Is this classified as cheating.

**EnR** · 08-31-2009, 04:08 PM

Alright well, my girlfriend went to a friends house to sleep over and I didn't trust her at all and didn't want her to go, I knew deep down something would happen.

She told me she was with 3 other girls, just them all night.

She tells me the next day that she got drunk, made out with 2 of the girls and then one of the guys kissed her, she said she backed away when he put her arm around her and then she got up, he got up and kissed her.

I think this is cheating.

What do you think I should do, we've been dating for 10 months.

btw I'm going to beat the **** out of the kid, since he knew she had a bf.

**Xandertrax** · 08-31-2009, 04:11 PM

I would say that is cheating (or at least showing that she's got a flighty soul). But at least she came out and told you...

But if you don't trust her, then why are you in a relationship in the first place? Did you voice your opinion about it?

p.s. girl on girl hawt. and extreme sloppy seconds.

moral of the story: don't get drunk, you do stupid things.

**Vanilla Mnm** · 08-31-2009, 04:12 PM

This is the first time anything like this has ever happened? If it isn't then I'd definitely suggest breaking up :/

I'd probably consider that cheating though :/ But then again I'm 15. Hugging is like cheating to us.. Okay, maybe not, but yeah. I'd say that's cheating.

That's a pretty tight situation.

**EnR** · 08-31-2009, 04:14 PM

I'm 16, 17 next month and she's 14, 15 next month. it's the first time she's done this, she's actually only cheated once in the past and it was with me when she was dating another guy.

DAD1 · 08-31-2009, 04:15 PM

**Vanilla Mnm** · 08-31-2009, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by EnR

I'm 16, 17 next month and she's 14, 15 next month. it's the first time she's done this, she's actually only cheated once in the past and it was with me when she was dating another guy.

Looool. I think you should be fine then, she's young & immature. That's your only problem. If she doesn't have a history of cheating then I think she just made a stupid mistake. Is she really like upset about what she did? I mean like Xandertrax said, she didn't hide it from you. So either she's losing interest or didn't want you to find out on your own & have you lose all the trust that you have in her already.

justaguy · 08-31-2009, 04:20 PM

you're dating a 14 year old and you're 16

lmao

dating people younger than you in high school is pretty much the dumbest **** ever. sounds like you're shallow and stupid. you should probably kill yourself.

**EnR** · 08-31-2009, 04:21 PM

She lied several times about the situation and called mme during that night and told me everything was good.

justaguy · 08-31-2009, 04:23 PM

aka you're dating a 14 year old

**EnR** · 08-31-2009, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by justaguy

you're dating a 14 year old and you're 16

lmao

dating people younger than you in high school is pretty much the dumbest **** ever. sounds like you're shallow and stupid. you should probably kill yourself.

How does that make me shallow.

**Vanilla Mnm** · 08-31-2009, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by justaguy

you're dating a 14 year old and you're 16

lmao

dating people younger than you in high school is pretty much the dumbest **** ever. sounds like you're shallow and stupid. you should probably kill yourself.

2 years apart, wow, big deal.. I'm a year & a half apart from my girlfriend. She's two grades below me. Oh well, age really doesn't matter. Someone who comes online to insult someone about there relationship with another girl is pretty loserish..

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Originally Posted by EnR

She lied several times about the situation and called mme during that night and told me everything was good.

Eh, I'd definitely ask her like straightforward if she's lost any interest in you or anything. Tell her to be completely honest. I did that with my x girlfriend & got everything out from her. You might be thinking this over a lot in the next couple weeks, so if you just ask her to be straightforward with everything without sugar coating anything at all she'll just tell you if she really isn't interested as much anymore or something. If she still really likes you or whatever then I'd say stay with her, she just made a mistake, once again, she's young & immature.

**Silver_Brian** · 08-31-2009, 04:25 PM

High school relationships are overdramatic and overall mean nothing.

super kid · 08-31-2009, 04:26 PM

cheat on her back, then its ok

As long as she doesn't find out about it.

justaguy · 08-31-2009, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by EnR

How does that make me shallow.

i don't feel like explaining relationship and attraction dynamics to someone who gets heated with angst over relationship microdrama and makes ffr chitchat topics about it

**A2P** · 08-31-2009, 04:27 PM

also she cheated on some dude with you

you didnt expect that? O_O

**customstuff** · 08-31-2009, 04:29 PM

Dude, people do stupid things when they are drunk. I say that it's okay right now, but if she does it again give her the boot.

justaguy · 08-31-2009, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla Mnm

2 years apart, wow, big deal.. I'm a year & a half apart from my girlfriend.

mad coolie

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Originally Posted by Vanilla Mnm

she's young & immature.

duh

**EnR** · 08-31-2009, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by customstuff

Dude, people do stupid things when they are drunk. I say that it's okay right now, but if she does it again give her the boot.

