Let's talk about sex - Page 4

**TheSaxRunner05** · 10-21-2010, 11:02 PM

Side note: I like how popular this thread is ..... 16 people were viewing it

@Dossar - We are opposites - I self-reflect all the time and procrastinate on everything serious which needs to be done

OneHandNow · 10-21-2010, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by DossarLX ODI

Like Torrent (AsphyxZero), I find sex pointless and I'm asexual.

Also, I don't really think about myself much. My mind for some reason just focuses on what needs to be done (basic things such as schoolwork, going to sleep, doing office work twice a week), and I don't reflect on myself. I don't really need relief, I self-motivate myself lol.

It's okay Roy, you'll get around to it someday.

PS) Just stare at my signature. Yum.

**TheSaxRunner05** · 10-21-2010, 11:07 PM

You know some people never develop a sex drive

OneHandNow · 10-21-2010, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSaxRunner05

You know some people never develop a sex drive

Well yeah, but rest assured, those people are pretty damn uncommon IMO..

Izzy · 10-21-2010, 11:12 PM

Yea like I was saying. Legitimate asexuality is a really rare occurrence.

**Phynx** · 10-21-2010, 11:12 PM

Actually I applaud your ability to tunnel your mind that way Dossar. Kind of envious of it myself. I can see how if you are asexual, that you would definitely find much more time to be productive to the environment that immediately affects you.

And indeed it is very rare, seeing as how the sex drive is hardwired into a humans instincts, finding people that miss that connection is extremely rare.

**DossarLX ODI** · 10-21-2010, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by OneHandNow

PS) Just stare at my signature. Yum.

I will admit, anime-type girls are the hottest girls I've ever seen (alphes coming first, my avatar is an example of alphes-style). Way too many things can go wrong in 3D and art is a lot less awkward in my opinion.

Also I have a lot of trouble showing affection. It has nothing to do with my family, I just don't experience "love" the same way as some people seem to. Whenever there's a sex scene in a movie, I just want to ****ing fastforward through it lmfao

UnholyGoat · 10-21-2010, 11:14 PM

I think it should be with a person who cares for you just as much as you care for them, otherwise someone will get hurt. And the first time isn't always painfully as long as you go by the 4 finger rule (ya i just made that up , but you can figure out for yourselves)

BBoyGNF · 10-21-2010, 11:14 PM

Just remember to be smart about it. Don't go putting your dicks in every hole you find, consider the risks, consider the person you're going to do it with, make sure you don't wind up with a kid or a quite uncomfortable rash on your nuts.

One thing I've noticed is that girls feel like they're sluts if they do it with someone they don't want to marry. That doesn't make you a slut. If you go out and do it with multiple partners in a fairly short time, THEN you're a slut.

Don't you dare do it, Mandy.

EDIT: By the way, as mature as my response was, I can't let it go.
I got post #69 ;D

**TheSaxRunner05** · 10-21-2010, 11:15 PM

To answer the OP:
I would recommend people should be at least eighteen and far enough along in the relationship to live together (when available/appropriate) before having sex. I think the act of sex should show a level of commitment that you plan on staying with that person for the rest of your life, whether you're actually married yet or not seems immaterial to me. You cannot know, however, if you are ready to spend the rest of your life with someone if you have not lived with them, IMO.

**Nyokou** · 10-21-2010, 11:15 PM

I wish my bf was like you, Dossar.

Izzy · 10-21-2010, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Nyokou

I wish my bf was like you, Dossar.

You guys could become a couple.

scientific · 10-21-2010, 11:17 PM

the stigma surrounding sex is ridiculous. its fun, can be amazing, can be terrible, but is always pretty fun. not an important activity at all, just something 2 consenting people do for many reasons.

not a big deal at all basically

scientific · 10-21-2010, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by DossarLX ODI

Like Torrent (AsphyxZero), I find sex pointless and I'm asexual.

dude youre 16 years old man, the world you live in currently is a tiny condensed microscopic blip on the radar of whats really out there

just saying

**Phynx** · 10-21-2010, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by scientific

dude youre 16 years old man, the world you live in currently is a tiny condensed microscopic blip on the radar of whats really out there

just saying

Given Dossar is 16, be that true, then yeah, there is a lot you still have yet to go through. Still a lot of time for your mind to change haha.

