I hate my life - Page 2

**Reincarnate** · 11-22-2012, 10:14 PM

beastly. :O

**foilman8805** · 11-22-2012, 10:22 PM

I'm appreciative of the fact that I was even able to get student loans because my parents had good credit. They put their asses on the line for me. A2P's sister needs to take a step back and realize that. This is also why you study science and engineering, kids, because even though that monthly payment sounds daunting, it's reasonable and well within my monthly budget. I still have money after that to pay rent and enjoy myself.

**samurai7694** · 11-22-2012, 10:31 PM

I'm not really good with words but I'm here to say sorry that you had to go through that. I've been there, at least only with those "I wish I were never born" feelings. I know you're a good person and so is your dad for all that he did.

Keep distant from any alcohol. Please don't do any harm to yourself. Take care and hope you feel better.

**igotrhythm** · 11-22-2012, 10:40 PM

This is why I go to community college. I still haven't figured out the whole ATM card bit.

Stay strong, TGB needs you.

**m0de** · 11-22-2012, 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by samurai7694

I'm not really good with words but I'm here to say sorry that you had to go through that. I've been there, at least only with those "I wish I were never born" feelings. I know you're a good person and so is your dad for all that he did.

Keep distant from any alcohol. Please don't do any harm to yourself. Take care and hope you feel better.

this. i really do hope things work out. keep your head up my friend <3

**MarioNintendo** · 11-22-2012, 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by m0de

this. i really do hope things work out. keep your head up my friend <3

hoping this will bring a bit of sunshine

xMUSICxMASTERx · 11-22-2012, 10:51 PM

Syhto · 11-22-2012, 10:54 PM

everything's gonna be alright man

**woker-X** · 11-22-2012, 11:09 PM

Anone is telling you to speak with your sister, but I honestly don't think that's going to work out at the moment.

I think is more important to be there for your dad.. if you're suffering this bad, imagine how your dad feels. He needs someone to tell him some kind words, and who better than his son. Don't drink (too late for this I think) and speak with your dad, tell him the things you mentioned here... because he needs those words more than us.

**NoPrivacy** · 11-22-2012, 11:24 PM

I'm not really good with words .. But your sister is definitely out of line. Your father is a good man. Do not even associate her feelings with who YOU are, because you're a good guy. You're not a burden. Far from it mate.

Keep your head up, don't drink too much .. Confront your sister when your SOBER.

Good luck man.

**m0de** · 11-22-2012, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NoPrivacy

I'm not really good with words .. But your sister is definitely out of line. Your father is a good man. Do not even associate her feelings with who YOU are, because you're a good guy. You're not a burden. Far from it mate.

Keep your head up, don't drink too much .. Confront your sister when your SOBER.

Good luck man.

again this.

alot of good advice, and support given here. i hope you read through the support given here, and im sure it will help. alot of wise words given by those who really do care.

<3

**Xiz** · 11-22-2012, 11:51 PM

Hey bud - I don't know you well but I know of you on this site. I'd be down to chat with ya anytime about shit goin down. Anytime. PM me if interested.
(That goes for everyone else as well ~)

And as everyone has said, stay strong tiger. I wish you and your family the best.

dAnceguy117 · 11-22-2012, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SK8R4LY

chill out man

that's actually not a bad post.

a2p, don't let your sister's words bring you down. be strong. I think you should let your dad know what you think of him and how much he means to you. I don't believe you should hate your sister, though. I agree that her verbal assault was a poor decision and was almost definitely unmerited. maybe the storm will pass; emotional outbursts are often not a great indicator of one's true thoughts. if things don't get better, you could still be approachable and have a pretty normal sibling relationship with her. just don't be unclear as to whose side you're on.

also, imo, you should save the booze for happier times. tough it out for now until your mind has cleared. you know you're not a burden. keep your chin up!

Quote:

Originally Posted by -zeroSKILL-

Sorry. A2P has never been anything more than a massive prick and troll to me. It gives me some level of satisfaction to see the human side of him, and in tears no less.

Made my Thanksgiving day quite a bit better seeing this.

I considered sending you a PM, but nah, better to have your e-rep on the line. your spite is not welcome here. please either shape up or ship out.

**Reincarnate** · 11-23-2012, 12:04 AM

Am I the only one who thinks this is a woefully incomplete story?

Not that I am doubting A2P here, but I feel like there are so many more facts needed to figure out who's being reasonable and who isn't.

e.g. if the sister chose to major in something useless and go to a pricey school even though her dad warned her he wouldn't be able to help her, then she can go fuck herself

but if she's majoring in something practical/making a sound financial choice, and perhaps the father agreed to help but went back on his word or something partway in, etc, I could see why the sister would be pissed

just giving examples but I always feel like context is uber important

Syhto · 11-23-2012, 12:05 AM

uh lol

**Reincarnate** · 11-23-2012, 12:19 AM

nothing lol about that

**pokelda** · 11-23-2012, 01:29 AM

mmyes let me do some drunk posting of myown guys im drunk lol

hppy thanks givin

**lumphoboextreme** · 11-23-2012, 02:38 AM

I assume your father doesn't make 6 figures, not sure about surrounding details like where she is going to school though.

