ways to get over depression

[RobbyZero]

To Laharl lol I was saying to him I couldnt care less if anyone didnt like me.

[87x]

Well that kind of sucks of nobody can accept you for who you are and you shouldn't have to change who you are and what you look like to satisfy everyone

yesa it does suck.. but who is getting the shaft in this situation??.. the individual, who everyone hates now and will try to make there life misserable, or the society, who will be happy because they got rid of another out-cast?..

The people that think they're "it" are " teh (#$%" they are the suck and can go fucken fuk themselves for ruining people and causing them to into certain stages of depression and madness

Hostility in you.. happiness in them.. like i said.. society doesn't care about you.. they make you mad by doing what they do, and it makes them happy.. which is why i said, it gets people depressed to try and be an individual and fail at making it in society..

that person made a kid feel so unwanted he had no choice but to shoot your friend but your the one who got shot because you hung around with him and the kid who shot you didnt knnow what else to do but pull a gun on everyone.

that kids an idiot.. thats called the anti suicide.. where the kid instead of killing himself decides to kill others instead.. hes an idiot.. and makes stupid decisions... shooting people is never the only option in these cases.. that guy is just stupid..

Myself,personally don't give a (#$% if im not "good/good/popular" enough for the "society" we have of showoffs and such. I dont care if im not accepted by them im nothing like them I dont expect any of them to be friendly to me or even talk to me

Then why are you depressed??.. if you don't care what people think about you, then why do you care if they like you or not?

don't need to win a popularity contest, but you still need to feel loved and accepted by some people.

my point exactly

[IAMTHEEVILBEAN]

Originally Posted by Jam930

7 hours? where the hell do u get 7 hours? no offense.

What don't you get?
The computer owns any other non living thing and most of the living things out there.

[Privateer]

School is part of the cause for depression in a lot of teens. Get some halfway decent grades before the bad grades bite you in the ass.

[RobbyZero]

Then why are you depressed??.. if you don't care what people think about you, then why do you care if they like you or not?

It's not that reason at all. It's just hard to make friends and later to find out they secretly don't like you and don't tell you and when they do you already know and want to kill them. I have many reasons for being like I am now but my parents say it's bs and other people might too but it's just what brings me down.

[87x]

dude.. friends suck dick.. get over those ass holes.. the fucked you over.. so what.. be friends with someone else.. its like changing schools.. start from scratch and try to make friends with people.. obviously those ass hats are idiots, and i guarantee they only turned on you because the leader of the friends group didn't like you .. so they all just turned on you to try and be cool with that guy.. how long ago did this happen, and why are you still mad over it??.. Im sure those kids weren't the only kids in the whole school that you thought you had something in common with.. but you quit school anyway (another dumb move).. but now that your out of school you will see that people in the real world don't really give a shit about stupid childish things like what you wear and how you look... if you have ever had a job then you would know what im talking about.. i have three.. and in all three i have been mostly the outcast.. but it didn't matter, because my personality is likeable and i get on the good side of people.. at my school im like the white guy you see walking with the black guys, but doesn't dress in the roca wear and fubu.. right now i got on windbreaker pants khaki colored with paint stains on them.. and a white colored polo shirt.. and S.W.A.T. shoes i got from a police store.. personality over comes all in the end.. either you aren't a likeable person (your fault), or you don't try to make friends (your fault), either way its your fault your in this state of "depression"..

[IAMTHEEVILBEAN]

I have one good friend that i can actually trust with anything, and a few others who are really close.

I am never depressed since I own school.

My mom thinks I am depressed, but I am not.

[RobbyZero]

Well uh I dress normally I guess? If you call some novelty shirts ( bounty papertowel logo but says Viagra on it and like pimp and skate shirts) blue jeans,skate shoes/indoor soccer shoes/running shoes and blue jeans. and a wilson sweatshirt. I tryed talking one of these people who didn't like me or seemed like her didnt like me and he's like " I dunno" ... Am I really that much of a shitty person? I mean I've been on the forums long enough to know some people and you all must know something about me..god...im not a mean person im kind and i try to help people who need it and im not on drugs and all fucked up i dont like gangs or fighting.

the only way to be good friends with the people at school is like to be rappers and listen to rap 24/7 and just love the complete oposite of myself.

