Premaritial Sex

[GuidoHunter]

Originally Posted by KH Luxord

Well, I am Catholic, and I learned that PmS is not that much of a big deal. The big deal is adultery!!!

WHAT?!

They're BOTH big deals! Who taught you otherwise?

Also, your post is all well and good, but we're really trying to keep religion out of the discussion so that all parties involved can address points. It's a whole 'nother issue when you bring religion into it.

Originally Posted by toxicninja

I think people who love each other have affairs because of sexual dissatisfaction.

If they're cheating, they're lacking some SERIOUS components necessary to a marriage before unavoidable sexual dissatisfaction.

--Guido

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[toxicninja]

Originally Posted by GuidoHunter

If they're cheating, they're lacking some SERIOUS components necessary to a marriage before unavoidable sexual dissatisfaction.

--Guido

wouldn't they just leave the person instead of cheating if that was the case? I know loveless marridges exist but my point was people who love each other cheat out of sexual desire.

[GuidoHunter]

Originally Posted by toxicninja

wouldn't they just leave the person instead of cheating if that was the case? I know loveless marridges exist but my point was people who love each other cheat out of sexual desire.

And my point was that we aren't considering marriages that don't have necessary components of a successful marriage.

That is, a good marriage is going to have the communication, trust, and everything else in place such that a sexual incompatibility will be talked about and fixed, rather than having one spouse just up and find another partner.

--Guido

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[toxicninja]

Originally Posted by GuidoHunter

And my point was that we aren't considering marriages that don't have necessary components of a successful marriage.

That is, a good marriage is going to have the communication, trust, and everything else in place such that a sexual incompatibility will be talked about and fixed, rather than having one spouse just up and find another partner.

--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

People who have those components will still cheat out of sexual desire, you cant just fix all sexual incompatilbillity just by talking about it. Even if there's communuication and trust people still cheat because they dont want to hurt the person they love. If they didnt still love them in this situation they wouldnt be with them in the first place and carry on wanting to be with them.

[KH Luxord]

Originally Posted by GuidoHunter

WHAT?!

They're BOTH big deals! Who taught you otherwise?

Also, your post is all well and good, but we're really trying to keep religion out of the discussion so that all parties involved can address points. It's a whole 'nother issue when you bring religion into it.



--Guido

http://andy.mikee385.com

Depends on who you ask. You see, PmS is a big deal, but I mean, it all depends on the reason. Read my first post.

And thanks. I was just clarifying, to make sure that I don't get banned for a double post on accident...

[GuidoHunter]

Originally Posted by KH Luxord

Depends on who you ask. You see, PmS is a big deal, but I mean, it all depends on the reason. Read my first post.

You mentioned the Catholic Church in your post. To the Church, premarital sex is very much a big deal. That's all I was saying.

--Guido

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