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11-24-2010, 07:49 PM | #2 |
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Re: Is it wrong to be gay?
I've heard theories that our nutrition is making girls reach puberty faster, something about the amount of fat in our diets. I would certainly believe that being malnourished would hold back puberty, so maybe its just that people aren't malnourished. Also I'm pretty sure most bodily processes can be affected by psychology.
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You can suppress the pedophile inside you, and yet, you can't help being homosexual?
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12-7-2010, 02:22 PM | #4 | |
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Pedophilia is more of a physical attraction while homosexuality is more emotional. Love doesn't have to be sexual. |
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12-7-2010, 01:55 PM | #5 |
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It's wrong to have sex with a kid for quite a few reasons but why is it wrong for a man to have sex with another man? Plus I think pedophilia majority of the time is more a lust based physical attraction where a lot of gay people are gay because simply put they can love another person of the same gender more easily.
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12-7-2010, 03:28 PM | #6 |
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i've always wondered does the female/male form (depending which) make gay people uncomfortable
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12-7-2010, 07:56 PM | #7 | |
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Personally I'm a 5-6 on the Kinsey scale (scale of gayness), and I don't really think there is a true 0 or 6, but it's obvious why people who are 1 act like they're 0, I would too. There's a lot of crap you have to deal with dating somebody of the same sex involving other people, and internally in your own mind. I've dated a few guys but I've found a girl I'm perusing so maybe I can start a family with her and I like her a lot, but most girls would drive me INSANE if I had to date them. So getting back to the point, because I love this girl (not love love but you know), and she has a pretty nice body, I am in fact quite physically attracted to her. |
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12-7-2010, 03:35 PM | #8 |
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it really doesn't matter if the love is physical vs. "emotional." i don't think its in the least a stretch to posit that gay people are probably -sexually- attracted to people of the same gender. the point of the pedophilia comparison is to illustrate two apparently inborn sexual preferences, one of which we are extremely uncomfortable condoning.
it is important to distinguish, though, the difference between pedophilia, and having sex with children. the attraction in and of itself is not harmful. having sex with children -is- harmful. we have a tendency to assume the very worst of anyone with a predilection for youthful qualities (a preference i imagine is present to some degree in a lot more people than we acknowledge), because we are aware of the repercussions caused by acting on that predilection. homosexuality, on the other hand, is neither harmful in thought nor practice. it involves (presumably) two consenting adults and is not the business of the state or anyone else. it really is that simple. the choice vs. non-choice debate (aside from revealing how glaringly misinformed many people are) is pretty irrelevant but somehow that becomes the central issue every time the topic comes up
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12-7-2010, 07:24 PM | #9 |
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I think it wasn't your fault if you are a gay(or lesbian), for that's also a natural feeling.
I have a fellow student who is a gay too,but I like him very much and back him up as a powerful gay~ |
12-7-2010, 09:36 PM | #10 |
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"Pedophilia is more of a physical attraction while homosexuality is more emotional. Love doesn't have to be sexual."
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12-7-2010, 09:40 PM | #11 |
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I'm not saying every-case, and I'm not very educated on the subject of pedophilia but it just seems logical and safe to say that most pedophiles are after more sexual things rather than a relationship. If somebody can prove me wrong please do as I'm not coming up with this conclusion "properly", but I feel safe sticking to that. You have anything to say to sway me?
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And you can't rule out the fact that many pedophiles indeed LOVE children. Even if it's inappropriate and we can't condone it, it's not our place to say that their love isn't in anyway "real." The parallels between homosexuality and pedophilia may be unwanted and frightening, but the fact remains that they exist. I don't think anyone who truly examines the situation critically would condemn pedophiles as EVIL or even IMMORAL insofar as they can't really choose their condition - but nonetheless their attractions are very damaging to their objects and it can't be allowed, in a social context. This is mainly why I pity the pedophile, because his plight is certainly a terrible one. Not necessarily born with, but conditioned to have taboo attractions - wouldn't that be a terrible existence? It's a tough subject though; there isn't really any clear resolution. I think that's mirrored in the murkiness of the legal system's take on pedophilia. The flawed sex offender registry, etc - but of course, we still need such institutions. What do we do about pedophilia? I DUnno L0l |
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Yes, now kill yaself
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12-9-2010, 11:26 PM | #14 |
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I thought I didn't get my point across properly. I agree with everything you say but I firmly believe that more homo's are homo's for emotional attraction that pedo's are pedo's for emotional attraction. There defiantly are pedophiles who legitimately love children, and I have sympathy for them along with the one who just find kids hawt, but they still shouldn't act upon it for the sole reason because generally, kids aren't old enough to make such a decision. It's not because the sex itself is harmful, it's just society will make that child when he/she grows up feel extreamly violated and regretful. That's a whole other subject there though.
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Coming from the one who tries to make fun of a serious topic in the correct forum by posting it in his siggy. Get out if you don't have anything serious to say, this isn't the place for idiot trolls like yourself. I'm just going to take a shot in the dark and say you haven't read the majority of this thread. Maybe you should do that before you go and mock it.
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12-10-2010, 02:46 AM | #19 |
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surprised this isn't locked. is it still a day ban for saying "in before lock?"
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12-10-2010, 10:42 AM | #20 |
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next level thinking going on in this thread
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