why dont i have a boyfriend yet???

polarbeargal · 11-4-2006, 04:28 PM

Its soo not fair. I have a lot of friends that r guys and girls, but I dont have a boyfriend yet. And every1 tells me Im not ugly. So why dont I have a boyfriend???

banditcom · 11-4-2006, 05:10 PM

Umm... Can't really answer that without knowing you. I'm guessing you are young, and it's VERY normal to not be in a relationship at a young age (15 and under). There is nothing wrong with it. Most people aren't in one at that age.

Flirt and ask a guy out. If they are friends, a guy may not want to because of that (though not likely). Just be yourself and show interest and don't be afraid of rejection.

studmuffin51306 · 11-4-2006, 05:13 PM

What are your guy friends like?
The shy and reserved won't ask you out no matter how attracted they are.

Bakonfat · 11-4-2006, 05:15 PM

You just aren't putting out.

DiscoBobbyPARANOiA · 11-4-2006, 05:21 PM

Amazing first post.

the_unda_doggz · 11-4-2006, 05:21 PM

Do you act tom-boyish? If you act like one of the guys then they might think that you are a lesbian. I am not saying you are, but it is true. Another reason why is that if your friends are shy or they are ugly, they might not have enough confidence to ask you out. Now-a-days, pretty girls aren't enough for some guys, unlike me, who like the pretty, non-slutty, clean girls. Most guys like girls who are hot sluts who will drink and give it out. And, if you have friends that are guys, they may just want to be friends. Well anyways, I am sorry to hear about your boyfriend troubles and hope this helps you.

HTH,
Brett.

FluorescentArmy · 11-4-2006, 05:22 PM

You haven't touched their genitals enough.

jujo07 · 11-4-2006, 05:24 PM

I wouldn't be too worried. I can kind of understand where you're coming from though. I used to be so much like the guys that that's all they saw me as, just another one of them. Now, I dress and act much more like a girl would and still enjoy the video games and football that I did before, but am respected for being a girl.

Just keep being yourself and every once in awhile put yourself out there, get to know new people. And, like bandit said, don't be afraid of rejection. If someone doesn't like you it's not the end of the world.

the_unda_doggz · 11-4-2006, 05:30 PM

Trying to be funny here, even if I am not, one time on Futurama Bender said, ''Men love a lot of lipstick, you gotta really glob it on!''

**Tasselfoot** · 11-4-2006, 05:50 PM

Pix Plz.

lord_carbo · 11-4-2006, 06:00 PM

Stop caring if you have a boyfriend or not. Sure, go ahead and get one when you get the chance if you want to face teenage drama and things you're probably not ready to handle, but does it really matter?

Grandiagod · 11-4-2006, 06:05 PM

Stop hanging out on the internet.

Cj_leonine · 11-4-2006, 06:07 PM

sometimes friends lie to their friends about things to not hurt their feelings. That was in regards to something you said.

Just throwing out a possiblity.

Clocklover · 11-4-2006, 06:15 PM

will u b my online g/f? we culd ch@! ^_^

Tibs · 11-4-2006, 06:26 PM

MCRenaissance · 11-4-2006, 06:36 PM

Show a picture of yourself. That will answer everything.

FictionJunction · 11-4-2006, 06:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by polarbeargal

Its soo not fair. I have a lot of friends that r guys and girls, but I dont have a boyfriend yet. And every1 tells me Im not ugly. So why dont I have a boyfriend???

For being yourself.

Magnafiend · 11-4-2006, 06:42 PM

As just about everyone else has been saying, just be yourself. If there is someone in particular you have your eye on, just kinda hint that you might be interested and see what happens, because whats the worts that can happen?

Clocklover · 11-4-2006, 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by -Tibs-

This isn't the garbage bin, so it's ok. Haha...

jbr7 · 11-4-2006, 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cj_leonine

sometimes friends lie to their friends about things to not hurt their feelings. That was in regards to something you said.

Just throwing out a possiblity.

He just might be on to something.

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11-4-2006, 04:28 PM	#1
polarbeargal FFR Player Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1	why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Its soo not fair. I have a lot of friends that r guys and girls, but I dont have a boyfriend yet. And every1 tells me Im not ugly. So why dont I have a boyfriend??? __________________ Yeah Im a loser, but the coolest loser you'll ever meet

11-4-2006, 05:10 PM	#2
banditcom FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Willimantic, CT Age: 41 Posts: 6,243	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Umm... Can't really answer that without knowing you. I'm guessing you are young, and it's VERY normal to not be in a relationship at a young age (15 and under). There is nothing wrong with it. Most people aren't in one at that age. Flirt and ask a guy out. If they are friends, a guy may not want to because of that (though not likely). Just be yourself and show interest and don't be afraid of rejection.

