Is cybersex cheating? - Page 2

**Hakulyte** · 03-18-2013, 02:21 AM

Problem is defining "cheating" and "cybersex" and in both cases, it's dependant of what each person in the relationship thinks which leads to communication/commitment which leads to what's already been said. As not everyone has the same moral values, there's no reason to try arguing over "how we would feel". The only logical conclusion is to figure out what is ethically correct. There's probably some places in the world where it's completely fine and others where it's totally wrong.

Oh, apparently it's not-so-legal in multiple scenarios for multiple reasons that has nothing to do with the OP. Better avoid it for your well-being.

I guess cybersex can be compared as a white man saying the n word.

Izzy · 03-18-2013, 03:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Mourningfall

(who she's acquired feelings for)

That's where the problem lies. Not in the cybersex itself.

I wouldn't be bothered by some random people getting aroused to my hypothetical girlfriend that doesn't have feeling for them.

Trogdor!!!! · 03-18-2013, 04:03 AM

Are you people serious

Like really

If you're causing emotional distress in any way similar to cheating in real life then I'm sorry, it's pretty much grounds for being accused of just cheating on someone in general regardless of whether it's physical or not. Like I'm 100% confused as to why this is even something to talk about. If anyone you ever date is ok with you cybering in any form then there's something just as wrong with him/her than there is with you, and if you absolutely just have to do it with someone else then you obviously aren't committed enough to be in a relationship and you need to spend the rest of your life fucking hookers in a Motel 6.

Why is this even a discussion

WHY

**Razor** · 03-18-2013, 04:21 AM

uh, if i cam fuck someone from tumblr who's a 9/10 you aint gotta know about it

so no

FissionMailed1 · 03-18-2013, 04:24 AM

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**Mollocephalus** · 03-18-2013, 04:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Razor

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these two words put together like this are hilarious

FFRN00B90210 · 03-18-2013, 04:42 AM

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I once imitated a white female to watch a white male masturbate to me on a web camera. It was deceitful.

**Mourningfall** · 03-18-2013, 04:50 AM

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**Cavernio** · 03-18-2013, 12:30 PM

Yes it's cheating but I'm not sure cheating is wrong.

**devonin** · 03-18-2013, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Cavernio

Yes it's cheating but I'm not sure cheating is wrong.

Betraying someone's trust isn't wrong? Best of luck with that.

**RB_Spirit** · 03-18-2013, 01:25 PM

Betraying someones trust is funny hur hur. If they were dumb enough to trust u, than no, cyber sex isn't wrong ^^ keep fappin'

**FontSize72LOL** · 03-18-2013, 03:06 PM

It depends on the level of emotional commitment you have with the person you're doing the cybersex with i suppose. While i don't think its cheating per say, its not something you want to do when you're in a relationship already. I'd put it on the equivalent of going out to a strip joint to see your favorite girl/guy strip.

That's not to say I'd tolerate it at all. While i don't think its cheating, i doubt I'd stay with someone displaying their goods to random strangers on the internet. Its still a trust issue.

Choofers · 03-18-2013, 03:52 PM

god gurl I'm slappin my dick all over the monitor how do you like that huh??

Izzy · 03-18-2013, 03:54 PM

I sometimes forget this is a critical thinking section.

**Stage:** · 03-18-2013, 04:25 PM

It's the couple's decision and no one else's business. If you agree with your partner on the fact that ''cybersex isn't cheating in THIS relationship'' well it isn't. If they don't agree, it's ''cheating''.

I don't think this can be generalized... it's between two individuals. There is no such thing as ''relationship rules'' so I don't understand where this question is going.

**FontSize72LOL** · 03-18-2013, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by MrPopadopalis25

what is sex

Does it have something to do with holding hands and stuff?

**Charu** · 03-18-2013, 05:16 PM

Caught red handed that is.

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I apologize for this really forced statement.

However, on the topic of cybersex being considered cheating. It's really no question, if you're in a relationship, of course it is! But you don't need another person saying that since a lot of you have already stated it.

I also agree with the "What your partner thinks is considered..." argument.

**phe0nixblade** · 03-18-2013, 05:40 PM

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**Dynam0** · 03-18-2013, 05:41 PM

As long as there is no double standard and both partners agree that it's acceptable for either one to engage in said activities then go for it.

The majority of people would probably have values consistent with saying that cybersex is cheating though, myself included.

