A topic that hits close to the average nerd's heart.

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I came across this thread on another Forum i peruse, and it hit close to home, i decided to post it on here, and see what you guys and girls i guess, think about it. Here goes:

ORIGINAL POST:

okay, to start, I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice, answers, or just a chance to get something off my chest but here it goes.

All my female friends, (and I have a lot) ever tell me is that I am such a sweet and wonderful person. They also complain that there are never any gentlemen left in the world and they can't wait for college, where they can find a mature person. Now I have my moments, but overall I'm a nice, caring sensitive, mature person that's straight. By all logical standpoints, I should have a girlfriend right? And I know logic has no point in matters of love, but still you get my point....

Take this one girl. She and I are perfect for each other. I mean litterally. We like the same things, we make each other laugh, we spend time nicely together, shit I've met her friggin' idol (my friends cousin has connections). She's really sweet and nice but has no interest in me what so ever. None. Zero. Zip. Period.

Am I missing something? Did I do anything wrong? What's the matter? Why does this always happen to me?

A RESPONSE THAT MANY CAN RELATE TO:

welcome to last place buddy, with all us nice guys.

I know how you feel. Having Female friends who whine about their abusive boyfriends, and ask why couldn't they meet a nice guy. Oh but wait, when you say something, they use the horrible horrible F word.........FRIEND!

Or worse yet, you have a girlfriend, who seems like she likes you. You are good to her, treat her sweet and dont even mention the "S" word, so since i dont mention it, how can i even pressure it, or even do it.

Anyways she goes and cheats on me, and then dates this guy. Oh and then she calls me every weekend telling me how much her new boyfriend beats her and hurts her and tries to do things she does not want to do (::coughanalcough. But she "loves" him and all this bull....that was about two years ago. so she finally stopped calling.

But yeah, us nice guys get the shaft....

One time i opened the door for this girl at school, just being nice, and she looks at me and laughs at me, then uses the other door....WTF!

Lets face it, chivalry is dead...........we all need to go back to being cavemen. Cause as much as they say they want a nice guy, seems to me they want the guy with the really big member, and the guy who beats their face into a steering wheel....So all us nice guys better start guzzling down beer, and wearing wife beaters, take up boxing...and start bashin lips! WHOA! SEXY!

but im still gonna try and work through the shite, and be the "nice" guy......it sucks....

So? What're your guy's thoughts on this topic? I know it seems like its really out to get women, and if it is, Women! Defend yourselves, it probably won't help much, but we'll consider it. <---- Joke. Relax ladies.