Izlude77714 · 10-21-2010, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by OneHandNow

Well yeah, but rest assured, those people are pretty damn uncommon IMO..

why should he? she has massive breasts like she is overweight
big breasts = a woman with higher levels of body fat
I suggest that you search in mcdonalds if you want to find the woman of your dreams

Quote:

Originally Posted by DossarLX ODI

Whenever there's a sex scene in a movie, I just want to ****ing fastforward through it lmfao

sex scene in movie = rubbish movie and they obviously ran out of ideas and wanted to appeal to idiots

anyway
<-- sexless virgin marriage ftw

you lesser mortals may now all bow down while you appreciate the sheer magnitude of my unparallelled brilliance

**darkshark** · 10-21-2010, 11:25 PM

Stick it in her butt and pee.

I'm kinda back and forth when it comes to sex. Sometimes I can't get enough of it, and other times I just feel like it's a waste of time and could be spending that time doing something else.

I've had a couple of flings here and there, as well as a few long term. Flings are great and all but I can definitely say sex is much more enjoyable when there are heavy feelings toward the person you're with. Also, I agree completely with Phynx, sex is an integral part of a relationship, and waiting until you're married is completely out of the question, it just doesn't work in today's society.

jchinzilla · 10-21-2010, 11:25 PM

love between men and women, and love for family and friends, is often possessive, exclusive, limited, and mixed with selfish feelings. There's an expectation of getting back at least as much as one gives. Such love might seem quite deep, but it easily vanishes if it doesn't live up to expectations

CAFK · 10-21-2010, 11:27 PM

Honestly, there's nothing wrong with sex to begin with...I believe in waiting for the right person that I truly 'love', whether married or not to have sex with. If that means waiting til marriage for that to happen, then so be it.
Too many people nowadays use sex as something other than what it should be, which is meant to be special between two partners that have mutual feelings for one another...not shared with more than one person. Although I feel that people would disagree in saying that there is never one 'right person' in the world.

scientific · 10-21-2010, 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by darkshark

Flings are great and all but I can definitely say sex is much more enjoyable when there are heavy feelings toward the person you're with. Also, I agree completely with Phynx, sex is an integral part of a relationship, and waiting until you're married is completely out of the question, it just doesn't work in today's society.

ya exactly... you hit the nail on the head.

10-21-2010, 11:02 PM	#61
TheSaxRunner05 The Doctor Join Date: Apr 2006 Age: 35 Posts: 6,145	Re: Let's talk about sex Side note: I like how popular this thread is ..... 16 people were viewing it @Dossar - We are opposites - I self-reflect all the time and procrastinate on everything serious which needs to be done __________________ Last edited by TheSaxRunner05; 10-21-2010 at 11:05 PM..

10-21-2010, 11:07 PM	#63
TheSaxRunner05 The Doctor Join Date: Apr 2006 Age: 35 Posts: 6,145	Re: Let's talk about sex You know some people never develop a sex drive __________________

10-21-2010, 11:12 PM	#65
Izzy Snek Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Kansas Age: 34 Posts: 9,192	Re: Let's talk about sex Yea like I was saying. Legitimate asexuality is a really rare occurrence.

