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Here is the services panel where you set and un-set services.


You right click on the service, click properties, and then select Automatic, Manual, or Disabled.

NOTE.
Almost never do you want to disable a service. You just want to change it from Automatic to Manual




The services you see are pretty much the barebone minimums that are actually needed to run the computer. If you have it this low, you will see a big difference in performance, but you want to be careful with what you change.
You might want to take a screen shot of the services. Click Status to sort status and then click Startup Type to make the sorting easier.