My Ex...

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Alright. This is probably a bad idea to post here but I could care less right now. I'm not entirely sure what to do. Ill give you the background story. Then the new news. Then my personal feelings.

I was dating a very good looking woman for about 8 months. During this time she was amazing. She was absolutely perfect for me, but there was a problem. About a month into our relationship she felt comfortable telling me that she was bulemic. Of course to this news I told her all the basic guy comforting words, "Your beautiful, you don't need to do that stuff." As I tried to help her and was always just a phone call away she consistently got worse and worse. I wasn't sure why.

She eventually started cutting, and taking massive amounts of diet pills, although she was a mere 130 lbs. Eventually, she overdosed and passed out on the bathroom floor. When her parents found her they rushed her to the hospital where they did medical stuff to bring her back to health and suggested a rehabish program. She attended this but she didn't get better.

I truely tried everything I could to help her...but I finally came to the conclusion that the only way I could think of to help her was to break up with her. This was the most painful thing I have ever done to this day. I had to force my feelings for her to the side for the better good. I figured that if I broke up with her maybe she would realize what her doing that stuff to herself cost her.

As luck would have it 2 weeks after I broke up with her she called me and told me she was better. Ofcourse she wanted to get back together...but I was scared to because she might get worse again. So, to help her I hooked her up with a friend. I don't actually care for him as a guy, but he is very caring and treats her very, very well. They have been dating for about 9 months now.

Now, for the new news. Before I was dating this woman she was with another young man. He was very stupid and they never actually had a solid relationship. They kissed once, very short and meaningless to her.

This young man was her friend. He went over to her house to play Mario Kart and they just played that for about an hour and he left, this usually happened once or twice a month while we were dating. After we were not doing well in our relationship he started hanging out with her A LOT more than usual and, a few times when he went to her house to play video games he forced himself on her. He touched her in private places, but nothing truely terrible. (not sure what kind of detain I'm allowed to go into here...) He told her that if she told anyone he would hurt her, and even if she did no one would believe her. I was at the time upset with her and he said that because she had lied to me so much about her hurting herself that I wouldn't believe her. That happened about 10 times.

He left town about a month later to live in Las Vegas. According to him it was because he had problems with his dad...it was really because of a restraining order from another woman he did the same thing to. She told someone and he got in trouble. He left and now is going to be visiting on July 17.

She says that part of the reason she was getting so much worse was because he was doing this to her. I now feel that it was his fault that I was driven to break up with her, and that she had to go though so much pain. I still care about her, and want him to pay. I'm not sure what to do, should I tell someone of authority? Such as the police. What could they do? If I did tell them he would know and he may try to hurt her for telling me...I'm significantly bigger and wouldn't have an issue beating the heck out of him. But, would that be the best route? I really want to know what the police could/would be able to do in this.

I would like to know your opinions. I know A LOT of you will just say "tl;dr" and thats understandable, but from those of you who do think you may have some advice please post it...I am really in a tight spot I feel.

An item to clear up. Before I actually broke up with her we went through a stage of drifing away...it was during this time he began his move and started doing what he did. Then after we broke up he went full force, and it happend a lot more often.

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate you taking time to read this and leaving your thoughts. Thanks everyone in advance.


Short easy version.
1.Dated woman.
2.Woman hurts herself.
3.Break up, I thought it was for the best.
4.She was being sexually touched and that is why she was getting worse.
5.What do I do?