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Old 11-8-2003, 09:22 PM   #1
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my best firend is trying to kill him self over his familey hes my best friend
and id do any thing to stop him any tips
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:24 PM   #2
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:24 PM   #3
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Talk to him, right fucking NOW.

Get him to talk to them, anything, cause losing a friend suck, ALOT.

So I would go now, do your best, thwart him anyway possible, cheer him up, anyhing.

Just act quick.
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:26 PM   #4
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:26 PM   #5
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well, since you guys are best friends, just be there for him. listen to what he says, dont make him feel bad for how he feels, and just try to give him suggestions of ways to get around the bad things that are happening in his family. just be there for him, thats one of the best things you can do. also, try to bring out the good in the situations that hes going through. if hes religious, tell him its all in God's plan... or something to that effect.
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:31 PM   #6
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thanks guys/girls am talk to him right now hold on
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:31 PM   #7
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Alright this is what to do,I had this problem 3 times in a row with the same friend. First of all let him know over and over and over what he's going to be missing ( including you,and your good times you have with each other ) Then tell him his family loves him despite the fighting and crazyness. Tell him there's no point.

Tell him and break this down to little bit of details possible

Pros of Suicide : ......

Cons: Family will hate him even more for being retarded.

Friends (i.e: you ) will forever hate love him forveer and somewhat hate him for being such an idiot.
Making everyone sad that whoever knew him and cared about and the community sad....


Just keep telling him...if its worth losing your best friend then do it. Make him feel so bad that he'll want to change his mind.
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:34 PM   #8
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i taked him out of it thanks you guy ROCK!!!!!!
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Old 11-8-2003, 09:35 PM   #9
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Old 11-8-2003, 10:07 PM   #10
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Just dont go, "JESUS, YOU ARE SUCH AN IDIOT, I WISH YOU WERE DEAD!"

And there are other ways of killing yourself besides slitting your wrist.
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Old 11-8-2003, 10:09 PM   #11
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You know, Jewpin is right.

Hide the frying pan too.
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Old 11-8-2003, 10:10 PM   #13
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You can kill yourself by biting a vein in your wrist, yuo die of majour blood loss, so no matter what you say he can kill himself with anything.
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If you kill him he cant do jack shit.
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If you kill him he cant do jack shit.
Hmmm...... You're right on so many levels, yet... If you dno't kill him.... He'd be alive.... Decisions decisions...
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lol just tell him that he has a lot to live for and that there are lots of people that care about him including yourself if he trys it again
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lol just tell him that he has a lot to live for and that there are lots of people that care about him including yourself if he trys it again
Pff, lieing won't get you anywhere.
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Old 11-9-2003, 12:20 AM   #19
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I saw a video once on things to do if this situation ever happens to you. I was in like grade 7 or something at the time so I wasn't paying much attention, but I remember it said NEVER say "It'll be alright".
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Alright this is what to do,I had this problem 3 times in a row with the same friend. First of all let him know over and over and over what he's going to be missing ( including you,and your good times you have with each other ) Then tell him his family loves him despite the fighting and crazyness. Tell him there's no point.

Tell him and break this down to little bit of details possible

Pros of Suicide : ......

Cons: Family will hate him even more for being retarded.

Friends (i.e: you ) will forever hate love him forveer and somewhat hate him for being such an idiot.
Making everyone sad that whoever knew him and cared about and the community sad....


Just keep telling him...if its worth losing your best friend then do it. Make him feel so bad that he'll want to change his mind.
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