So me and my girlfriend are in a fight...

[EnR]

I bring her flowers at school and a panda shaped card and offer to bring her home and she gets pissed and starts bitching saying how I'm not supposed to see her and ****.

Long story short I drive her home she bitches at me for bringing her presents(she smiled when I gave them) and then her mom barges in and starts bitching at me(her moms a whore btw, she sleeps with men all the time, not joking haha) threatning to call the police.

I do something nice and I get ****ed over.

We've been dating for 2 years, it was our 2 year anniversary on the 1st and it's over and I don't know what to do. I know the internet is not the place to put this kind if ****, but I have nothing.

[Emo_Saur_]

INB4 Kill yourself.

Hey if she wont accept the stuff, kick her to the curb.

[EnR]

It's hard when you're with someone for that long and they basically turn on you, she was being ignorant and wouldn't ever let me explain and everytime I did she'd do this kind of ****.

[xXDeltaXx]

In all seriousness, was she on her period? I know through experiences that some girls have serious mood swings or don't think things out correctly...(not being sexist I'm sure some guys do too...)

[EnR]

Aw for **** sakes she told me today she started her period aihgfbajshbgfjdsabgjdafbgjfdsbgjdshbgjdshgfb

Doesn't matter her mom hates me, she hates me, her dad is going to hear from them in .2 of a second. Should I take back my ****? She has an expensive ass ring that I got her that she doesn't want me to take back, but yet she won't wear it because we're broken up.

[Etylukah]

Communication, the answer to every drama.

[EnR]

Originally Posted by Etylukah

Communication, the answer to every drama.

I always want to talk about our arguments, she never does. She'll never let me explain anything and when I do she ignores it. She got that from her mom because her mom is an ignorant bitch.

[EnR]

The worst part about it is that her phone is dead so i can't call her cell and she's sleeping at her moms for the next 2 days. her mom isn't letting me talk to her.

[xXDeltaXx]

Well I wouldnt ask for the stuff back if theres any chance of it working out...That would just complete the split

[EnR]

When a girls parents theatens to call the police if you call one more time, I think it's over.

[Emo_Saur_]

Her mother and your girlfriend have the same PMS schedule.

[MrRubix]

what

there is essential backstory missing from this

"not supposed to see her"?

[Mulie]

Shame. Etylukah's right about communication. Unfortunately it's not always easy, and therefore arguably impossible at times. This is just a part of of why romantic relationships don't make any sense. Shame. Get over it. That's all I can say.

[Izzy]

Originally Posted by MrRubix

what

there is essential backstory missing from this

"not supposed to see her"?

Agreed, this story makes no sense to me.

[MrRubix]

From what I am gathering, EnR and his girlfriend are broken up, so she's really an ex-girlfriend at this point.

He shows up at her school with a card + flowers and she flips on the bitchmode.

Mom threatens to call the cops because she apparently knows they're broken up and she doesn't want EnR dating her daughter (?).

So basically everyone in that girl's family is bitching out EnR.

I say move on and find someone who's on the same wavelength. Recoup whatever finances you can but don't steal. If you can't recoup anything, cut your losses and move on.

[Emo_Saur_]

Originally Posted by MrRubix

From what I am gathering, EnR and his girlfriend are broken up, so she's really an ex-girlfriend at this point.

He shows up at her school with a card + flowers and she flips on the bitchmode.

Mom threatens to call the cops because she apparently knows they're broken up and she doesn't want EnR dating her daughter (?).

So basically everyone in that girl's family is bitching out EnR.

I say move on and find someone who's on the same wavelength. Recoup whatever finances you can but don't steal. If you can't recoup anything, cut your losses and move on.

All of this, I think you've hit it right on.

[EnR]

Originally Posted by Izzy

Agreed, this story makes no sense to me.

We were in an arguement about being together, wether or not we stay together and she told me to not talk to her, see her or text her unless she texts me first, so I do this for the first 2 days and then today decide to buy her flowers and a panda card(favorite animal) and that's when she said she didn't want any gifts from me and yea thats when this happened.

[MrRubix]

Originally Posted by EnR

We were in an arguement about being together, wether or not we stay together and she told me to not talk to her, see her or text her unless she texts me first, so I do this for the first 2 days and then today decide to buy her flowers and a panda card(favorite animal) and that's when she said she didn't want any gifts from me and yea thats when this happened.

At your age, this is likely code for "I'm into someone else -- if this new venture doesn't work out, I'll call you back given that you implicitly agree to be my fallback," and therefore any attempt to put yourself back on the forefront is going to result in a lot of clashing.

[EnR]

She'll end up missing me because her turtle, rabbit, hamster and fish are all bought from me, she also has tons of my old clothes as pj's, my ring, tons of panda teddy bears and the dress she wore at my prom.

I'll let her keep everything, I've spent more on taking her out then everything else I've gotten her.

[Emo_Saur_]

So, in her eyes you guys are over..

Edit: Man, I'm sorry but buying all that for a female just isn't worth. At least it's not until you're going to ask her to marry you, or are already married. If she was in it for the money, she wouldn't be doing this though. So, all I can say is leave it alone, there is no need to get all bent out of shape over ONE female. Two months, two weeks, two decades, two days, two years, there will always be a female to rebound on.