What do you find most attractive in a female? - Page 9

**darkshark** · 10-27-2010, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Izzy

I'm sure most people in this thread would be ok with less then what they described. It's natural to want things you can't have though.

I don't feel as though this holds true for me, I don't compromise well. If the person is anything less than what I want, then I don't really want them as much more than a friend.
I'm too picky. Not that that's a bad thing, I just know what I want, and know I can get it.

Chrissi · 10-27-2010, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by foilman8805

Booooooooo. You suck.

;; It's just too feminine to have long hair on a manly man and it usually ends up just looking like **** because they most often don't take care of their hair and it looks all gnarly and stuff. Really gross.

There are exceptions too but for the most part if guys have long hair it ends up being really gross.

I think part of it is that nobody teaches guys how to take care of their hair so they don't understand that for your hair to look good you have to treat it nicely, because if you have short hair usually none of that actually matters because it gets cut off before it can get all gross and damaged. OR they just don't care and it contributes to them looking like a lazy slob. Like for example scrubbing your head with a towel is a big no-no... and usually girls know this but then guys don't and it makes me sad when they have sloppy hair habits and long hair.

**HoneyMelonCalibrator** · 10-27-2010, 03:43 PM

As lame as it may sound, it's personality. But in terms of physical aspects, it's the hips, no doubt. A combination of a curvy waist, nice legs, and a cute butt is basically what makes or breaks it.

**foilman8805** · 10-27-2010, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Chrissi

;; It's just too feminine to have long hair on a manly man and it usually ends up just looking like **** because they most often don't take care of their hair and it looks all gnarly and stuff. Really gross.

There are exceptions too but for the most part if guys have long hair it ends up being really gross.

I think part of it is that nobody teaches guys how to take care of their hair so they don't understand that for your hair to look good you have to treat it nicely, because if you have short hair usually none of that actually matters because it gets cut off before it can get all gross and damaged. OR they just don't care and it contributes to them looking like a lazy slob. Like for example scrubbing your head with a towel is a big no-no... and usually girls know this but then guys don't and it makes me sad when they have sloppy hair habits and long hair.

You and I have actually talked about this subject before (here or on FFYa, I don't remember), so I know where you're coming from and you're right for the most part. I was just ribbin' ya.

If I recall, you qualified me as "an exception".

**Nyokou** · 10-27-2010, 04:05 PM

My bf has long hair. I wish he'd take better care of it... or himself in general. He showers like every other day or every 3 days. He doesn't smell bad at all... just his hair does and it looks gross by the time he goes to take a shower.

Me and his mom have been trying to convince him to cut it but he won't hear any of it. Probably cause his hair looked ****ing hilarious short... saw some pics of him when he was 13-14 with short hair.. rofl. He likes to blow dry and straighten it after he showers so I guess it makes sense that he wouldn't want to do that every single day. He also doesn't like air-drying it, which I don't understand. I do it all the time and my hair turns out fine.. unless there's a ****load of humidity in the air that day.

What a pain..

Pearlace · 10-27-2010, 04:07 PM

He has to be:
-A soccer hooligan and plays soccer (preferably)
-Does any type of sport; athletic
-Good Dancer (salsa, samba, merengue, etc)
-Open-minded about: food, culture, music
-Book smart
-Can carry out a conversation about anything
-Reads a lot!
-Plays FIFA and PES and other videogames
-Can speak another language, besides English
-Handsome and has personal hygiene
-Smells good and doesn't bath himself in cologne that's too strong
-Great sense of style
-Doesn't plaster his hair with gel
-Creative: art, music, etc

**foilman8805** · 10-27-2010, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyokou

My bf has long hair. I wish he'd take better care of it... or himself in general. He showers like every other day or every 3 days. He doesn't smell bad at all... just his hair does and it looks gross by the time he goes to take a shower.

Me and his mom have been trying to convince him to cut it but he won't hear any of it. Probably cause his hair looked ****ing hilarious short... saw some pics of him when he was 13-14 with short hair.. rofl. He likes to blow dry and straighten it after he showers so I guess it makes sense that he wouldn't want to do that every single day. He also doesn't like air-drying it, which I don't understand. I do it all the time and my hair turns out fine.. unless there's a ****load of humidity in the air that day.

What a pain..

I wash/shampoo my hair every day even though I know I shouldn't, but I can't stand it when it gets oily. I don't know how your bf tolerates that.

There ain't nothin' wrong with a gold old fashioned air dry. That's what I've been doing all my life. I dry my hair with a towel (scrub it actually, take that Chrissi!), then comb it all backwards to straighten it out and just let it dry out. In moister climates, it takes about an hour to fully dry, and in dry climates, about 30 minutes. Not too bad, imo.

**Nyokou** · 10-27-2010, 04:18 PM

Yeah that's what I do... if my hair is shorter. My hair is longer now so I do all that and then put it up in a bun. Take forever to dry but idc. I can't stand having hair like that either rofl. Oh and to top of his hair problem, I just found out he also has dandruff. He's like "oh I've always had that"... "well no ****, it's cause you never wash your hair".

-_-'

OneHandNow · 10-27-2010, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Pearlace

He has to be:
-A soccer hooligan and plays soccer (preferably)
-Does any type of sport; athletic
-Good Dancer (salsa, samba, merengue, etc)
-Open-minded about: food, culture, music
-Book smart
-Can carry out a conversation about anything
-Reads a lot!
-Plays FIFA and PES and other videogames
-Can speak another language, besides English
-Handsome and has personal hygiene
-Smells good and doesn't bath himself in cologne that's too strong
-Great sense of style
-Doesn't plaster his hair with gel
-Creative: art, music, etc

That's a lot of requirements.

