03-2-2024, 05:59 PM | #21 |
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discriminating against people on the basis that they're gay is, in fact, the literal definition of homophobia
given that it's a place of worship, if you ask them to explain why you're disallowed, you're most likely gonna get the same kinda response as seen here: (hence why I avatar posted and didnt actually respond to this trite shit) Last edited by _choof; 03-2-2024 at 06:01 PM.. |
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OK, (i swear this day has been me switching from sad to worried like 40 times)
I didnt think of them as homophobic because they (the religon) says that their not homophobic. I thought this until just today. Sure they dont kill you but it's still homphobic for them not to let you in. not to mention I am just now remembering all the talks they give about the LGBTQ. my god... I have been listening to them for so long now. As I type this im relizing now how homophobic they have been. I don't know how to feel. I've been listening to how the lgbtq will not enter the kingdom of god, but how they can become good people if they just become straight. |
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This will probebly be one of my last messages on this thread. I have now realized how homophobic my religon is. I always thought that they were wern't homophobic because
1. they said that they wern't homophobic 2. they were subtel with the homophobia 3. I've been in the religon for my whole life so I never questioned it To be honest, I think realizing this has made me feel better. I always thought that questioning religon was a bad thing, so when I found out that I was not a straight male I thought I was a monster. And I thought that burying my feelings and seeing the LGBTQ+ community through religious glasses would help become more "better" (When I say "Better" I mean better for the religon) but it didn't. But I see clearly now, more clearly then ever before. I'm not a monster nor demon for existing. I just dont belong in that religon, its not for me. I still have to be in it until I move out and get a stable support system outside my family. (not saying my family is bad, they would probably be ok with it after a couple months. it's just that I dont want to be with them in those inbetween monthes) But this has made my thinking way better. Im not ashamed to be gay or trans now. Last edited by Andromena_M31; 03-6-2024 at 09:17 PM.. |
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Also more on topic: Aren't all religions bound to have some amount of believers who are discriminatory and judgmental and also have some passages/values that depict such things? Sure some religions probably more than others, I'm no connoisseur of religious books and values by any means, but that's how it's appeared to be to me so far. In any case, I wish you good luck with your situation and I hope you can find a way to further improve your safe space. |
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Anyway, it is true. I'm not LGBTQ+ for personal reasons. |
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im not trying to be mean cuz you seem like a good guy, but like no ones forcing you to and the comment was a little pointless for the thread at hand
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if it's the former, repressing your sexuality due to your religion telling you that you're a fundamentally bad person because of it happens all the time, especially if you risk violence if it's the latter, I did not take your original quote out of context, it's the typical trite religious ignorance (willful or not) about what being gay or trans actually is and is not helpful in the slightest edit: lmao Last edited by _choof; 03-20-2024 at 09:48 AM.. |
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Quick questions
1. Can I say that im both non-binary and bigender at the same time? 2. Is it weird how I want to be called a girl but want a relationship between me and a guy still be considered gay? |
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I don't think anybody's an authority on such questions, although while you're most likely free to say you're this and that, just be aware that if that (probably rare) topic comes up, most people may be confused naturally. If the emotional gain you get from it outweighs the potential confusing moments, I don't see why you couldn't say those things.
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I've never heard of someone being both NB and bigender. If this is the case, I'd say that would be genderfluid.
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you can present yourself however you'd like. the categorizations of gender and sexuality exist as an attempt at helping people convey certain ideas about their identity to others, not as a rule of what one can and cannot be. if you exist slightly outside of established lines, so be it.
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I think gender fluid might make more sense for how you are meaning the word? Or just non-binary But that's just my personal take on the subject and it's totally up to you how you want to identify for yourself |
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