Homosexual Marriages

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How is getting married "in your face"? Do gay couples regularly come over to your house and ask if they can have their wedding there? You are not forced to attend, you are not forced to watch, it is your choice to have this behavior "in your face" or not.

While I would be upset if a gay couple were getting a little to friendly in public, I would feel the same way if it was a straight couple. Why should they be subject to different standards because some people find two men holding hands "sickening"? Almost everything is sickening to someone, should be disallow everything then?

I would hope that as human beings we would know better then to look down about people who are simply different. Look at it this way, when you die, would you rather say to God "I oppressed some of your sons and daughters because they were different from me" or, "I treated everyone equally and trusted in your guidance and wisdom to decide if it's right or wrong."?

The only real argument that I've found for disallowing gay marriage is a religious belief that they are sinners for doing so. So, by disallowing this, we are mixing church and state, and need to seperate them as soon as possible. Churchs don't have to marry gay people if they don't want, but they have NO right to dictate how gay people should live their lives.