**Cenright** · 10-27-2010, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by darkshark

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Originally Posted by Izzy

I'm sure most people in this thread would be ok with less then what they described. It's natural to want things you can't have though.

I don't feel as though this holds true for me, I don't compromise well. If the person is anything less than what I want, then I don't really want them as much more than a friend.
I'm too picky. Not that that's a bad thing, I just know what I want, and know I can get it.

That, or people see what isn't completely there. What is that phrase? "Love is blind?" Now, while I don't fully believe that, I can see how that could smooth out some of those sharper high-standards. You see some of the things that you like seeing, and the glaring errors that you don't like, but minor things get glossed over, even if there are many minor errors. (Or at least it seems that way.)

Pearlace · 10-27-2010, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by OneHandNow

That's a lot of requirements.

I know that's why I'm still single, but honestly it is the soccer fanaticism that is really important overall.

Andrew Mitchell · 10-27-2010, 04:54 PM

i'm not suprised, a well read soccer hooligan gl

**SCWolf** · 10-27-2010, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Pearlace

I know that's why I'm still single, but honestly it is the soccer fanaticism that is really important overall.

Why are you so shallow minded?

Also a girls eyes get me.

And legs.

**darkshark** · 10-27-2010, 06:29 PM

You like what you like, being shallow isn't even part of it.
I'd much rather be labeled as shallow and get what I want, than be with someone that doesn't meet my standards.

**Magic_V2** · 10-27-2010, 06:31 PM

Youth, innocence and a hankerin' for candy.

**rushyrulz** · 10-27-2010, 06:33 PM

this song basically spells it out for me:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TywmpMQYojs

except where they cleverly change the words, don't.

**SCWolf** · 10-27-2010, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by darkshark

someone that doesn't meet my standards.

Hmm...

**BethanyBangs** · 10-27-2010, 06:48 PM

He has to be funny. Taller than me. Has nice hair and talks a lot. xD Likes the music i like, and of course asian food (:

Syhto · 10-27-2010, 08:12 PM

less words more pics

**pokelda** · 10-27-2010, 08:35 PM

mmm underboobs

10-27-2010, 04:05 PM	#165
Nyokou （￣ー￣） Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: United States Age: 32 Posts: 4,246	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? My bf has long hair. I wish he'd take better care of it... or himself in general. He showers like every other day or every 3 days. He doesn't smell bad at all... just his hair does and it looks gross by the time he goes to take a shower. Me and his mom have been trying to convince him to cut it but he won't hear any of it. Probably cause his hair looked **ing hilarious short... saw some pics of him when he was 13-14 with short hair.. rofl. He likes to blow dry and straighten it after he showers so I guess it makes sense that he wouldn't want to do that every single day. He also doesn't like air-drying it, which I don't understand. I do it all the time and my hair turns out fine.. unless there's a **load of humidity in the air that day. What a pain.. __________________ Twitter \| Instagram \| Snapchat: Nyokou

10-27-2010, 04:07 PM	#166
Pearlace FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 145	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? He has to be: -A soccer hooligan and plays soccer (preferably) -Does any type of sport; athletic -Good Dancer (salsa, samba, merengue, etc) -Open-minded about: food, culture, music -Book smart -Can carry out a conversation about anything -Reads a lot! -Plays FIFA and PES and other videogames -Can speak another language, besides English -Handsome and has personal hygiene -Smells good and doesn't bath himself in cologne that's too strong -Great sense of style -Doesn't plaster his hair with gel -Creative: art, music, etc __________________ What starts here, changes the world.

10-27-2010, 04:18 PM	#168
Nyokou （￣ー￣） Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: United States Age: 32 Posts: 4,246	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? Yeah that's what I do... if my hair is shorter. My hair is longer now so I do all that and then put it up in a bun. Take forever to dry but idc. I can't stand having hair like that either rofl. Oh and to top of his hair problem, I just found out he also has dandruff. He's like "oh I've always had that"... "well no ****, it's cause you never wash your hair". -_-' __________________ Twitter \| Instagram \| Snapchat: Nyokou

10-27-2010, 04:54 PM	#172
Andrew Mitchell Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: on the farm Posts: 1,135	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? i'm not suprised, a well read soccer hooligan gl

10-27-2010, 06:29 PM	#174
darkshark Nothing. Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: The Pacific Ocean Posts: 4,189	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? You like what you like, being shallow isn't even part of it. I'd much rather be labeled as shallow and get what I want, than be with someone that doesn't meet my standards.

10-27-2010, 06:31 PM	#175
Magic_V2 RobMagic Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Las Vegas Age: 36 Posts: 638	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? Youth, innocence and a hankerin' for candy. __________________

10-27-2010, 06:33 PM	#176
rushyrulz Digital Dancing! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 80 billion club, NE Age: 31 Posts: 12,980	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? this song basically spells it out for me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TywmpMQYojs except where they cleverly change the words, don't. __________________

10-27-2010, 06:48 PM	#178
BethanyBangs ~ Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Sacramento Age: 29 Posts: 730	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? He has to be funny. Taller than me. Has nice hair and talks a lot. xD Likes the music i like, and of course asian food (:

10-27-2010, 08:12 PM	#179
Syhto BuMP it Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: privut eyelind Posts: 2,466	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? less words more pics

10-27-2010, 08:35 PM	#180
pokelda ⁽ ´ཀ`⁾ Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: It is a mystery. Posts: 3,876	Re: What do you find most attractive in a female? mmm underboobs __________________

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