05-28-2013, 09:35 PM | #1 |
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My fiance left me today...for someone else..I have not felt this way in a long time...I just wanted to tell someone.
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05-28-2013, 09:36 PM | #2 |
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Sorry to hear that, man. |
05-28-2013, 09:40 PM | #3 |
It's Saint Pepsi bitch
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Would give you the most righteous smoke out if I could brotha. That's hella rough. Good luck with things.
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05-28-2013, 09:45 PM | #4 |
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Chin up, feelings will pass and you'll still be the same cool dude
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05-28-2013, 09:45 PM | #5 |
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This fucking sucks bro. What I would do? Just go sit outside with a 6 pack and a pack of smokes, and clear your thoughts.
It hurts at first man, but you'll figure it out. Play a round or two on FFR or catch up with Arrested Development, that'll keep your mind off the wrong things |
05-28-2013, 09:52 PM | #6 |
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Dang
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05-28-2013, 09:54 PM | #7 |
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My mind does not work like that though. I have a daughter. I brought my daughter into my fiances life. Now I have to explain where mommy went...
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05-28-2013, 09:56 PM | #8 |
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man that is some rough shit
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05-28-2013, 09:57 PM | #9 |
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She says she wont know if she wants me or the other man until she spends time with him..
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05-28-2013, 09:59 PM | #10 |
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Uh... What a fucking bitch.
Sorry bro, but if you were ENGAGED, and she let your daughter into her life, her decision should be very fucking clear. That blows dude, but (with all due respect) she's being a fucking c to the u to the n to the t. |
05-28-2013, 10:14 PM | #11 |
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What? I'd say "Fuck that shit!"
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05-28-2013, 10:19 PM | #12 |
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If you want my advice...
If she tries to get back with you in the future, don't do it. She will never have your full trust after this, and the relationship will never be the same. I've been in a similar position before, so I know how you feel (sort of, I don't have a child or anything, so that is different). I know right now you might want her back, but trust me, it goes away after time. The thing is that you have to try to move on. |
05-28-2013, 10:20 PM | #13 |
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05-28-2013, 10:33 PM | #14 |
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Take up a new hobby. Take up a sport. Just don't sit around sulking.
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05-29-2013, 01:04 AM | #15 |
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This is a beautiful post.
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05-29-2013, 01:04 AM | #16 |
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That's rough man. I know where you're coming from, except without the Daughter part..Must be real hard.
I hope things improve man, just do anything to take your mind off of it all. Keeping yourself busy is better than leaving yourself alone with your thoughts. |
05-29-2013, 01:04 AM | #17 |
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I still often have bad dreams about the girl I was with for 3+ years that went left a couple years ago.
The stupid part about your situation is that she will just take your kid. I can't think of how that can work out ever. But her getting to "choose" is total bullshit, that is not ok. If such a thing is even in question then it isn't worth it for you. |
05-29-2013, 01:09 AM | #18 |
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lol wtf, that's so messed.
you guys were engaged and had a daughter and she doesnt know who she'd rather be with? if she can't really decide, then clearly she isn't fit to be a mom. hope everything goes well for you though.
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05-29-2013, 01:24 AM | #19 |
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Yet you haven't specified how this happened. How are we going to give proper advice this way?
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05-29-2013, 01:36 AM | #20 |
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It's just a breakup, be glad she did it before you were married and not afterwards
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