How is your social life right now?

[kommisar]

Originally Posted by DarknessXoXLight

i don't want any people. it's not worth it.

well with that attitude yeah probably


I ditched all my childhood friends in 10th grade for people who actually gave a shit about me. Been with them ever since and it was totally worth it.

[Izzy]

It could be possible that everyone you know or have ever known are incompatible with you. Perhaps your personality and values are radically different from anyone in your area or entire state or even your country, but I think it is a little ridiculous to make the claim that all people aren't worth communicating with.

[DossarLX ODI]

It's not worth being with people who have incompatible interests. Even my own family has disgusted me to the point where I never really want to talk with them anymore, but being pleasant goes a long way.

Nobody likes being around unpleasant people. That works both ways. If someone is being unpleasant to you, don't hang out with that person. If you're being unpleasant, people won't want to build a connection with you.

[Pseudo Enigma]

I don't want friends but they somehow magically plop themselves in front of me and force me to spend the time I don't spend in my room with them. If they didn't somehow manage to just grow like weeds I wouldn't have bothered making any either. As I said before, It's tiring.

But the one nice thing about having friends is that you actually feel as if you have a presence in the world that isn't confirmed by your conscience. Go missing for a few days? They will take note of it and ask where you've been. The world's a funny place. And if you haven't found people like that yet, then I guess it's a Canada thing.

[andy-o24]

Saw a friend as I was coming back from dinner and was invited to her room to check it out. We ended up hanging out for something like five hours. I guess that's a step in the right direction.

-o24

[squeesfan]

Sounds pretty lame but my girlfriend and 3 close friends is all I need. I know a lot of people that I enjoy being in their company (as a result of working in a pub which is very local driven) but don't go out my way to see. My partner was my best friend for nearly a year before we went out and we live together so I'm very content spending most of my time with her.

[RagedBerserker]

My only friend is made of plastic and metal. I call him Zeus and/or God.

[Trogdor!!!!]

Originally Posted by Pseudo Enigma

But the one nice thing about having friends is that you actually feel as if you have a presence in the world that isn't confirmed by your conscience. Go missing for a few days? They will take note of it and ask where you've been. The world's a funny place. And if you haven't found people like that yet, then I guess it's a Canada thing.

It's funny you mention this because I never noticed until I moved to Canada that people around my age at the time were at a lot more caring and friendly.

[choof]

i think i'm just going to worry about social life when i start college

[kommisar]

Originally Posted by squeesfan

Sounds pretty lame but my girlfriend and 3 close friends is all I need. I know a lot of people that I enjoy being in their company (as a result of working in a pub which is very local driven) but don't go out my way to see. My partner was my best friend for nearly a year before we went out and we live together so I'm very content spending most of my time with her.

basically my situation as well.

it's the group of friends I have that I go drinking with every saturday night at pubs

super typical but i love it haha