Help? From the Community - Page 2

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 02:35 PM

To hold for her, she had gotten it from a friend a while ago or something along the lines of that. When she was detained they found the card and immediately said it was stolen, but with friends consent it's technically not stolen right?

**ShastaTwist** · 11-2-2008, 02:36 PM

Yeah, I don't know.

I'm still confused about why your girlfriend is mad at you.

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 02:40 PM

Well, since the airliner said she was detained at having my card information, I thought that it was my responsibility for helping her. But as I was reading through my facebook messages from her, it said that she was stopped by security for having someone else's credit card.

She is mad because I acted? I don't know honestly, but she is mad. I mean honestly what would you have done in my situation? If the airliner says it's because of having the person who purchased the ticket's credit information?

Rubin0 · 11-2-2008, 02:44 PM

This girl sounds like trouble, Orlando.

**ShastaTwist** · 11-2-2008, 02:44 PM

She has no right to be mad. You didn't do anything to have her be angry with you. If anything, she should be happy that you tried to help and alleviate the situation.

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 02:49 PM

ShastaTwist: I know right nothing to be mad about. But yeah i am bummed right now :/. I guess time will let me know whether or not to continue the relationship or not.

Rubin0: She's not trouble, but she has had trouble with previous relationships, so she is the type of girl that doesn't fully trust guys anymore, I am one of the few she does trust so I am trying my best to keep her.

**foilman8805** · 11-2-2008, 02:52 PM

I'd like to know how customs officials even knew she had that credit card.

I've never been asked to show them my credit cards before...

But at least it all make more sense now. Orlando, there's no reason for you to blame yourself or anything, and I'd say that she's probably more mad at herself than she is at you, but naturally, she chose to take it out on you.

Hope it all gets resolved and you get to see her.

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 02:56 PM

I know right? She said it was when they found out she had only a one-way ticket coming to the states that they checked all of her crap. Still doesn't make sense to me. I mean she was going to buy her return ticket to Canada when she immediately got here. So they have no right to say that she can't do that.

Rubin0 · 11-2-2008, 03:01 PM

One way tickets trigger suspicions of terrorism, unfortunately.

**foilman8805** · 11-2-2008, 03:02 PM

Ah, a one-way ticket. They checked all of her crap because they thought she may try to stay in the United States illegally. If a round trip had been purchased, I'm just about 100% sure this never would've happened.

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 03:05 PM

Are you serious? Is that really what caused this? These people are effing retards... how do they know for a fact that she was going to stay illegally. When she wasn't even close to doing that?

**foilman8805** · 11-2-2008, 03:06 PM

They don't know anything, and that's why they have to make sure that they are not letting in a terrorist, or someone who plans to stay as an illegal immigrant.

Airports are serious business, man. Especially when you're crossing borders.

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 03:10 PM

Wow. These people are really something.. so now they have ruined my weekend, possibly cost me my relationship.

Gah. I don't know what to do. =[ Especially about my gf, she's really mad at me.

**ShastaTwist** · 11-2-2008, 03:13 PM

She's an idiot if she's still mad at you.

**foilman8805** · 11-2-2008, 03:13 PM

Well, if she can't put an honest mistake aside, then she still has some **** to learn, and if she doesn't appreciate that you at least made the effort to purchase her ticket so that she could visit you, then she has even more **** to learn.

Give her some time to cool down, and you take a breather too. Be thankful no one was arrested for the credit card mishap.

Tater Tot · 11-2-2008, 03:16 PM

I wasn't trying to be mean shasta, I just thought what you said was hilarious.

And yeah, a one way ticket into the US is seen as very suspicious by the government. It basically raises the questions, "Why one way? Are they not planning on coming back?"

As for your gf, give her some time to cool down and she'll most likely get over it on her own. Reminding her will probably just make her angrier.

**orlando2k7** · 11-2-2008, 03:20 PM

Yes, that is very true she is an idiot for being mad at me especially when I at least tried to help, whether or not it was my fault.

I will take my time apart from her for a couple of days, I'd rather relax and take my mind off of things for a bit, I'm really frustrated and stressed out...

11-2-2008, 02:36 PM	#22
ShastaTwist FFR Veteran Join Date: Sep 2004 Age: 33 Posts: 599	Re: Help? From the Community Yeah, I don't know. I'm still confused about why your girlfriend is mad at you.

11-2-2008, 02:44 PM	#24
Rubin0 FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: New York Age: 35 Posts: 1,276	Re: Help? From the Community This girl sounds like trouble, Orlando. __________________ The weight of what I say depends on how you feel.

11-2-2008, 02:44 PM	#25
ShastaTwist FFR Veteran Join Date: Sep 2004 Age: 33 Posts: 599	Re: Help? From the Community She has no right to be mad. You didn't do anything to have her be angry with you. If anything, she should be happy that you tried to help and alleviate the situation.

11-2-2008, 02:52 PM	#27
foilman8805 smoke wheat hail satin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: LA baby Age: 35 Posts: 5,704	Re: Help? From the Community I'd like to know how customs officials even knew she had that credit card. I've never been asked to show them my credit cards before... But at least it all make more sense now. Orlando, there's no reason for you to blame yourself or anything, and I'd say that she's probably more mad at herself than she is at you, but naturally, she chose to take it out on you. Hope it all gets resolved and you get to see her.

11-2-2008, 03:01 PM	#29
Rubin0 FFR Player Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: New York Age: 35 Posts: 1,276	Re: Help? From the Community One way tickets trigger suspicions of terrorism, unfortunately. __________________ The weight of what I say depends on how you feel.

11-2-2008, 03:02 PM	#30
foilman8805 smoke wheat hail satin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: LA baby Age: 35 Posts: 5,704	Re: Help? From the Community Ah, a one-way ticket. They checked all of her crap because they thought she may try to stay in the United States illegally. If a round trip had been purchased, I'm just about 100% sure this never would've happened.

11-2-2008, 03:06 PM	#32
foilman8805 smoke wheat hail satin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: LA baby Age: 35 Posts: 5,704	Re: Help? From the Community They don't know anything, and that's why they have to make sure that they are not letting in a terrorist, or someone who plans to stay as an illegal immigrant. Airports are serious business, man. Especially when you're crossing borders.

11-2-2008, 03:13 PM	#34
ShastaTwist FFR Veteran Join Date: Sep 2004 Age: 33 Posts: 599	Re: Help? From the Community She's an idiot if she's still mad at you.

11-2-2008, 03:13 PM	#35
foilman8805 smoke wheat hail satin Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: LA baby Age: 35 Posts: 5,704	Re: Help? From the Community Well, if she can't put an honest mistake aside, then she still has some ** to learn, and if she doesn't appreciate that you at least made the effort to purchase her ticket so that she could visit you, then she has even more ** to learn. Give her some time to cool down, and you take a breather too. Be thankful no one was arrested for the credit card mishap.

11-2-2008, 03:16 PM	#36
Tater Tot FFR Player Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: The Fountain Of Youth, Florida Posts: 582	Re: Help? From the Community I wasn't trying to be mean shasta, I just thought what you said was hilarious. And yeah, a one way ticket into the US is seen as very suspicious by the government. It basically raises the questions, "Why one way? Are they not planning on coming back?" As for your gf, give her some time to cool down and she'll most likely get over it on her own. Reminding her will probably just make her angrier. __________________ All images are links, click one and have fun! Last edited by Tater Tot; 11-2-2008 at 03:20 PM..

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