So me and my girlfriend are in a fight...

[Izzy]

Oh that makes more sense now. Sounds like she is uncomfortable with her feelings and decides to rage instead of trying to think about it. Kind of like tsundere in anime except being a bitch.

[MrRubix]

Originally Posted by EnR

She'll end up missing me because her turtle, rabbit, hamster and fish are all bought from me, she also has tons of my old clothes as pj's, my ring, tons of panda teddy bears and the dress she wore at my prom.

I'll let her keep everything, I've spent more on taking her out then everything else I've gotten her.

If you think she'll miss you, then let her miss you.

The worst thing you can do is keep contacting her and pushing her / guilting her with nice gestures (this may not be your intent, but in those situations, it usually harms more than helps).

If you want things to work out with her, just back off -- no contact at all whatsoever -- and let her come to you when/if she's ready. If she does, great. If not, then you know it wasn't going to work.

[EnR]

Originally Posted by Izzy

Oh that makes more sense now. Sounds like she is uncomfortable with her feelings and decides to rage instead of trying to think about it. Kind of like tsundere in anime except being a bitch.

She never ever ever talks about feelings, or lets me explain, she acts immature and ignorant when it comes to talking about our issues and they never get worked out, that's why she gets stressed.

Anyways, this is making me feel better just talking about it, my moms helping me out too. Thanks guys.

[Emo_Saur_]

She's immature, get out of the relationship.

[Mulie]

This calls for methodical contemplation of why she was ever objectively important to you in the first place. Among your list of reasons you'll undoubtedly find it was all for risk; because she was someone, and someone was better than no one, or something along those lines. Follow with careful consideration of why she ever cared about you.

If you can't do this, chances are she wouldn't be able to either. If neither of you can think this through without being distracted why ever bother taking a break? Rubix is right.

[EnR]

Originally Posted by MrRubix

If you think she'll miss you, then let her miss you.

If you want things to work out with her, just back off -- no contact at all whatsoever -- and let her come to you when/if she's ready. If she does, great. If not, then you know it wasn't going to work.

This is my plan, I'm just going to not talk to her at all, if she wants to talk to me she can, if she moves on the **** her and I'll move on. I did everything for her, she doesn't understand that. I would take her to the clinic when she gets sick, pick her up when she missed the bus for her coop, **** like that. I'm always first to call, when he hamster died, or her first rabbit she called me, her dads never home so I'm there to bring her home sometimes(he pays me though)

Atleast I can get my Honda S2000 now and not worry about bringing all her damn bags.

[Shikari]

You know, if she's being such a bitch, doesn't ever talk about feelings, or as a girlfriend, but accepts your gifts... What are you doing with her? Just askin'

[EnR]

Originally Posted by Shikari

You know, if she's being such a bitch, doesn't ever talk about feelings, or as a girlfriend, but accepts your gifts... What are you doing with her? Just askin'

Because we've had tons of good times together and she makes me smile every day. I'm never been so happy in my life, we jsut have the occasional arguement and we'll end up overreacting.

[EnR]

Anyways mom offered to buy me Rock Band 3 to get my mind of things haha, so brb going shopping.

[Mulie]

Pushing aside your fallacious system of logic so that you may face it another day is fine too.

[MrRubix]

Originally Posted by EnR

This is my plan, I'm just going to not talk to her at all, if she wants to talk to me she can, if she moves on the **** her and I'll move on. I did everything for her, she doesn't understand that. I would take her to the clinic when she gets sick, pick her up when she missed the bus for her coop, **** like that. I'm always first to call, when he hamster died, or her first rabbit she called me, her dads never home so I'm there to bring her home sometimes(he pays me though)

Atleast I can get my Honda S2000 now and not worry about bringing all her damn bags.

So I have to ask you, then, what does she do for you? Has she shown the same level of commitment/effort?

[xXDeltaXx]

Originally Posted by MrRubix

So I have to ask you, then, what does she do for you? Has she shown the same level of commitment/effort?

I find that if a relationship isn't at a leveled commitment, It is usually the man who shows the greater commitment.

[MrRubix]

Originally Posted by xXDeltaXx

I find that if a relationship isn't at a leveled commitment, It is usually the man who shows the greater commitment.

Depends on the relationship. You'll find plenty that fall into the "Guy bends over backwards to do everything for the girl but doesn't really stand up for himself and is effectively a doormat that the girlfriend doesn't respect" category, and others that fall into the "Guy is pretty much using the girl for sex and won't mind being lavished upon until he gets bored of the emotional dissonance" category.

Either way, you need to set some boundaries. Never put up with any crap -- if someone continues to give you said crap, you walk out. The hard part is knowing when to call it quits. In my opinion, you just learn where that point is from experience once you better refine what it is you want in your boy/girlfriend and what you will/won't tolerate.

Eventually you'll hopefully find something that has mutual respect.

[Windscarredfaith]

Lol yeah I was so confused when I read the first post. But now that it's been explained more, I completely agree with the idea of "if you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was."

[welsh_girl]

Maybe she really doesn't like you anymore.

p.s Period is a lame excuse to be in a mood and ****.

[Etylukah]

Invest your time in your own life.
???
Profit.

[scientific]

Sounds Like A Serious Relation ship man too bad its sinking

[customstuff]

Originally Posted by EnR

Honda S2000

Handling is INSANE. Definitely go for it

[Cj_leonine]

Dude, in all honesty you're just making this sound like some sort of a childish game. I'm going to act this certain way and hope it works so she'll take me back.

You are wasting your time to try and reconcile anything you have with someone as immature as your ex. Sorry to badmouth her but if you're in a relationship with someone and you cannot communicate what the hell is wrong, you don't need to be in one. It just causes a lot of frustration and tension.

But I'd really go with what Rubix is saying. She might mean a lot to you but do you REALLY know how much you mean to her?

[mnnicol]

Ignore the bitch n move on

Ezy