11-4-2006, 05:13 PM	#3
studmuffin51306 FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 149	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? What are your guy friends like? The shy and reserved won't ask you out no matter how attracted they are. __________________

11-4-2006, 05:15 PM	#4
Bakonfat FFR Player Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Gilroy, California Age: 33 Posts: 62	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? You just aren't putting out.

11-4-2006, 05:21 PM	#5
DiscoBobbyPARANOiA FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Ill slap tha taste out yo mouf Age: 35 Posts: 1,206	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Amazing first post. __________________ Iggy911Mc (12:55:49 AM): Mudkip is a Koala Bear.

11-4-2006, 05:21 PM	#6
the_unda_doggz Banned Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Lake Mary, Florida Age: 33 Posts: 643	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Do you act tom-boyish? If you act like one of the guys then they might think that you are a lesbian. I am not saying you are, but it is true. Another reason why is that if your friends are shy or they are ugly, they might not have enough confidence to ask you out. Now-a-days, pretty girls aren't enough for some guys, unlike me, who like the pretty, non-slutty, clean girls. Most guys like girls who are hot sluts who will drink and give it out. And, if you have friends that are guys, they may just want to be friends. Well anyways, I am sorry to hear about your boyfriend troubles and hope this helps you. HTH, Brett.

11-4-2006, 05:22 PM	#7
FluorescentArmy Forum User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Gattrobe, Pistolvania Age: 32 Posts: 1,754	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? You haven't touched their genitals enough. __________________

11-4-2006, 05:24 PM	#8
jujo07 FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Poho, MI Posts: 121	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? I wouldn't be too worried. I can kind of understand where you're coming from though. I used to be so much like the guys that that's all they saw me as, just another one of them. Now, I dress and act much more like a girl would and still enjoy the video games and football that I did before, but am respected for being a girl. Just keep being yourself and every once in awhile put yourself out there, get to know new people. And, like bandit said, don't be afraid of rejection. If someone doesn't like you it's not the end of the world.

11-4-2006, 05:30 PM	#9
the_unda_doggz Banned Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Lake Mary, Florida Age: 33 Posts: 643	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Trying to be funny here, even if I am not, one time on Futurama Bender said, ''Men love a lot of lipstick, you gotta really glob it on!''

11-4-2006, 05:50 PM	#10
Tasselfoot Retired BOSS Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Widget Heaven Age: 40 Posts: 25,184	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Pix Plz. __________________ RIP

11-4-2006, 06:00 PM	#11
lord_carbo FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: fighting villains from afar, NJ Age: 32 Posts: 6,222	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Stop caring if you have a boyfriend or not. Sure, go ahead and get one when you get the chance if you want to face teenage drama and things you're probably not ready to handle, but does it really matter? __________________ last.fm

11-4-2006, 06:05 PM	#12
Grandiagod FFR Player Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Feaefaw Age: 35 Posts: 6,122	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? Stop hanging out on the internet. __________________ He who angers you conquers you. ~Elizabeth Kenny

11-4-2006, 06:07 PM	#13
Cj_leonine FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Chillin' with Carmen San Diego Age: 34 Posts: 2,070	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? sometimes friends lie to their friends about things to not hurt their feelings. That was in regards to something you said. Just throwing out a possiblity. __________________ Status: Innactive Onehander Best FC Before Avmiss Fix: . Be Princess . Hellbeat . End Night

11-4-2006, 06:15 PM	#14
Clocklover Banned Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 10	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? will u b my online g/f? we culd ch@! ^_^

11-4-2006, 06:26 PM	#15
Tibs FFR Player Join Date: May 2006 Location: UK Age: 35 Posts: 5,235	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? __________________ Metal covers of vidya game songs

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Magnafiend FFR Player Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Nether Realm, dimension of total void and darkness, of hate and despair Age: 35 Posts: 154	Re: why dont i have a boyfriend yet??? As just about everyone else has been saying, just be yourself. If there is someone in particular you have your eye on, just kinda hint that you might be interested and see what happens, because whats the worts that can happen? __________________ The reaper is the happiest being of all, because death is plentiful in this realm....

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