10-21-2010, 11:12 PM	#66
Phynx I'm Forever Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Twin Falls, Idaho Age: 34 Posts: 2,999	Re: Let's talk about sex Actually I applaud your ability to tunnel your mind that way Dossar. Kind of envious of it myself. I can see how if you are asexual, that you would definitely find much more time to be productive to the environment that immediately affects you. And indeed it is very rare, seeing as how the sex drive is hardwired into a humans instincts, finding people that miss that connection is extremely rare. __________________ Guardin' of the Scared Shrine

10-21-2010, 11:14 PM	#68
UnholyGoat FFR Player Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 1	Re: Let's talk about sex I think it should be with a person who cares for you just as much as you care for them, otherwise someone will get hurt. And the first time isn't always painfully as long as you go by the 4 finger rule (ya i just made that up , but you can figure out for yourselves)

10-21-2010, 11:14 PM	#69
BBoyGNF FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: St. Louis Age: 31 Posts: 73	Re: Let's talk about sex Just remember to be smart about it. Don't go putting your dicks in every hole you find, consider the risks, consider the person you're going to do it with, make sure you don't wind up with a kid or a quite uncomfortable rash on your nuts. One thing I've noticed is that girls feel like they're sluts if they do it with someone they don't want to marry. That doesn't make you a slut. If you go out and do it with multiple partners in a fairly short time, THEN you're a slut. Don't you dare do it, Mandy. EDIT: By the way, as mature as my response was, I can't let it go. I got post #69 ;D __________________ Life is like a box of chocolates..... You get a bunch of random crap in your box :/ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Last edited by BBoyGNF; 10-21-2010 at 11:18 PM.. Reason: lulz

10-21-2010, 11:15 PM	#70
TheSaxRunner05 The Doctor Join Date: Apr 2006 Age: 35 Posts: 6,145	Re: Let's talk about sex To answer the OP: I would recommend people should be at least eighteen and far enough along in the relationship to live together (when available/appropriate) before having sex. I think the act of sex should show a level of commitment that you plan on staying with that person for the rest of your life, whether you're actually married yet or not seems immaterial to me. You cannot know, however, if you are ready to spend the rest of your life with someone if you have not lived with them, IMO. __________________

10-21-2010, 11:15 PM	#71
Nyokou （￣ー￣） Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: United States Age: 32 Posts: 4,246	Re: Let's talk about sex I wish my bf was like you, Dossar. __________________ Twitter \| Instagram \| Snapchat: Nyokou

10-21-2010, 11:17 PM	#73
scientific FFR Player Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 156	Re: Let's talk about sex the stigma surrounding sex is ridiculous. its fun, can be amazing, can be terrible, but is always pretty fun. not an important activity at all, just something 2 consenting people do for many reasons. not a big deal at all basically __________________ ya

10-21-2010, 11:25 PM	#77
darkshark Nothing. Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: The Pacific Ocean Posts: 4,189	Re: Let's talk about sex Stick it in her butt and pee. I'm kinda back and forth when it comes to sex. Sometimes I can't get enough of it, and other times I just feel like it's a waste of time and could be spending that time doing something else. I've had a couple of flings here and there, as well as a few long term. Flings are great and all but I can definitely say sex is much more enjoyable when there are heavy feelings toward the person you're with. Also, I agree completely with Phynx, sex is an integral part of a relationship, and waiting until you're married is completely out of the question, it just doesn't work in today's society.

10-21-2010, 11:25 PM	#78
jchinzilla i like cheese Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Virginia Age: 26 Posts: 2,106	Re: Let's talk about sex love between men and women, and love for family and friends, is often possessive, exclusive, limited, and mixed with selfish feelings. There's an expectation of getting back at least as much as one gives. Such love might seem quite deep, but it easily vanishes if it doesn't live up to expectations __________________

10-21-2010, 11:27 PM	#79
CAFK FFR Player Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: vidchat Age: 34 Posts: 186	Re: Let's talk about sex Honestly, there's nothing wrong with sex to begin with...I believe in waiting for the right person that I truly 'love', whether married or not to have sex with. If that means waiting til marriage for that to happen, then so be it. Too many people nowadays use sex as something other than what it should be, which is meant to be special between two partners that have mutual feelings for one another...not shared with more than one person. Although I feel that people would disagree in saying that there is never one 'right person' in the world. __________________ The Ultimate Reward Is Honor, Not Awards. Do you like...dragons? http://www.twitch.tv/aeliathes

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