On the other hand for example, there's people out there who are perfectly fine with watching their wives get pig roasted. so yeah...I'm sure some people will think it's harmless rofl

**Mourningfall** · 03-18-2013, 05:42 PM

Relationships are a two way street.
If they're cool with you eSlutting, they probably think you feel the same way in return.
I don't see how that's considered a relationship.

'Fuck buddies with a reason to argue' is the only label I could come up with.

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03-18-2013, 02:21 AM	#21
Hakulyte the Haku Join Date: Jul 2005 Age: 35 Posts: 4,527	Re: Is cybersex cheating? Problem is defining "cheating" and "cybersex" and in both cases, it's dependant of what each person in the relationship thinks which leads to communication/commitment which leads to what's already been said. As not everyone has the same moral values, there's no reason to try arguing over "how we would feel". The only logical conclusion is to figure out what is ethically correct. There's probably some places in the world where it's completely fine and others where it's totally wrong. Oh, apparently it's not-so-legal in multiple scenarios for multiple reasons that has nothing to do with the OP. Better avoid it for your well-being. I guess cybersex can be compared as a white man saying the n word. Last edited by Hakulyte; 03-18-2013 at 03:03 AM..

03-18-2013, 04:03 AM	#23
Trogdor!!!! Forever Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,664	Re: Is cybersex cheating? Are you people serious Like really If you're causing emotional distress in any way similar to cheating in real life then I'm sorry, it's pretty much grounds for being accused of just cheating on someone in general regardless of whether it's physical or not. Like I'm 100% confused as to why this is even something to talk about. If anyone you ever date is ok with you cybering in any form then there's something just as wrong with him/her than there is with you, and if you absolutely just have to do it with someone else then you obviously aren't committed enough to be in a relationship and you need to spend the rest of your life fucking hookers in a Motel 6. Why is this even a discussion *WHY* __________________ Violets Forever

03-18-2013, 04:24 AM	#25
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03-18-2013, 12:30 PM	#29
Cavernio sunshine and rainbows Join Date: Feb 2006 Age: 41 Posts: 1,987	Re: Is cybersex cheating? Yes it's cheating but I'm not sure cheating is wrong.

03-18-2013, 03:06 PM	#32
FontSize72LOL ☆~{2D <3}~☆ Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: World Age: 33 Posts: 833	Re: Is cybersex cheating? It depends on the level of emotional commitment you have with the person you're doing the cybersex with i suppose. While i don't think its cheating per say, its not something you want to do when you're in a relationship already. I'd put it on the equivalent of going out to a strip joint to see your favorite girl/guy strip. That's not to say I'd tolerate it at all. While i don't think its cheating, i doubt I'd stay with someone displaying their goods to random strangers on the internet. Its still a trust issue. Last edited by FontSize72LOL; 03-18-2013 at 03:25 PM..

03-18-2013, 03:52 PM	#33
Choofers FFR Player Join Date: Dec 2008 Age: 33 Posts: 6,205	Re: Is cybersex cheating? god gurl I'm slappin my dick all over the monitor how do you like that huh?? __________________

03-18-2013, 03:54 PM	#34
Izzy Snek Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Kansas Age: 34 Posts: 9,192	Re: Is cybersex cheating? I sometimes forget this is a critical thinking section.

03-18-2013, 04:25 PM	#35
Stage: FFR Veteran Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Montreal Posts: 282	Re: Is cybersex cheating? It's the couple's decision and no one else's business. If you agree with your partner on the fact that ''cybersex isn't cheating in THIS relationship'' well it isn't. If they don't agree, it's ''cheating''. I don't think this can be generalized... it's between two individuals. There is no such thing as ''relationship rules'' so I don't understand where this question is going.

03-18-2013, 05:41 PM	#39
Dynam0 The Dominator Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Bay, ON Age: 35 Posts: 8,987	Re: Is cybersex cheating? As long as there is no double standard and both partners agree that it's acceptable for either one to engage in said activities then go for it. The majority of people would probably have values consistent with saying that cybersex is cheating though, myself included. On the other hand for example, there's people out there who are perfectly fine with watching their wives get pig roasted. so yeah...I'm sure some people will think it's harmless rofl

03-18-2013, 05:42 PM	#40
Mourningfall ⇐⇓⇑⇒ Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Paradise Posts: 1,627	Re: Is cybersex cheating? Relationships are a two way street. If they're cool with you eSlutting, they probably think you feel the same way in return. I don't see how that's considered a relationship. 'Fuck buddies with a reason to argue' is the only label I could come up with.

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