I Broke Up With My Gf

[acknerr]

Re: I Broke Up With My Gf

That seems like a good place to start. I think that deep down, we are all trying to find someone that we want to be happy with. Go get em.

[hyprskillz]

Re: I Broke Up With My Gf

*Warning Bad grammar*

I feel bad cause I really had no real reason too. Its not that I wanted to go afta some otha female or nuthin but I just wanna see what otha types of females is out there, I aint really lookin 4 no long term relationship, just more like a... well I don't know. Was I wrong 4 breaking up with her?

businessman07

I NEEDS THE FEEDBACK PEOPLE.

Well to put in my two cents, I'll say this:

One, you are quite young (17) and you have yet to learn much more about everything in the world. Teens experiencing break-ups is not unusual, which I will explain why in just a bit.

Two, since you are very young Businessman07 you have yet to realize what you value most as an individual yourself (in regards of ethics and morals). You said you "just wanna see what otha types of females is out there". Well I'll tell you this, you certainly did make a mistake. Your mistake was you didn't appreciate the woman you love, and without appreciation you merely took the woman you supposedly fell in love for granted. This is why divorce rate is so high in United States; couples do not appreciate each other. What most couples do is fall in "love" for shallow reasons whether it is money, sex, material things, or social status. After those shallow reasons cannot be fulfilled, the unhappy spouse files for divorce.

Getting back to my point, if you aren't "really lookin 4 no long term relationship", then I would suggest that you don't seek for any short term relationships yourself. It would be unfair to the woman whom you get involved with just to cut her off short for your own (dare I say) selfish reasons. When you are meeting women, one thing you have to keep in mind is that you are dealing with human beings with real feelings and human beings should not be thrown or discarded away!

My advice to you Businessman07 is to please change your attitude, and you can start by learning from your mistake as well as from my advice. When you are with a woman, you want to be sure that you are with her for the right reasons, not for your selfish needs for that would contribute to a failing relationship. And if it is not too late, I would suggest trying to fix and ammend things with that girl whom you broke up with and hope that she gives you another chance to work things out between you and her again. After all, you never know whether you would necessarily find another woman that would be "perfect" for you.

[jewpinthethird]

Re: I Broke Up With My Gf

Obviously, you don't love her, nor do you really care about her. So, f*ck it. What the hell does it matter now? Just move on until you find the person you love...or someone who puts out.

[hyprskillz]

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I'm glad that you have taken my advice into consideration Businessman07. I know I was a bit harsh on some parts but there was no way I could soften the blow myself. I was taught harsh lessons like this and I ended up learning things the hard way while paying the price...

I really hope things do work out between you and that woman Businessman07 (in whichever way it turns out). After all if you are fortunate enough to be with a woman, you should consider yourself to be very lucky. Good luck!

[LythincaMan]

Re: I Broke Up With My Gf

Dude, A tip of advice.

If you love something with all of your heart, let it go. If it comes back, It was meant to be. If it doesn't, it never was.

[DrugstoreCowboy]

Re: I Broke Up With My Gf

If you love something with all of your heart, let it go. If it comes back, It was meant to be. If it doesn't, it never was.

..ive heard this before, but i dont think its always right. If you destroy your lovers heart, they may have a hard time trusting you to not ever do that again if they do come back.

If you have a good thing, dont let go of it. Why try to find something better when you already have the best? Its not worth it.

I have a girlfriend. Most things about her, I love. But theres somethings that i cant stand. But to me, she is perfect. Her imperfections are perfection. If you have something really special with someone. Dont keep looking, because honestly, you already have what you are looking for.