im curious to your story...and forget anyone who sits there and makes fun of anyone whos under harsh conditions...yea they are entitled to their oppinion, but it doesnt mean you have to listen to it...lets hear ur story

[fido123]

This guy isn't whining out for attention. He has a problem and he's opening up to these forums. Really FFR is more than an online dancing simulator forum but it has grown into a forum for all sorts of conversation and problems that people want solved. The OP simply wants some opinions/idea's. Stop with the "OMG that stupid emo kid wants attention" as I can tell by his good attitude he is in fact not a whiny emo kid.

I can understand why you don't want to call the police. You obviously want to keep your family together and don't want to deal with foster homes and all the drama that comes with it. Also you don't want to push yourself away from your girlfriend. You may want to seriously show your mom that she can't push you around anymore. Don't beat her up but stand tall and push her away from you and tell her not to touch you. When she figures out she can't kick your ass she might back off. After that just worry about getting through high school.

Also I would also like to hear your story kitty as of right now I am assuming you are a whiny emo kid. Proof me wrong please.

[FatalRay]

Thank you fido . I'm lucky i suppose because this is my last year of high school. Once I graduate I'll probaly be spending nights at my gf's anyways, well... one can hope

Also, for the record, not all "Emo" kids are whiny. In my school, I am classified as an "Emo" for my appearence, however not all of them are. just wanted to clear that up

[Problems]

find something you're passionate about and do it. a lot.

if you're passionate about your girlfriend, do it. a lot.

But in all seriousness, talk to someone in person about this. Get it all out.

[Sir_Thomas]

Originally Posted by FatalRay

K, story of my life up to today summarized in a nutshell.

Ever since I was 3, my mother ignored me unless she a. wanted to yell at me for something, b.abuse me physically/emotionally. I'm now 16, almost 17. I have a job, I can pay for my own subscription as you can see, and among other things.

I have a wonderful gf, however she lives 30 mins away by car. Now if you lived those 14 years of your life, always without fail definitely yelled at for something, or possibly beaten. What would you do. If you go to family services. You lose everything, your gf, everything. If you stay... the mother will possibly kill you or eventually you will yourself. If you stay, other possible answer is, your kicked out, you die of starvation. So no matter what you do, your trapped. What do you do. Me...I have no idea, so I wanna get some ideas from other people here. and as for today, I was almost strangled/punched. Thats what is making me psot this

Same thing with my Mom. Shes an alcoholic and is the most clever and manipulative being alive when drunk (Odd as it sounds.)

Fortunately, I didnt get the physical abuse. Unless I was stepping in the way of my Moms punches when she was trying to hit the guy we were living with (Or the guy rarely swinging at her.), I was fine.

I can't really say. My Mom had a hold on me making me think that if I left and moved she would do something like kill herself because I knew if we moved to my Dads that the guy we were living with would kick her out; The only reason he let her stay was because of me and my brother.

Im not sure if youre like me where you give a damn about your mother, or she has some mental hold. Who knows. I don't care what anyone else ****ing says. If your mother is hitting on you, put a foot down. Get ****ing crazy. Thats what stopped my mother trying anything physical (Mostly) with me. I see it this way. It shouldnt be hard to go crazy and get her scared. It will become natural if you live there.

If worse comes to worse, I would not hesitate to slap her in her face if shes about to get physical.

I dont give a damn about religion or respect. If someone is not going to respect you by hitting on you, dont give her any respect. If shes not taking into account your her son, dont take into account shes your mother. As soon as she swings, bitchslap her, get loud, get red in the face. Go insane.

Questions...

A.) Do you have some place to live? Another place to stay?
B.) Father? Yes/No/Left You (Dont answer if you dont want to.)
C.) Any friends you can live with?
D.) GO TO COLLEGE. Even if you dont have the grades, you can go to a community college and transfer to a good one from there. If you get someone to help you; you can probably get grants depending on your wealth. If you are living on your own you explain your situation, you could get most of your college payed for, and move out into a dorm.

Talk to me on AIM, MSN, or Yahoo. There are more questions but its personal.

AIM: Flare361
MSN: Lunatic1361@Yahoo.com
Yahoo: Lunatic1361@Yahoo.com

[imockthepea]

Well when you graduate there is always the military! If thats not for you, then try an instrument. I play bass whenever stuff gets me down.

[Sir_Thomas]

Originally Posted by imockthepea

Well when you graduate there is always the military! If thats not for you, then try an instrument. I play bass whenever stuff gets me down.

