Long distance relationships? - Page 5

UberMario · 06-30-2011, 09:42 PM

Wow, yeah

Missdeltona07 · 06-30-2011, 09:47 PM

Hehe I Do Agree..... Some Longdistance Relationships Dont Quite Work Out. Im Currently In A Long Distance Relationship And In My Mind We R Working Out Great..... And Yeah Of Course I Think Hes The Only Guy In The World For Me, Its Hard Not To Think That About Some1 U Love, Right? In My Eyes I Love Him More Than Anything

We Have Been Together For 1 Year And... 3 Months

Hehe They Do Work Out At Times

**robertsona** · 06-30-2011, 09:50 PM

oh my lord

Arch0wl · 07-1-2011, 04:10 AM

Given that I consistently score a flat 0 on "exploitative", "manipulative" and other variations of "uses people" on every personality test I've taken that measures it and given that even a trace feeling that I may have exploited someone causes a blast of guilt to my conscience I seriously doubt I am secretly a gold-digging freeloader who boards a lifelong relationship to resolve student loan debt.

But even if I was a piece of shit deep down, I have no way of knowing what unconscious factors influence my decision to stay with someone because "unconscious" by very definition prohibits conscious knowledge.

**jaz_pup** · 03-12-2014, 12:47 AM

So curious as to how some of these turned out! It's been nearly 3 years, have any of you changed your opinions in that time??

**Mollocephalus** · 03-12-2014, 08:55 AM

Wasn't around when this thread was made, basically i agree with what most people said- long distance relationships are worthwhile only if you get to meet each other, see if you are really fit to be together, and then try to move in. Everything else is eventually bound to fail. Computer-only relationships are definitely going to fail. If you're looking for nothing serious, long distance relationships are not for you. If you need constant presence of the other person, unless the long distance thing doesn't last for long, you won't make it.

Source: a lot of anecdotal evidence and first hand experience.

**Xiz** · 03-12-2014, 10:13 AM

It works if you both have what it takes. Simple as that.

**Charu** · 03-12-2014, 10:16 AM

Xiz, bby, sorry, but... I need to break it up with you. It's not working out.

**JohnRedWolf87** · 03-12-2014, 10:21 AM

I'm too much into physical affection for long distance relationships.

**Xiz** · 03-12-2014, 10:25 AM

I take back everything I said.

Spenner · 03-12-2014, 10:25 AM

I've been in one of these for more than 3 years now because of the FFR shutdown/me moving to some other places temporarily lol. It's working out good. I think we have what it takes.

**Cavernio** · 03-12-2014, 10:38 AM

Yeah...long distance relationships are shit. That's why I'm moving ASAP, preferably by the end of next week.

Trogdor!!!! · 03-12-2014, 11:25 AM

Long distance is pretty much the worst

**mellonxcollie** · 03-12-2014, 11:27 AM

Long distance is terrible, cross-border is a fucking nightmare

**One Winged Angel** · 03-12-2014, 12:01 PM

idk guys, it's not that bad (but we've been able to afford seeing each other every 2-3 months or so for 1-2 weeks at a time so eh, maybe this isn't characteristic of the average LDR)

**DarknessXoXLight** · 03-12-2014, 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mellonxcollie

Long distance is terrible, cross-border is a fucking nightmare

not rly lol.

me and rob's relationship has been pretty easy. i have to cross the border every time i see him and it goes smoothly and yeah. lol this kind of relationship just takes a bit of extra effort which i have no problem giving. ezpz k bye.

**mellonxcollie** · 03-12-2014, 12:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DarknessXoXLight

me and rob's relationship has been pretty easy. i have to cross the border every time i see him and it goes smoothly and yeah. lol this kind of relationship just takes a bit of extra effort which i have no problem giving. ezpz k bye.

I'm not going to go into details of my personal life too much but basically if the border decides they want to fuck you, they get to fuck you and you can't do anything about it. My life was hell for ages because of the goddamn border.