Just to give some perspective I have a friend with parents making much more than 6 figures and they are still making him pay and or take out loans for half of it to teach him responsibility. You can't always expect a handout, especially if your father is in no position financially to give one.

Myself included have had to pay half of college tuition and took a break because internet poker was shut down and my dad retired and can no longer afford to pay half. I'm not going to go around shit talking him because he can't pay my schooling.

It sounds like she is definitely stressing about the student loans and looking for someone to take it out on.

**adlp** · 11-23-2012, 02:42 AM

i feel for you a2p. life hits hard sometimes, make sure you turn your head as you take the punch so it doesnt hurt as bad

**SKG_Scintill** · 11-23-2012, 02:57 AM

11-22-2012, 10:14 PM	#21
Reincarnate x'); DROP TABLE FFR;-- Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6,332	Re: I hate my life beastly. :O

11-22-2012, 10:22 PM	#22
foilman8805 smoke wheat hail satin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: LA baby Age: 36 Posts: 5,704	Re: I hate my life I'm appreciative of the fact that I was even able to get student loans because my parents had good credit. They put their asses on the line for me. A2P's sister needs to take a step back and realize that. This is also why you study science and engineering, kids, because even though that monthly payment sounds daunting, it's reasonable and well within my monthly budget. I still have money after that to pay rent and enjoy myself.

11-22-2012, 10:31 PM	#23
samurai7694 ❤ Join Date: Aug 2008 Age: 29 Posts: 4,638	Re: I hate my life I'm not really good with words but I'm here to say sorry that you had to go through that. I've been there, at least only with those "I wish I were never born" feelings. I know you're a good person and so is your dad for all that he did. Keep distant from any alcohol. Please don't do any harm to yourself. Take care and hope you feel better. __________________

11-22-2012, 10:51 PM	#27
xMUSICxMASTERx FFR Player Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Canada Age: 29 Posts: 269	Re: I hate my life :')

11-22-2012, 11:09 PM	#29
woker-X .... :.. .:. :: Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,031	Re: I hate my life Anone is telling you to speak with your sister, but I honestly don't think that's going to work out at the moment. I think is more important to be there for your dad.. if you're suffering this bad, imagine how your dad feels. He needs someone to tell him some kind words, and who better than his son. Don't drink (too late for this I think) and speak with your dad, tell him the things you mentioned here... because he needs those words more than us.

11-22-2012, 11:24 PM	#30
NoPrivacy wut Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 290	Re: I hate my life I'm not really good with words .. But your sister is definitely out of line. Your father is a good man. Do not even associate her feelings with who YOU are, because you're a good guy. You're not a burden. Far from it mate. Keep your head up, don't drink too much .. Confront your sister when your SOBER. Good luck man. __________________ Shit.

11-22-2012, 11:51 PM	#32
Xiz TWG Chaos Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Cali4nia Age: 32 Posts: 3,399	Re: I hate my life Hey bud - I don't know you well but I know of you on this site. I'd be down to chat with ya anytime about shit goin down. Anytime. PM me if interested. (That goes for everyone else as well ~) And as everyone has said, stay strong tiger. I wish you and your family the best. __________________

11-23-2012, 12:04 AM	#34
Reincarnate x'); DROP TABLE FFR;-- Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6,332	Re: I hate my life Am I the only one who thinks this is a woefully incomplete story? Not that I am doubting A2P here, but I feel like there are so many more facts needed to figure out who's being reasonable and who isn't. e.g. if the sister chose to major in something useless and go to a pricey school even though her dad warned her he wouldn't be able to help her, then she can go fuck herself but if she's majoring in something practical/making a sound financial choice, and perhaps the father agreed to help but went back on his word or something partway in, etc, I could see why the sister would be pissed just giving examples but I always feel like context is uber important

11-23-2012, 12:19 AM	#36
Reincarnate x'); DROP TABLE FFR;-- Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6,332	Re: I hate my life nothing lol about that

11-23-2012, 01:29 AM	#37
pokelda ⁽ ´ཀ`⁾ Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: It is a mystery. Posts: 3,876	Re: I hate my life mmyes let me do some drunk posting of myown guys im drunk lol hppy thanks givin __________________

11-23-2012, 02:38 AM	#38
lumphoboextreme FFR Veteran Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Age: 33 Posts: 8,592	Re: I hate my life I assume your father doesn't make 6 figures, not sure about surrounding details like where she is going to school though. Just to give some perspective I have a friend with parents making much more than 6 figures and they are still making him pay and or take out loans for half of it to teach him responsibility. You can't always expect a handout, especially if your father is in no position financially to give one. Myself included have had to pay half of college tuition and took a break because internet poker was shut down and my dad retired and can no longer afford to pay half. I'm not going to go around shit talking him because he can't pay my schooling. It sounds like she is definitely stressing about the student loans and looking for someone to take it out on. __________________

11-23-2012, 02:42 AM	#39
adlp FFR Veteran Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 1,757	Re: I hate my life i feel for you a2p. life hits hard sometimes, make sure you turn your head as you take the punch so it doesnt hurt as bad __________________

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