Same thing. Start playing the piano and I calm down.

[pntballa18]

Originally Posted by ShAiOnEi

You're not listening to the right kind in fact you may think you're listening to metal when it's actually not metal at all.

sup undertaker666

[perkeyone]

Originally Posted by ~kitty~

You are definately viewing your life much worse than it really is. It isn't that abusive of your mom. My mom has hit me, but it is for reasons to make us behave, and in your moms point of view, she probably only wants the best out of you, and she doesn't see it, and she overreacts. You are not living that bad of a life since you 1) Have a computer to use 2) Still alive and healthy 3) Have had someone to share your feelings with.

Those 3 are really good to have, and you seriously need to put consideration how lucky you are compared to millions of homeless, mentally ill, physically abused, and "used" children out there.

I am not of any of these, my life is worse than yours btw.


Btw, I double posted to quote another person, and I do not know how to double quote people, so don't accuse me of not using the -EDIT- button

Originally Posted by perkeyone

33% incoherent
33% ignorant
33% poop
1% missing

Originally Posted by ~kitty~

You don't know what you're talking about.

You are most likely the ignorant. My life has been bad for many reasons, but I bet most ppl would just make fun of me for it, which makes it all worse for me. Seriously, you need to get all of your facts straight, and to the maker of this thread, killing yourself gets you nowhere in life, it only makes a life wasted. You know what else? Your mom probably cares a hell lot more about you than you think, if you killed yourself, she would probably feel bad. She is just overreactant, she has too much temper, your mom probably just needs rehab or something. But really, it isn't that bad of a life, I'd rather have that than my life has been up to now.

the incoherence refers to your grammar in the first post.
the ignorance refers to the assumptions that you made about the thread starter's life.
the poop was for fun.
the remaining 1 % i added to make it 100%

i apologize for the grammar part if english is not your first language.
however it is still ignorant to assume that your life is "worse" because no one can fully understand what it is like to live someone else's life... ever and because "worse" is an opinion

ps: do you like how i put multiple quotes in one?
just click on the posts you want to quote and copy-paste it into a wordpad or any thing else you find that will work

[lord_carbo]

What would you do under these conditions if your parents were abusive.

Post about it on an online forum for a Flash game.

P.S. capitalization is a big part of grammar, something you seem to not do, perkeyone. C'mon, you probably use QWERTY. Your right pinky finger is doing nothing.

[Sir_Thomas]

Eh its ****ing pathetic when you blatantly flame people for the hell of it. And dont say its because someone deserved it.

Anyone can tell plainly when someone is flaming another just to purposely be an ass.

Thats fine if you are on mock/joke forums like 4Chan or TGB, but this is a normal forum.
If you have nothing to contribute; get out.

[lord_carbo]

Sir Thomas, your "don't tell me he didn't deserve it" statement is the equivalent of saying, "don't give me x and y reasons as to why I shouldn't rape my mom, I only want to hear other reasons. Oh, you can't provide any other than those? Okay, I'm gonna rape my mom."

[Shadowstar7]

Call Dateline.

[lord_carbo]

PS why the hell does this kid have the Internet.

PPS serious response: hit the gym. Almost strangled? Dude, you should be able to overpower your mom. You're a 16 year old boy. Even I can overpower my mom, and I'm not strong at all. Maybe that's why she abuses you, because you're a wimp and she can get away with it.

[fido123]

I agree with Sir Thomas...keep this shit in TGB. Maybe he just doesn't want to hurt his mom because his heart isn't a deep black hole like some people *cough cough*?

[jewpinthethird]

Originally Posted by lord_carbo

PS why the hell does this kid have the Internet.

PPS serious response: hit the gym. Almost strangled? Dude, you should be able to overpower your mom. You're a 16 year old boy. Even I can overpower my mom, and I'm not strong at all. Maybe that's why she abuses you, because you're a wimp and she can get away with it.

Maybe his mom is a body builder on steroids? That would explain the aggression.

[ShAiOnEi]

Originally Posted by lord_carbo

PS why the hell does this kid have the Internet.

PPS serious response: hit the gym. Almost strangled? Dude, you should be able to overpower your mom. You're a 16 year old boy. Even I can overpower my mom, and I'm not strong at all. Maybe that's why she abuses you, because you're a wimp and she can get away with it.

My mom threw one of those huge kitchen knives at me once because I asked what kinda **** she was cooking that day.