Be thankful that you are both white people!!!!!~~~~~

**devonin** · 03-12-2014, 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cavernio

Yeah...long distance relationships are shit. That's why I'm moving ASAP, preferably by the end of next week.

**DarknessXoXLight** · 03-12-2014, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mellonxcollie

Be thankful that you are both white people!!!!!~~~~~

lol..

**SK8R43** · 03-12-2014, 12:38 PM

nothing wrong with them at all.

06-30-2011, 09:42 PM	#81
UberMario FFR Player Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Plus I'm hungry for ****. Age: 23 Posts: 1,777	Re: Long distance relationships? Wow, yeah __________________ That's cool Mario, but how come whenever you eat mushrooms, everything gets bigger but your dick?

06-30-2011, 09:47 PM	#82
Missdeltona07 FFR Player Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Under Your Bed. Posts: 18	Re: Long distance relationships? Hehe I Do Agree..... Some Longdistance Relationships Dont Quite Work Out. Im Currently In A Long Distance Relationship And In My Mind We R Working Out Great..... And Yeah Of Course I Think Hes The Only Guy In The World For Me, Its Hard Not To Think That About Some1 U Love, Right? In My Eyes I Love Him More Than Anything We Have Been Together For 1 Year And... 3 Months Hehe They Do Work Out At Times

06-30-2011, 09:50 PM	#83
robertsona missa in h-moll Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: nyc Age: 28 Posts: 3,995	Re: Long distance relationships? oh my lord __________________

07-1-2011, 04:10 AM	#84
Arch0wl Banned Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: fb.com/a.macdonald.iv Age: 35 Posts: 6,344	Re: Long distance relationships? Given that I consistently score a flat 0 on "exploitative", "manipulative" and other variations of "uses people" on every personality test I've taken that measures it and given that even a trace feeling that I may have exploited someone causes a blast of guilt to my conscience I seriously doubt I am secretly a gold-digging freeloader who boards a lifelong relationship to resolve student loan debt. But even if I was a piece of shit deep down, I have no way of knowing what unconscious factors influence my decision to stay with someone because "unconscious" by very definition prohibits conscious knowledge.

03-12-2014, 12:47 AM	#85
jaz_pup FFR Veteran Join Date: Jan 2005 Age: 36 Posts: 139	Re: Long distance relationships? So curious as to how some of these turned out! It's been nearly 3 years, have any of you changed your opinions in that time??

03-12-2014, 08:55 AM	#86
Mollocephalus Custom User Title Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Italy Age: 35 Posts: 2,600	Re: Long distance relationships? Wasn't around when this thread was made, basically i agree with what most people said- long distance relationships are worthwhile only if you get to meet each other, see if you are really fit to be together, and then try to move in. Everything else is eventually bound to fail. Computer-only relationships are definitely going to fail. If you're looking for nothing serious, long distance relationships are not for you. If you need constant presence of the other person, unless the long distance thing doesn't last for long, you won't make it. Source: a lot of anecdotal evidence and first hand experience. __________________

03-12-2014, 10:13 AM	#87
Xiz TWG Chaos Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Cali4nia Age: 32 Posts: 3,399	Re: Long distance relationships? It works if you both have what it takes. Simple as that. __________________

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03-12-2014, 10:25 AM	#90
Xiz TWG Chaos Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Cali4nia Age: 32 Posts: 3,399	Re: Long distance relationships? I take back everything I said. __________________

03-12-2014, 10:25 AM	#91
Spenner Forum User Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Canada Age: 31 Posts: 2,396	Re: Long distance relationships? I've been in one of these for more than 3 years now because of the FFR shutdown/me moving to some other places temporarily lol. It's working out good. I think we have what it takes. __________________

03-12-2014, 10:38 AM	#92
Cavernio sunshine and rainbows Join Date: Feb 2006 Age: 41 Posts: 1,987	Re: Long distance relationships? Yeah...long distance relationships are shit. That's why I'm moving ASAP, preferably by the end of next week.

03-12-2014, 11:25 AM	#93
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03-12-2014, 12:38 PM	#100
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