I'm gonna get so much grief for writing this.....

The issue I'd like to discuss today is guys and their views on sex and women's views on guys' views on sex and I'm gonna tie all this in with the process of adultery and cheating. Now first of all, let me preface this by saying that I personally don't believe that cheating is necessary at all ever. It's just as possible to break up with the person as it is to cheat on them. That having been said, all the time on TV and movies and real life you'll see a woman telling another woman that "Guys are only interested in one thing." Now it's easily ascertained that she means "Guys are only interested in one thing when it comes to women." Obviously, she means sex. Now while this isn't true for every guy (myself included although sex is a huge part) it is true for a lot of them. But my problem with this is is that most people dismiss this as an immoral viewpoint. A lot of people don't realize that it is a well known established fact that the male species as a whole has an innate desire to reproduce and spread their seed. It is the same in women but not to as high of a degree as in men. It's perfectly understandable and deserved for a woman to want a man who will treat her right and love her and take care of her and all that good stuff. What isn't (and shouldn't be) perfectly understandable is when women who want all that good stuff don't put out and then get angry when their man leaves them so he can have sex with someone who will put out. Ladies and gentlemen, you can't just deny an innate desire. That'd be like trying to make a T-Rex eat broccoli. It just doesn't work that way. I understand that a lot of guys have the mindset to just go out and bang as many girls as they can solely because they feel a large number of girls on their "Girls I Banged" list makes them more of a man. Those guys don't apply here. Nor does it apply to girls who put out and their guys STILL cheat (or leave them for someone else). Now, some people may argue that the innate desire could easily be appeased with masturbation. No way. Part (I would argue most) of the appeal of sex is that you're sharing the experience with another person. The male brain knows the difference between a hand and a vagina. Btw...everything here also applies to girls who cheat on their guys although that doesn't occur as often. Another argument that could be thrown into this is that the society of this country has made it so that if a woman agrees to sex easily it makes her a slut but if a man does it it makes him an admirable fellow and that this puts women under a lot of pressure. This is an entirely valid argument and it's a shame that it is that way, but hey, that's America for you. Ladies you gotta realize that we're under pressure too though. Traditionally, the man is supposed to provide and that puts a ton of pressure on us as well. This is changing but the vast majority of the country, not to mention the world, still does things this way. The bottom line is we're worrying about stuff just as much as you are. So ladies, the next time you say with disdain "Guys are only interested in one thing" think about it.

P.S. Don't hate me.