Why do people like Catfish?

[Verruckter]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

I don't understand, based on my knowledge of the way the human body works, how someone is unable to enjoy sex.

[Chrissi]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

Well, I don't think it's appropriate to tell her how she feels.

I just want to understand why.

The only reasons I can think of are that it's painful (a la vaginismus), she has prior unwanted sexual encounters that have scarred her, or he's doin it rong.

[meiloyn]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

I don't understand, based on my knowledge of the way the human body works, how someone is unable to enjoy sex.

Possibilities:

- That someone just personally doesn't enjoy sex. (Much how you wouldn't like the taste of a certain food.)
- That someone's partner is doing it wrong, maybe in a painful way.
- That someone feels their own body is so inadequate that sex isn't enjoyable for them.
- That someone is doing it wrong.
- That someone has unusually shaped sexual organs, which may cause sex to hurt or be uncomfortable.

[AriesMalvis]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

eh...lots of reasons
well yea ive dealt with rape and stuff
but i just don't physically like it
just doesn't work for me

[AriesMalvis]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

wow someones paying attention to me :]

[Chrissi]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

Wait....

You didn't "choose" to lose your virginity? As in, you were raped?

If you were raped, you are free to still call yourself a virgin. I did.

The only time it matters (when you have to tell somebody that you had an unwanted partner) is like to test for diseases and such. And I would tell any partner that I was going to have sex with, that I'm a virgin but I had been violated and as such, I have a higher risk for having a disease than a normal virgin would.

[AriesMalvis]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

yea everyone knows...it's no secret :/
my mum took me out of college cuz of it
but i've always been disease free :]

[Chrissi]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

yea everyone knows...it's no secret :/
my mum took me out of college cuz of it
but i've always been disease free :]

Well, I don't mean to sound crude, but it probably is at least part, or most, of the reason why you "don't like sex".

I know it's mean, but you have to get over it. Sex is enjoyable and is a normal and healthy part of adult relationships. Not like you HAVE to have sex, nobody's forcing you and you should never do it unless you want to...

Also, I would never pull out of school due to being raped. That would just be proving that the rapists win. To me. The most crushing blow you can leave your enemies with, is your own personal success. To see you rise above them... they hate that.

[AriesMalvis]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

hmm...well first of all the main reason i don't like sex is cuz it really doesn't do anything for me. it's like...nothing. i can't feel anything.
and the first person who did that to me...well he's long gone, and then the second guy that did it to me...well idno, but actually where i was at school wasn't safe. i had been scared for my life too many times out there. my life was threatened by a crack induced roomie. i had been drugged, raped, kidnapped...
and yea i kno what you're saying, and it's in the past
but were getting off topic here sorry :/

[Chrissi]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

hmm...well first of all the main reason i don't like sex is cuz it really doesn't do anything for me. it's like...nothing. i can't feel anything.
and the first person who did that to me...well he's long gone, and then the second guy that did it to me...well idno, but actually where i was at school wasn't safe. i had been scared for my life too many times out there. my life was threatened by a crack induced roomie. i had been drugged, raped, kidnapped...
and yea i kno what you're saying, and it's in the past
but were getting off topic here sorry :/

I'm curious now....

Have you ever had an orgasm?

[AriesMalvis]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

^yea that's why i am the way i am now :[

well yea, i should have explained, im an outside kind of girl... :/

[Chrissi]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

Outside kind of girl?

What does that mean?

Wow. Having to live in a situation like that where my life was constantly threatened would destroy me emotionally.

As to the not feeling anything while having sex, I remember my friend mentioning that the girl didn't always feel it if she was doing it wrong. Something about nerve endings.

Nearly every woman experiences that kind of life. But.... we try not to let it get to us.

And yes, most of the vagina is devoid of nerve endings. Sex won't feel like anything, or will be painful, unless the clitoris is stimulated, in MOST women. MOST. That means that this is the norm. It's a shame when men and/or women do not understand this simple fact of biology. It leads to a lot of hurt and lost pleasure.

[AriesMalvis]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

outside girl means i can't get any stimulation on the inside
and yea i kno how the female body works and all
just sucks cuz most guys don't

[Chromer]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

outside girl means i can't get any stimulation on the inside
and yea i kno how the female body works and all
just sucks cuz most guys don't

Or do they?

[Chrissi]

Re: Why do people like Hentai?

outside girl means i can't get any stimulation on the inside
and yea i kno how the female body works and all
just sucks cuz most guys don't

Hell.... this doesn't mean that you don't like sex. It means that you are NORMAL and he's DOIN IT WRONG.

TELL HIM! Sex is wonderful when you do it right.