She wasn't supposed to be drinking in the first place.

**psychoangel691** · 08-31-2009, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by EnR

I'm 16, 17 next month and she's 14, 15 next month. it's the first time she's done this, she's actually only cheated once in the past and it was with me when she was dating another guy.

If she cheated on someone else with you honestly you never should have dated her. Another note to me being drunk is not a good excuse for anything. If you know you can't control yourself under the influence then don't do it at all. I guess the question you need to ask yourself is can you really trust her? And do you love her that much that you wanna risk her doing something like that again. But in all honesty you're both young. Go out have some fun screw the relationship crap right now. lol

DAD1 · 08-31-2009, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by justaguy

i don't feel like explaining relationship and attraction dynamics to someone who gets heated with angst over relationship microdrama and makes ffr chitchat topics about it

are you an expert on relationships rofl

08-31-2009, 04:08 PM	#1
EnR Massive flaming dildos. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: A-Town, Ontario Age: 31 Posts: 8,431	Is this classified as cheating. Alright well, my girlfriend went to a friends house to sleep over and I didn't trust her at all and didn't want her to go, I knew deep down something would happen. She told me she was with 3 other girls, just them all night. She tells me the next day that she got drunk, made out with 2 of the girls and then one of the guys kissed her, she said she backed away when he put her arm around her and then she got up, he got up and kissed her. I think this is cheating. What do you think I should do, we've been dating for 10 months. btw I'm going to beat the **** out of the kid, since he knew she had a bf. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

08-31-2009, 04:11 PM	#2
Xandertrax om nom nom Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: CT/VT Age: 34 Posts: 1,495	Re: Is this classified as cheating. I would say that is cheating (or at least showing that she's got a flighty soul). But at least she came out and told you... But if you don't trust her, then why are you in a relationship in the first place? Did you voice your opinion about it? p.s. girl on girl hawt. and extreme sloppy seconds. moral of the story: don't get drunk, you do stupid things.

08-31-2009, 04:12 PM	#3
Vanilla Mnm cavs Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Saratoga, New York Posts: 3,258	Re: Is this classified as cheating. This is the first time anything like this has ever happened? If it isn't then I'd definitely suggest breaking up :/ I'd probably consider that cheating though :/ But then again I'm 15. Hugging is like cheating to us.. Okay, maybe not, but yeah. I'd say that's cheating. That's a pretty tight situation.

08-31-2009, 04:14 PM	#4
EnR Massive flaming dildos. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: A-Town, Ontario Age: 31 Posts: 8,431	Re: Is this classified as cheating. I'm 16, 17 next month and she's 14, 15 next month. it's the first time she's done this, she's actually only cheated once in the past and it was with me when she was dating another guy. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

08-31-2009, 04:15 PM	#5
DAD1 FFR Player Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 185	Re: Is this classified as cheating.

08-31-2009, 04:20 PM	#7
justaguy Forum User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: next 2 no 1 in oregon rofl Posts: 3,566	Re: Is this classified as cheating. you're dating a 14 year old and you're 16 lmao dating people younger than you in high school is pretty much the dumbest **** ever. sounds like you're shallow and stupid. you should probably kill yourself.

08-31-2009, 04:21 PM	#8
EnR Massive flaming dildos. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: A-Town, Ontario Age: 31 Posts: 8,431	Re: Is this classified as cheating. She lied several times about the situation and called mme during that night and told me everything was good. __________________ [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

08-31-2009, 04:23 PM	#9
justaguy Forum User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: next 2 no 1 in oregon rofl Posts: 3,566	Re: Is this classified as cheating. aka you're dating a 14 year old

08-31-2009, 04:27 PM	#15
A2P FFR Veteran Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: nah Age: 34 Posts: 3,127	Re: Is this classified as cheating. also she cheated on some dude with you you didnt expect that? O_O

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