[1-4-4]

87x is right, like I did I made a friend, Lookin for the job to get over the depression. Try to do something fun instead of sitting and do nothing. Play some of game with your friend or out of house playing acrade. You can look for the girlfriend somewhere around in your local area, Not from the internet dating - This internet dating is sucks Nothing helpful at all. You know that's what I do....

Purple Player

[Moogy]

Originally Posted by Privateer

School is part of the cause for depression in a lot of teens. Get some halfway decent grades before the bad grades bite you in the ass.

OMG LISTEN TO CAPTAIN JACK COLON OH COLON OH COLON OH

And I don't see how anyone could really be depressed...

My philosophy in life is to just not care. I can do it very easily. Made a bad grade? Something bad happen? I don't care.

Yeah. I'm odd.

[fusi0n]

it's a lot easier than caring.

[RobbyZero]

My philosophy in life is to just not care. I can do it very easily. Made a bad grade? Something bad happen? I don't care.

Well said.

[87x]

no not really.. im the same way as you moogy.. i been doing it for the past three years... ever since my parents got mad at me for failing 9th grade english.. i just didn't do any work.. i passed all the exams.. and did excellent on all the projects.. i just never did any homework.. and sometimes never did my class work.. but i feel not caring is the way to go..

Robby,
from what i have seen of you on ffr, you are a very nice person, who would be an alright guy to hang out with.. you basically never try and be better than anyone, and you never are an ass hole to people.. but one thing is different about online than real life.. not being face to face with people.. you can't be shy on the internet, because to be shy you have to be afraid of someones reaction.. and since you can't see there reaction, then there is no need to be shy.. Maybe in real life you just are a shy person and that is a characteristic of a "weak" person. Then people see this shyness and feed off of it to make themselves seem better.. try not being so shy and more outgoing, and more spuratic.. im not asking you to change yourself, but shy isn't something a guy who wears vintage t's and the gear you were speaking of should be..

[RobbyZero]

Still feel stupid for posting about my feelings and what im going I don't even know half the people who roam on the forums and I opened up so much lately it's weird.

[87x]

well if you don't feel comforatable talking on the forums i can continue this on a pm basis.. As you can tell i have strong feelings about this situation and i will through out all the ideas i can on how to help you with whatever problems you have..

[Laharl]

Originally Posted by Jam930

whoa...slow down

lol laharl, watch yourself. that was kinda hipocritical.

How so? I realize I myself will claim at times "I don't care what other's think" but it's not true. All people, ALL PEOPLE- have a need to be accepted in even the slightest degree.

I didn't mean to come across as being an ass here. I'm simply saying, don't try to shrug off a basic desire all humans have.

[RobbyZero]

well if you don't feel comforatable talking on the forums i can continue this on a pm basis.. As you can tell i have strong feelings about this situation and i will through out all the ideas i can on how to help you with whatever problems you have..

I don't mind posting about it. It's not weird to the point where I figure out I was on drugs posting it :P I've been through tons of possibilites already and it just doesn't work,I don't know if you can call it depression but its where everything sucks.

[Anticrombie0909]

Originally Posted by RobbyZero

Well said.

I agree. I'm the most apathetic person ever. I don't know where I get it, because both my parents are really high strung, but maybe that's why I'm so laid-back. I never get offended or worried about anything, and if I do, I just shrug it off and tell myself that in the long run it doesn't really matter anyway.

[RobbyZero]

I agree. I'm the most apathetic person ever. I don't know where I get it, because both my parents are really high strung, but maybe that's why I'm so laid-back. I never get offended or worried about anything, and if I do, I just shrug it off and tell myself that in the long run it doesn't really matter anyway

Ya my parents are like that too. It's funny,they're like " Don't you even care about anything at all?" I look at them and walk away....

I do it with everything and do it to everyone..

I also asked my parents why do you keep asking me stupid questions lol

[87x]

well.. you must care about something robby or you wouldn't be so upset about the whole friends issue.. and too not care about anything is stupid.. not caring about stupid things its ok.. but not caring about family or friends stupid..